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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 06:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is my chart. Can anybody tell me why my love life is so messed up right now.

Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Gemini
Extremely active by nature, you like to get around, meet people and do different things. Very restless, you just can't seem to stay put. You need to be involved in several projects at once in order to keep your mind stimulated. You like to read books and to write letters and to talk -- constantly. Seemingly ageless, you will always appear to be much younger than you really are. Very adaptable and inquisitive, you are always open to new ideas and experiences. A "jack-of-all-trades", you are lively and versatile. Because of the high nervous tension that you always seem to have, athletic activity would be a good way for you to burn off energy. But be careful of a tendency to experience things only superficially -- try to dig in and absorb things at a deeper level.

Sun is in 20 Degrees Leo.
More than a bit of a showoff, you love to be the center of attention! But others do not usually mind because they tend to enjoy your genuine warmth and affection. Very spirited and willful, proud and self-important at times, you demand your own way. You are quite honest, however, and the respect of others is very important to you. You never compromise yourself and you pursue your goals with persistence and dedication. Your regal presence and demeanor draws you to positions of leadership and authority. But beware of being overly hardheaded, domineering, ostentatious or patronizing or you will lose the goodwill and admiration that you enjoy. Very theatrical, you live life on a grand scale wherever and whenever possible. Your strength and energy vitalizes those who come in contact with you.

Moon is in 07 Degrees Sagittarius.
An idealist, you prefer the grand, the beautiful, the good and the noble. You get very disappointed when your high expectations in life are not met. Very curious by nature, you enjoy traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. Try to avoid your tendency to ignore the small but important details of living. You are independent and free, and you want others to be that way, too. Optimistic, buoyant and cheerful, others like to have you around. You have an incessant desire to learn as much as possible about metaphysics, religion, philosophy and any other broad, deep subject. Your life tends to be punctuated by bursts of energy and frenetic activity.

Mercury is in 21 Degrees Leo.
You are usually quite convinced that your own ideas are correct and you enjoy persuading others that they are. At times, you are very stubborn and proud of your beliefs and principles, and you get very defensive when they are challenged. You appreciate truth and honesty -- you practice it yourself and expect it in others. You have good talent for organizing, directing and planning. You delight in being asked for your advice and counsel.

Venus is in 06 Degrees Cancer.
You like to be very close to other people. You need emotional support yourself and are willing to give it to others. When you feel unloved and insecure, you can be very jealous and possessive. You are not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest you. Your faithful devotion is one of your greatest gifts, but be careful not to become too dependent on others. Learn to stand on your own two feet and demand your own rights once in a while.

Mars is in 16 Degrees Libra.
You are very aware of the need to cooperate with others in order to further any effort. You are usually willing to compromise with others, although you can be quite competitive in a friendly way. Very fair- minded and impartial, you have the ability to sense injustice and the desire to take corrective actions to make proper compensations. You see both sides of issues and questions, but you tend to be undecided or wavering when forced to make choices that might make you vulnerable or unpopular.

Jupiter is in 19 Degrees Sagittarius.
You have a very strong sense of ethics and morality. You are widely read and may also be widely traveled because you are sincerely interested in expanding your knowledge of the world about you. At times, you have an annoying tendency to be self-righteous and preachy about your belief system. You are usually quite idealistic and you demand the right to be able to explore the entire world of experiences yourself. Remember to grant others the similar right -- be tolerant, not dogmatic.

Saturn is in 25 Degrees Leo.
Extremely self-reliant, you set very high standards of conduct and decorum for yourself, and you expect others with whom you associate to be that way, too. It is important that you had a strong father figure or role model early in life to mold your life course and direction. When you feel that those around you are unworthy or behaving badly, you withdraw, preferring solitude rather than associating with those who might besmirch your reputation.

Uranus is in 29 Degrees Gemini.
You, and your peer group as well, are attracted to new, unusual and revolutionary thoughts, ideas and lifestyles. You prefer abstract, idealistic solutions to practical, immediately useful answers. You delight in communications, the mass media, electronics, computers and all sorts of gadgetry.

Neptune is in 10 Degrees Libra.
You, and your entire generation, idealize all of the various experimental approaches to relationships -- including "living together", the formation of communes and collectives and the whole concept of "open" marriages. There is a stress on weakened commitments on an emotional and contractual level, but there are heightened expectations of the level of commitment and mutual support on the spiritual and metaphysical level.

Pluto is in 14 Degrees Leo.
For your entire generation, this is a time when the relationship of the individual to society as a whole is being thoroughly re-examined. Major attempts will be made to find a balance between the need to be self-sufficient and the need to honor debts of social commitment.

N. Node is in 08 Degrees Taurus.
It's not in your nature to seek out many casual acquaintances in your daily round of activities. You feel much more comfortable with a small, close-knit group of people -- those with whom you can relax and work toward known and clearly defined goals. Your loyalty to a person or group, once given, is forever -- you'll expend all of your quite considerable energy in seeing that the group stays together and prospers. You choose your partners and relationships so carefully that you're bound to gain certain advantages from them, including those of a material nature. Be careful though not to let mere self-service be your motivation in establishing your connections -- make sure that there's an even give-and-take!


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I miss you like the night would miss the moon..the daylight would miss light!!
Never knew what love felt like before I met you...now, I am messed up!

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Azalaksh
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posted December 08, 2007 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
to LL, Augustina

Transiting Saturn is squaring your Asc and nMoon – I suspect this is the culprit.
You also just finished your second Saturn Return last summer.
tNeptune is opposing your nSun and nMercury.
tMars is retrograding back over your nVenus.
tPluto is opposing your nUranus.
tChiron squared your NN over the past year and a half.

I can’t be certain of all the house placements here, but your 7th house holds much of Sagittarius (where Jupiter and Pluto will meet next week), and your nMoon is right on your Dsc….. Is your North Node in the 12th house or the 11th??

~ Zala

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 08:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can’t be certain of all the house placements here, but your 7th house holds much of Sagittarius (where Jupiter and Pluto will meet next week), and your nMoon is right on your Dsc….. Is your North Node in the 12th house or the 11th??
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How do I find out? And next week what will that mean according to this chart? Better or
worse for my romance?

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 08:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the welcome. The reason I ask, I am in a rocky relationship right now. I don't want it to end.

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I miss you like the night would miss the moon..the daylight would miss light!!
Never knew what love felt like before I met you...now, I am messed up!

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Azalaksh
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posted December 08, 2007 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Is your North Node in the 12th house or the 11th?? . . . . . How do I find out?
Please go to www.astro.com. Right under the “Astrodienst Astro.com” in the blue title bar is a section called "Free Horoscopes", click on that. Under "Please select your free horoscope" choose the section headed in gray called "Horoscope Chart Drawings" and pick "Extended Chart Selection". Click on "Add a New Person" and set yourself up. Then under "please select the type of chart you want" drop-down box, choose "natal chart wheel" and click on the "click here to show the chart" button.
Once you've run that you'll have all your planetary positions (and a nice picture!).

Please forgive my candor, but if you are in such a rocky relationship, why would you *not* want it to end??

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 08:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is worth saving.

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 09:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
one more thing how do i get the chart to bring it here?

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 09:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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NAM
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posted December 08, 2007 09:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What kind of dark dreams are you having?

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 09:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
. Dark dreams is a forum, and really not about dark dreams.

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Azalaksh
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posted December 08, 2007 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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one more thing how do i get the chart to bring it here?
Here are some instructions and FAQ's:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/015151.html

Odd dream..... there's a Dream Interpretation forum here at Lindaland called "Astral Realms" -- might be interesting to post your dreams there.....

Re: "It's worth saving." -- I understand

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Augustina
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posted December 08, 2007 09:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
N. Node is in 08 Degrees Taurus.
It's not in your nature to seek out many casual acquaintances in your daily round of activities. You feel much more comfortable with a small, close-knit group of people -- those with whom you can relax and work toward known and clearly defined goals. Your loyalty to a person or group, once given, is forever -- you'll expend all of your quite considerable energy in seeing that the group stays together and prospers. You choose your partners and relationships so carefully that you're bound to gain certain advantages from them, including those of a material nature. Be careful though not to let mere self-service be your motivation in establishing your connections -- make sure that there's an even give-and-take!

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 06:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bumped for Azalaksh..chart information.
thanks.

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MUSTANG
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posted December 09, 2007 03:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like your computer

tMars is hanging out with your nVenus in the 2nd and they aren't getting along...

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 06:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you.

Is that a forever thing or just temporary?

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I miss you like the night would miss the moon..the daylight would miss light!!
Never knew what love felt like before I met you...now, I am messed up!

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posted December 09, 2007 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Augustina ~

Planets were located in zodiacal constellations when you were born. Since the planets and the constellations and the galaxy itself are all moving, they do not stay in the same place as when you were born, except maybe some like Eris with an orbit of 400+ years. The movements of the planets are called "transits." Your Venus was at 06 degrees Cancer when you were born. Since you were born, it has returned to its natal position -- made a complete circuit of the Sun -- dozens of times, as its orbit around the Sun takes about 225 days. Mars orbits the Sun in about 684 days, and (unless retrograde) spends around a week aspecting a natal planet. An Ephemeris will tell you how long a transiting planet stays at a particular degree. There's an Ephemeris for 6000 years at astro.com that tells you the position of each planet at noon of every day of each of those 6000 years.

I think that transiting Saturn, which is squaring both your Ascendant (Rising sign) and Moon -- which are 180 degrees apart or "opposed" -- is *one* of the reasons for your "messed up love life."

If you want to begin your understanding of astrological influences, this is a good place to start: http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc/index.html

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 06:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for your time.
Thinks she will just give up on love and see where life leads me.

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I miss you like the night would miss the moon..the daylight would miss light!!
Never knew what love felt like before I met you...now, I am messed up!

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posted December 09, 2007 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought the relationship was worth saving??

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 06:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doesn't sound much like it is gonna happen, according to the stars.

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I miss you like the night would miss the moon..the daylight would miss light!!
Never knew what love felt like before I met you...now, I am messed up!

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posted December 09, 2007 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"According to the stars"?? Do you feel powerless to disobey the orders of some orbiting molten ball of gas or frozen rock??
If you want any insights or suggestions from the wonderful group here, then please let us know the nature of what is bothering you. If you just came to vent, then that's OK too. But if you came to an astrological forum, it would follow (at least to me) that you are looking for answers or solutions -- ie, doing something about your issue, or at least listening to suggestions about coming to terms with it if your relationship is truly ending. I don't mean to be harsh Augustina, but what is it you are seeking?? There are plenty of other forums out there where you can just sigh, ignore the potential lesson, and blame it on being Born Under A Bad Sign.....

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 07:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Didn't mean any disrespect. Really was seeking an answer how to save this relationship. According to what the stars are saying, it doesn't sound much like it is going to work out. There seems to be a pattern to my relationships not working and was wondering why they are always so messed up.

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posted December 09, 2007 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You've displayed no disrespect
And what ARE the stars saying??
If you want to find out what the pattern is so that you can break it and enjoy relationships that *do* work out, then join us in our astrological explorations It's never too late to embark on a new path.....
There are lots of generous and openhearted people here, and some of them probably struggle with the same issues you do, and can share their insights and techniques for working with their challenges.....
Please also note: a lot of us find it very difficult to integrate meanings from a list of planetary positions, and you took away your chart-pic (although it was incomplete anyway). You could either post birthdate/birthtime/birthplace, or put up another chart-pic.
btw, I thought it was very inventive of you to take a picture of your screen with your camera and upload that

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Augustina
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posted December 09, 2007 08:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
??? how do I get the page to post here?

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posted December 09, 2007 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you at www.astro.com?? Then click on your chart pic. That should isolate it onto a page of its own without all the astro-com text at the top and bottom. Also that prevents others from getting into your account, as if you post a link to your chart-pic, they can easily get in and manipulate your data.
Right-click anywhere on the chartwheel, choose Save Pic As from the popup menu and give it a name. It will be a .gif file.
You obviously uploaded your camera pictures of your chart somewhere, so you have Photobucket or some other web host. Upload your newly-saved pic there.
Once your pic has a URL Address, you can put it here. Highlight and copy the entire URL, mosey on over to the LL-text-box and paste the pic-address into the text box. Put [img] at the left side (beginning) of your pic's URL, and put [/img] (note backslash) at the right side (end) of your pic's URL (no spaces between img tags and URL address).
Et voila!!

You can always see how someone else did something in a post by clicking the "Edit" button in their post. You can't edit their post since you don't have their password, but you can see the code they used.

Here's a pic of me telling my son to clean his room (we're both Leo Rising, he's Leo Moon on top of that)

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