posted December 15, 2007 08:17 PM            

And this is the chart of the love of my life, who broke my heart after a two year relationship

posted December 15, 2007 09:32 PM            

I'll write you a bit later, hon
I'm taking a break from watching Order of the Phoenix with my son -- one of Hermione's great lines comes to mind whilst reading part of this thread: "He has the emotional range of a teaspoon."

posted December 15, 2007 11:28 PM            

But I'm starting to see issues between him and his emotions now that Pluto is coming close to his moon (1 degree) and opposing his Venus in Cancer (5 degrees)....sounds painful

Cafeastrology definition for Pluto opposition Venus transit was not pleasant. But seriously I am taking a whole different approach to this thing. After the hell that has been this month I decided that the person I need to worry most about is me. So from now on I am focusing on me and worrying about me and my life, I am there to help him if he ever needs it but i certainly do not wish to be going through his transits FOR him. All that sounds awesome plus Saturn in the 7th. Intensity and relationships seem to be the theme.

posted December 16, 2007 03:24 PM            

I'm so sorry. I had no idea that you and your Gem had broken up. How are you doing?

Hugs,

posted December 16, 2007 03:30 PM            

An objective situation can't stay objective for long if you just keep on the point of the goal without any emotional backdrop related to it.

Or should I remind you folks as to where evil deeds like genocide, or racism stem from? Or War for that matter?

posted December 16, 2007 03:35 PM            

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I'm so sorry. I had no idea that you and your Gem had broken up. How are you doing?

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posted December 16, 2007 05:45 PM            

Vintry - LOL . I get that a lot, my Gemini is always like "you're so emotional, irrational blah blah blah"...and yet when he gets mad oh no everyone watch out. As if anger isn't an emotion.

Xodian - darling no one is saying emotions are always appropriate at all times without control. I am personally saying that the concept that they are ALWAYS inappropriate is just rubbish...i also do not believe that people need to shut themselves off to the point that they do not know why they feel the way they do due to some ideal they are seeking.

Actually its my strong personal belief that genocides occur due the fact that people suppress their emotions...again in Psych we learn that when men say "emotions" they usually see it as a stereotypically feminine feelings such as "sadness, fear, compassion etc" but seem to forget that "Anger, jealousy, hate" are also emotions. I do not believe anything should be suppressed but worked though. Perhaps its my Scorpio moon but i feel emotions are like pain, our body's way of telling us what is going on. If your leg hurts would you simply ignore it because it is not practical? Not at all, one should look as to why certain feelings come up. I don't mean not controlling them to the point that you are just ranting and yelling all the time. I mean being aware of them, and accepting that emotions are a vital part of life.

And the fact remains emotions really do sell better than logic, no matter what anyone says. People follow their feelings a lot more than you think, thats why I think its best to know what your feelings are telling you.

LOL EMOTIONAL FILTTRATION! I like that!
No, im still pretty hurt over the situation and reason why I looked into it in the first place was because the song reminded me of my Gem so i decided to look up the chart of the singer. Plus i heard it a few weeks ago while we were on a break and burst into tears.

Mostly this post is just a curious observation of how similar my Gemini and my fav romance singer are. Thats just odd. Lol

posted December 16, 2007 06:09 PM            

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Actually its my strong personal belief that genocides occur due the fact that people suppress their emotions...again in Psych we learn that when men say "emotions" they usually see it as a stereotypically feminine feelings such as "sadness, fear, compassion etc" but seem to forget that "Anger, jealousy, hate" are also emotions. I do not believe anything should be suppressed but worked though.

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There is a time and place for everything sweets .

And even emotions can become a tool for misdirected hate and oppression due to unreasonable thought process. Its why Hitler could rile up the support he did after WW1 since people were looking for an outlet of any kind to express all that misdirected anger at and unfortunately... it ended up being the Jews.

posted December 17, 2007 09:28 AM            

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True true but wasn't it also emotions that got the very few people to risk their lives by hiding genocide victims in their own homes? Surely logic would dictate that survival comes first and risking their lives makes no sense. It was their compassion and feelings for other people that pushed them to action. Emotions are a double edged sword really.

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Offcourse it is , and I didn't say that cutting yourself off from emotions totally is the answer. Heck, you would be less a human then Lol! But emotional control is necessary for like everything else in this universe, emotions come with their negitive hefts as well. But you have a choice as a human being since you ahve been given the ability to reason and reason needs to work hand in hand with emotions. Empathy for one can quickly turn into hatred for another.

posted December 17, 2007 10:50 AM            

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This is what hell feels like isn't it?

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Since you're a Gemini I feel compelled to say: