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sinderlou
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posted December 07, 2007 05:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What sign or placement indicators show if a person is the type that likes or needs to have have more than relationship at one time.

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Hermes28
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posted December 07, 2007 09:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Gemini.

...and other Air Signs.

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augentier
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posted December 07, 2007 09:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My 8th house is in Gemini (but i have no planets in the 8th)...I have lots of crushes at one time, and prefer to be the object of desire for several men, too.


I have Mars in the 5th, both in Pisces..I feel sexual energy toward several people on a daily basis.

That doesn't mean I act on any of it, though. The rest of my chart confines the **** in me, thank god.

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sinderlou
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posted December 08, 2007 09:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So air and water is mainly what to look for in charts?

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heart cakes
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posted December 08, 2007 09:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
descriptions for gemini confuse me cuz on the one hand you hear they are looking for their other half (twin), and on the other you hear they have crushes on lots of people. i must be missing something.

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sinderlou
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posted December 08, 2007 10:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe it just depends where the gem is placed heartcakes.

I just wonder about this because I have never been without a relationship since i was 15 years old. I feel like I wouldn't know how to function without one. I don't understand where this is coming from. So many of my freinds are single, divorced etc...and are content for the most part without a significant somebody but that would be so weird for me.

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hippichick
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posted December 08, 2007 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From experience, I would say a heavy 7th house influence.

Those who fall to earth under the influence of the 7th, are usually relationship centered.

The planets that fall in one's 7th can describe which kind of relationships and how the relationships will manifest in this lifetime.

I think airy individuals have more "relations" in life, period. Aquas extend themselves out there to connect with the whole of humanity, Gems communicate well and extend themselves out there with their need to "commun-icate, re-late."

Water signs tend to relate more spiritually and individually. I do not know any water individuals, including myself, that have alot of relations. The people we do connect with touch us deeply, that is why we can not have a large amount of relations.

I have known several folks with highly influeced 7th houses and these individuals tend to live and breath "relation"

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alma_pisces
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posted December 08, 2007 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am married but lately I have been very attracted to somebody at work. I don't know what that means because I have always had crushes on people but didn't think much of it.

But with this certain guy I can not get my mind off of him and everytime I see him I feel like I am single.I forget that I am married. Everytime we walk by eachother we lock eyes and I feel like I know him, even though I have never seen him before.

I AM STARTING TO WORRY.....

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sinderlou
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posted December 09, 2007 03:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alma

have you compared your chart with the guys at work chart

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Inner depths
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posted December 09, 2007 10:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My last boyfriend is an Aquarian with a cancer moon and jupiter in the 7th. Can you say multiple relationships. I went out with him for a few weeks and he is the type where he ALWAYS has to have somebody there for him at home and if he imagines that his relationship security is disappearing he will go ask another person out a week or two before he dumps the current girlfriend and he did this every few weeks. When he breaks up with the girl ,he still deeply expects that she will remain his friend - so that in the long run, when things don't work out with another girl - he can go back to her. (That didn't happen to me though - I'm the one shot deal and he used it up and was outta here!)

With jupiter on the 7th conj the Desc - it's only fitting that he has multiple relationships.

At the moment I think he's got a harem going on and many women on the string - don't know if he has got the village bicycle effect happening. He has an 8th house pluto.

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Aislinn
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posted December 09, 2007 10:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sag, I think
Gemini planets
Leo? All that applause

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BLKFox
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posted December 09, 2007 11:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag moon

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pixie22
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posted December 10, 2007 08:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im a gemini sun, sag moon, most of my other planets are in gemini.. wen i am 'single' i like to have several male interests who i can date and flirt with.. but if i am with somebody officially i dont so much as look or find anyone else attractive!

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SagSun
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posted December 10, 2007 09:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both of my parents have a Sag Venus and my mom also has a Gemini Moon ... they have been married for over 30 years and neither one of them has ever had several relationships at a time.

In general, I think it depends on the whole chart ... house placements, aspects etc. Certain placements (e.g. Sag and Gemini Moon, Venus in Gemini or Sag) can be an indicator that a person has the need to have more than one relationship at a time *IF* other placements confirm this as well. I don't think that a single placement can be responsible for this.

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monnie
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posted December 10, 2007 01:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i agree with hippichick about the 7th house influence and the planets in it. i have mars and mercury conj uranus in a scorpio ruled 7th house. i am really really down without a relationship, yet all my relationships are "spiced" with frequent quarrels. which makes me want to seek for more somewhere else. on the other hand, my bf has also a lot of planets in his 7th house but his are moon, venus and mars. so far, no proof of infidelity from him, despite him being a gemini. i suspect that hard aspects between venus and neptune can be blamed for a roving eye.

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bvanzy
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posted December 10, 2007 04:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A friend of mine who is NEVER faithful to his partners has Gemini Sun, Venus, and Gemini rising with a Leo Moon and Aries Mars.

I'd say fire and air signs, plus a strong sex drive (Mars conjunct Venus, etc).

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MUSTANG
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posted December 10, 2007 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just to clarify, are we talking about playing the field or cheating? Because they are two totally different things in my book.

All signs cheat, but not all signs play the field, so which are we talking about?

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted December 11, 2007 06:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sinderlou, For you it is because Aquarius is ruling your 5th house absolutely loaded with planets in Pisces. [Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Chiron, and Saturn as I recall? -though Saturn itself is Aquarius]
The 5th house deals with: Children, Creativity, Fun, Loves of your Life, Gambling, Games, etc.


Then add that Jupitar is in the 7th house with Venus, LOL!

Jupitar is very Expansive, Venus is the planet of LOVE... these are in the house that represents:
My other, Mate, Intimate friends, The type I attract, dealing with the public, etc.

Yeah, I'd go so far to say that you will always have a steady stream of admirers too...

Hope this helps...


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tuxedo meow
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posted December 14, 2007 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedo meow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sinderlou, i basically stay out and away from "boyfriend-girlfriend", "ol lady", wife, fiancee, or other "couple" relationships. Somtimes I do or begin to. More than a few times, at these times, I begin to be courted by several individuals generally unbeknownst to one another. i may have my hand held, indulge in a few assorted hugs, or that kind of thing but not intercourse. the fact is several rare-for-me ideal men that ancient-born-again-virgin-me likes back as possibilities are present i all at once instead of strung out over my life like a string of pearls. Although I am not doing anything "wrong", a lot of drama starts to occur, and emotional events that can get dangerous. Maybe Sag Moon is preserving my "independece"? and all that fire likes it 'hot'? What would show this situation? Some kind of transit as this serial partner isn't continuous but id reoccuring. love Tuxedo meow

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venusdeindia
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posted December 14, 2007 07:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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People who have many relationships at once "

can have dysfunctional parental relationships, apart rrpm astro.
i know a cappy sun, pisces mooner who is a womaniser.howz that

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alanabelle86
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posted December 14, 2007 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can't always just peg it on Air Signs/Fire Signs.

I'm heavily dominated by water, (Scorpio in particular), and I've always got my eye on the next partner as a "back up".

It's more than signs, it's about aspects.

I am loyal in relationships (Moon in the 8th), but I won't deny that I get restless. I know this, so I like to have ideal men on the side, as backup plans or as a "boost" (confidence wise) when times are going rough in a relationship.

My Sun is square my Moon = Insecurities in relationships. I have a general insecurity about not being good enough.

Moon in Leo quincunx Jupiter, square Venus with Venus trine Jupiter = I have a voracious appetite for flattery. I love, actually, am obsessed (Moon square Pluto) with obtaining as many admirers as I can. I don't go out looking for them, but if they come, I never turn them down. I keep a "list", you see...

Pair that with a Gemini DC = general curiosity when it comes to others and relationships, It's not that I don't like being committed, it's just the idea that "Ohh, I wonder what it'd be like to date that person, or that person, or that person, etc.

Pair that with an Aquarian Mars singleton opposite the Moon and Uranus conjunct the AC = my freedom to do what I want, when I please, and to answer to no one is a MAJOR driving force in my life. And sometimes, being committed to anyone other than myself scares me because of the addition responsibility. Chalk that up to Saturn in the 12th conjunct AC(fear/neglect/denial of responsibility).

Then to top it all off, Singleton Neptune in the 1st sextile the Sun, Chart Ruler Jupiter in Pisces square Uranus, 7th ruler, Mercury in the 12th house and Venus (ruler of my 5th) on the 11th/12th cusp hints at my tendency to chase the possibilities, rather that what is right in front of me and for me to desire what I can't immediately have, and to be disillusioned when I get it.


It's a number of factors. Keep that in mind, when you look at a chart. Don't just assume someone with Venus in Gemini is gonna turn down commitment from the get go.

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Sagittarius AC, Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Leo

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Hermes28
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posted December 14, 2007 10:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun - Taurus
Moon - Gemini
Asc. - Aquarius

Venus - Aries
Mars - Cancer

Venus Sq. Mars
Venus Sq. Saturn
Venus Conj. Chiron

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sinderlou
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posted December 14, 2007 10:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey thanks for all this info guys! This is just something that I have never understood about myself. I am so independent in different areas but I have a weakness for having to be in a relationship. They always overlap each other. I think I might have had about a 3-4 day break in between but thats about it. I felt like a lost puppy.

YourFreindInSpirit- Hey, thanks for checking out my chart. So I am basically "pre-programmed" to be like this, huh? Sure feels like it.

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posted December 14, 2007 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have known several folks with highly influeced 7th houses and these individuals tend to live and breath "relation"

Do I? I do in the sense that I enjoy being social to a certain degree, but I don't in the sense of always needing a partner. I haven't felt needy in that regard in a long time.

Mercury, Venus, and Neptune in Sag in the 7th.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted December 15, 2007 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

My 7th house is ruled by Pisces.. the only planet in my 7th house is Mars which is in Aries. The description says my relationships are prominently ruled by sex which I guess I can relate to. but theres also cuddling and whatnot and just having fun together.. as far as air goes with way I am in a relationship I do like to have alot of girls around me and I do socialize mainly with girls or more feminine ruled men. I have a Moon in Libra and a Venus in Gemini it didnt occur to me that I flirt with girls until this year.. they always tried telling me I did back in highschool nd whatnot lol.. but I always saw it as just joking around with a friend.. heh.. but thats as far as it goes.. the only time I get involved to do the thing described about my Mars 7th is when Im in a relationship.. Im not a sleezy guy and I have a Cancer sun and especially Virgin Ascendant to thank for that.

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