posted December 04, 2007 10:30 PM            

Both men and women with Neptunian infulence tend to idealize sex.

I have a Mars/Neptune conjunction (on my DC) and I definitely see sex in a much more nice/positive/perfect light - than most people I know.

When you use words like 'very sexual', 'perverse', 'degradation' etc.. a Piscean influenced person would look at you not knowing, what in the world you are talking about lol It may come across as perverse in your world according to your definitions of what sex should or shouldn't be.. but in Pisces land - everything they do is beautiful to them and the other person .. otherwise they wouldn't do it. They also wouldn't describe sex in those terms.

Pisces/Neptune influence is the least judgmental so they are pretty accepting of everything and everyone without judging them as perverse. Nothing is 'socially inadequate' to Pisces. Everything is perfectly fine and everyone would be perfectly capable of it whether they say they would or not.

posted December 04, 2007 10:40 PM            

Anais Nin (Pisces Sun/Venus/Jupiter) - "one of the finest writers of female erotica" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ana%C3%AFs_Nin

posted December 04, 2007 11:04 PM            

going on 21

And MM is one of the most articulately intelligent rock stars to ever grace the planet. This coming from a Moon and Neptune.

posted December 04, 2007 11:44 PM              

I am an intensely sexual person although I do not display it readily. Most of my sexual interests/fantasies are centered around things that are certainly taboo or perverse (relative to my environment, upbringing, and society)..things I wouldn't dare tell a soul unless I was absolutely, fully comfortable with a person... Perhaps this is my Venus Scorpio and not all my Pisces?

posted December 05, 2007 12:15 AM            

Augentier, I think I know what you mean. I have met a Piscean who had a very religious upbringing and felt the same way about himself sexually. That being said I know a lot of other Pisceans and the majority are very open sexually. They don't find anything perverse, and make jokes about social norms.. (but your Sun isn't in Pisces, so maybe this doesn't apply as much)

I think you'll find, you'll change at some point in time. It's a matter of acceptance. There is nothing wrong with being the way you are, but you seem to be describing it in negative words (maybe it's just my interpretation?)
Who cares if it's 'taboo' or 'perverse' and who says? lol Do you think any of those people are asexual 'angels'?

The fact that you wouldn't let anyone know, sounds like you feel guilty about it.
Having Venus and Mars in water - it's very important for you to be able to have an emotional/sexual connection to someone. I understand that you'd want to be close to a person before they see this side of you. But this should be out of a desire for emotional connection, not out of a feeling of embarrassment/guilt over your sexuality.. The words 'wouldn't dare' imply guilt again.

posted December 05, 2007 12:17 AM              

Having said that, sexuality is linked to emotions for me (my Mars in Pisces also trines my moon in Scorpio and Saturn in Cancer), so I have never had casual sex in my life and I'm 32. And I don't get attracted to just anyone.

posted December 05, 2007 12:21 AM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted December 05, 2007 12:44 AM            

Nicely said!!

And my Fish soul thanks you...

As a Pisces sun, I have never been really that into "sex." It kind of bores me...tho I am highly Aqarian so that could explain that...very mental as far as sex is concerned...

Sex for me is in the bonding...the spiritual connection, the re-lating and not the act. I could do without the act alltogether as long as I have spiritual and emotional connection.

Having said that, I have never had a problem with my sexuality either and I think maybe this, at times, comes off to some folks as promiscuous, to the folks who are not so at ease with their sexuality, or insecure with themselves.

posted December 05, 2007 01:06 AM              

As far as not "daring" to go there - it's more of a reaction thing, I don't want to shock people by being blatant and giving that the general public would judge, I prefer to get comfy w/ someone so I know they can handle me.

posted December 05, 2007 01:10 AM            

I was not implying that you are ashamed at all!

posted December 05, 2007 08:31 AM            

I can regocinze a good looking man just like any other red-blodded woman, and in my younger years, the "look" of the type of the man I was into was where it was at. Now that I am older I have to have a connection that goes beyond, far beyond, a physical thing.

Sex can be intelligent for me because with my stellium of Mars, Merc and Juipter, closely conj in Aqua in the 3rd opposed to Uranus, I HAVE to connect mentally with someone. Actually intelligent men turn me on far beyond the physical aspects an individual has to offer.

If I get into a deep discussion about black holes and time warps and the mind of, say Gene Roddenberry, with a man, and sexual inuendos begin to rise, that, to me is far more staisfying than the actual act.

But with my Pisces soul, I have to have spiritual and emotional connection as well.

posted December 05, 2007 12:22 PM              

Pisces rising
neptune in Scorpio/8th house
juno in 8th
psyche in 8th

neptune opposing mars in Taurus/venus

oh boy!!!!!
too hot for most, sadly

I leave you with this... it describes me and probably you, perfectly!

""""Why are Pisces women so damn sexy to me…?"

The following information is about sexuality--don't read it if you are easily offended and closed off from your own sexuality. And please remember, this information is based on the Fun "Pop Astrology" Sun sign (works for the Moon sign and ASC as well) and will not accurately describe any individual although if you have lot of Pisces in your chart, or a Pisces lover...you will see some of yourself (or your lover) or at least your fantasies here.

Pisces is hot. A strange thing to say about a water sign...or is it? Like Scorpio, Pisces is very much focused on sex. These two signs have quite a bit in common sexually. They are both mysterious, albeit in different ways. Scorpio fairly oozes unfathomable mystery--dark, decadent, and delightful. Pisces mystery is more subtle, more spiritual, more changing. Pisces is mutable water, after all.

Ruled by Neptune, Pisces is at home in the 12th house of the zodiac. The touch of the Pisces alternates between hard and soft, but it is always memorable. Their eyes will melt into your soul. They know how to make any moment magical; they can turn even the worst situation or tortuous sexual position into a fantasy come true.

What sets Pisces apart from all the other signs sexually is their willingness to try anything. Scorpio will indulge all sexuality too, but a Scorpio wants it to be their own idea. Pisces doesn't mind if you are the instigator, in fact, he or she enjoys your suggestions and will gladly participate.

There is a dark side to Pisces that isn't often discussed. Bondage and control issues figure quite prominently in Neptune's sexual underworld. A Pisces man will play both sides of the dominance and submission game, although he often prefers to be in charge. He is ultimately attracted to a sensuous, powerful woman who knows what she wants in life and is consciously working on obtaining it.

This is not a contradiction: Pisces wants a strong woman because it is even more exciting for him to have his lady, his powerful, domineering lady, under his control.

The Piscean female is also suited for both roles, but she prefers to be the 'slave' most of the time. She too is attracted to the powerful and she will readily obey the right man. Because of her submissive nature, a Pisces woman doesn't enjoy being on top of her lover, but she will do it in order to please him (or her).

Some Pisces need a mix of pleasure and pain to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Their interest in the occult can turn to role-playing in the bedroom. Vampyrism is a favorite theme. Biting, cutting with small razors, drinking of menstrual blood--all these are possibilities. Anything goes when Pisces is looking for satisfaction. They are highly suggestible and eager to please.

posted December 05, 2007 12:28 PM              

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Scorpio men can have multiple orgasms

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posted December 05, 2007 12:59 PM              

OMG I have moon in Aries too :P

It's all true lol

Venus in Aries too *sigh*

posted December 05, 2007 01:03 PM              

I`ll give you a Christmas present then

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Moon in Aries
Quick response, instant turn-on or turn-off. Won't pull punch. Can reach peaks quickly. Capable of multiple orgasms, but impatient with long foreplay. Once aroused, wants to get down to business. Super intense, but burns out quickly. May come too fast for partner. Needs slowing down to fully enjoy experience. Ready for anything; can get in over head if not careful. May burn out relationships when partner can't keep up pace. Needs constant new stimulation to keep sex stimulating, alive.

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