posted December 12, 2007 03:31 AM              

So, my questions to everyone out there with a Pisces Moon in the 4th (also all other Pisces Mooners and 4th house Mooners):

*Do you like to share your emotions with those close to you or do you keep them to yourself?

*How could one help you without annoying or smothering you?

posted December 12, 2007 05:58 AM            

* Let it be known they're available if I want to talk, then back off.

But my Moon is in Libra in the 10th house.

In my personal experience Uranus transits are unsettling and deeply unpleasant. I had one some years back and I doubt I was the easiest person to be around. I am not looking forward to its next visitation which will be coming soon in the guise of an Oppostion to my Moon.

posted December 12, 2007 10:25 AM              

I do not share my feelings with people, but that could be because of my Scorpio Sun & Venus. Whenever I opened my heart to someone I felt invaded and vulnerable.

posted December 12, 2007 03:20 PM            

2. Help? Give me feeling that I am needed, but let me alone. When I feel right I will come.

Cap Sun, Sag ASC, Piscies Moon (3rd house)

posted December 12, 2007 03:44 PM              

I have pisces moon in the 4th house. Being a Libra I have to communicate my emotions with those close to me.

As far as why he is not communicating, I dunno. If and when I go numb to those I care for its usually something personal that I'm not ready to talk about. In my own time when I feel its right, I will open up.

posted December 12, 2007 05:41 PM              

however with my partners i feel the need to connect emotionally at a VERY deep and thorough level. however when i feel hurt (which can happen quite easily as we are very sensitive) or like the other person is blocking that intimacy, i close off, fast! but as soon as i feel warmth again, i return it and allow my vulnerablities to come out again. i think this is probably as confusing and probably frustrating to others as it is to me. i rarely expose my vulnerabilities and yet with a partner it just seems to be such a strong need and i don't know how to control the tap so to speak! either i feel totally vulnerable, or totally self-protecting.

but yes, mostly i need to feel close, ultimately (which means having my emotions exposed and to be cared for and care for my other). i'm in a pre-relationship with a triple cancer and he does the backwards sideways dance and frankly i just think cancer/4th house is just NOT gonna make a lot of sense or behave logically. it's all about the feelings in the moment.

posted December 12, 2007 10:52 PM              

Also, my take on his Moon in Pisces is that he is trying to understand himself and is very pre-occupied with that process, especially if 30 or less. He is intuitively remembering where he left off last life time so he can begin to do what he has come here to do this time around. Especially Moon in the 4th, content to be "in his room" no matter where he is. He would like for someone to know how important tht is yet help him to move out of it from time to time. With your FIRE, you want action, he wants to "undertand" himself.

Now that Uranus is next to his moon, it would give him a chance to move BEYOND the past, so love is always the best way.

posted December 13, 2007 03:34 AM              

The problem for my SO and me is that we live in different countries. Right now he is doing his military service and I am finishing my studies. So I can't be there for him in person. And talking on the phone is not that easy either. Because he's either out somewhere for training or, when he's in the barracks, there are like 40 other guys listening. And obviously he doesn't like to talk about his problems when other people can hear what he's saying. You know, I do understand the Piscean need to be alone sometimes. After all, I have Pisces rising... But right now it feels like he's building walls around him and doesn't let anyone in. And that really scares me. Things are difficult enough as is with us living in different countries and not seeing each other. But now that he also isn't talking to me anymore ... well, it just really scares me. I don't want this wall between us.

I know that Saturn transits are no walk in the park ... especially not when they are affecting your personal planets. I remember the last time Saturn transited my Moon all to well. It was hell... Saturn isn't technically opposing his Moon yet. Right now it conjuncts his Mars (his 5th house ruler) and Jupiter (his chart ruler). Well and transiting Uranus conjuncts his Moon and IC and squares his Mercury (his 7th and 10th house ruler) and Neptune (his 4th house ruler). Well and next year Saturn is gonna move opposite his Moon and square his Mercury and Neptune before he'll finally have his Saturn return in 2009/2010. And well, with Uranus still hanging around in his 4th house and sitting on his Moon for some time (squaring Mercury and Neptune) AND transiting Pluto conjunct his Sun it's gonna be even more intense for him. From everything I've heard about those transits things are not going to be easy for him at all.

@Karyl Jackson