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Waterlily
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posted December 17, 2007 01:48 AM
 
Who has this and what does it do for you? I read some where that this aspect could mean a bisexual person since they are so open minded. IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted December 17, 2007 02:21 AM
Usually Venus opposing Uranus does that...of course it depends on the signIP: Logged |
jane
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posted December 17, 2007 03:13 AM
I don't have this, and as far as I can remember, no one close to me does. But I do have my Sun conjunct my Venus/Uranus midpoint. I definitely fall in the love-at-first-sight camp. Men (and women as friends) don't grow on me. I feel that spark right from the get-go. But my Venus is in Cap, so I was never in a rush to actually act on my feelings.  That immediate "electrical storm" & its intense feelings could be one manifestation of Venus & Uranus energies combined. On the other end of the spectrum, I think Uranus could maybe dull the romance of Venus. She may intellectualize her feelings, and be detached and impersonal. Romantic feelings would be filtered through a cerebral analysis. I view Uranus as being about freedom and creativity, sudden self-discovery and its honest expression. Uniting Venus with that would likely produce a person who loves those values and needs a relationship where she could express that side of herself and admire that side in her partner. Boring relationships (no growth as individuals or as a couple) would hold little to no appeal. Sexual experimentation could be more likely since the person would be less likely to repress any bisexual feelings, no matter how transitory those feelings may prove themselves to be. IP: Logged |
Urania*
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posted December 17, 2007 04:14 AM
I do have it. Venus/Uranus conjunction in Scorpio, squaring my Mars in Leo. It's rather easy for me to get really excited, even obsessed about someone, and just as easy to forget about him after just a few days. The most I've been interested in someone was for 5 months. I do tend to fall for people that are more or less unconventional. I never been in a real relationship as it's very difficult for me to be myself around somebody I like. So I avoid him until I lose interest. Also - and that's possibly more because of my Mars-Venus square than anything else - I usually feel very hostile towards the men I'm attracted to. The more I'm drawn to somebody the more I want to slap his face lol. Very juvenile. As far as bisexuality, I've been attracted to women, but I don't consider myself bisexual. I am open-minded about it though. I've been attracted to too many gay men though if that counts..lol In terms of physical appearance, I like to look different but I'm not covered in tattoos or piercings. I do change my hair a lot though lol. I love colors, and I'm not afraid to wear colorful outfits and put on make up that it's a little too much for some people. IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted December 17, 2007 06:02 AM
Urania, what are the rest of your planetary placements?
I don't have this placement, but a cousin [and dear friend] of mine does [same Venus/Uranus/Mars combo as Urania]
She does like sarcastic, unconventional men and tends to get aggressive with the ones she's -very- interested in, but she's not one to fall in love at first sight, she's actually quite the 'tough nut', doesn't lose interest after a while - she can hold on to someone forever and is typically 'scorpionic' when it comes to emotions and behavior..
She's a
Scorpio Sun
Cappy Moon [squaring Pluto]
Sco Venus in the 4th and Uranus in the 5th
Merc/Venus/Uranus stellium
I on the other hand, got a lovely Venus/Uranus opposition. I don't believe in 'love at first sight' and i think i don't really do so, but i have noticed that my interest in certain guys in the past [guys i knew for a long time beforehand] had been quite.. ehmm.. spontaneous and unexpected.
Like Boom! and i'd suddenly be "wow, he ain't that bad" o.O
BUT i don't understand people who want to be with their partners -literally- 24/7. Don't they ever get ..bored?
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posted December 17, 2007 08:17 AM
Green Fairy this is my chart. It does seem that we have many similarities with your cousin. 
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Hexxie
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posted December 17, 2007 02:06 PM
I have Venus conjunct Uranus (and N Node) in Scorpio in the 5th. Luckily I found a guy who also has Venus conjunct Uranus too. We keep each other on our toes and it seems to work out good.Mine focused in the 5th helps or draws my focus to creativity and the arts. I love all kinds of art whether it be traditional, healing, arcane, etc. These 2 planets together make for a love(Venus) of change(Uranus)! This is from A Spiritual Approach to Astrology by Myrna Lofthus: quote:
The power of this conjunction gives strong personal magnetism. These individuals are independent and strong-willed. They are troubled with emotional ups and downs which they do not understand, and, thus, have a tendency to blame whoever is handy for their emotional lows. These emotional currents are coming from inside and are creative currents which cannot find any outward expression. When in an emotional low, they should occupy themselves with a creative outlet, such as painting, carpentry, etc. These individuals would also benefit from traveling, as they need unusual changes in their life and because of their strong love for the beauty in nature.
I love how in the above quote she says how important having a creative outlet is for those of us who have this conjunction. I was just imagining that having all that energy pent up inside maybe could cause paranormal type disturbances in a person's environment. Zapping lights out and stuff. Hhmmm... Waterlily to answer your question... Sure this aspect could mean someone is bisexual. I wouldn't just look at this 1 aspect and say 'Aahhhhhaaa!' What I would say about Venus and Uranus energy being combined is that it allows the person to see past the boundaries of the flesh and see another person as they are (Spirit) - who cares if the package is man or woman, normal or weird, fat or thin, etc. I think this is why I personally have so many different 'types' of friends. ------------------
`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll
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Glaucus
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posted December 17, 2007 02:18 PM
My Mom has Venus conjunct/parallel Uranus in Cancer in 2nd. My mom is white,and she's never been with a white guy...been mainly with black guys including my father and stepfather. She got together with/married my stepfather who was 25 years older than her for security reasons. He helped her raise me since I was 3 years old. She broke up with him when he refused to buy a house. She was concerned about domestic security..especially if he died. I think that Venus conjunct Uranus could be an interracial indicator. Uranus rules her 9th house too.....so its Venus conjunct 9th house ruler.IP: Logged |
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posted December 17, 2007 04:47 PM
It means I fall a little bit in love with every woman I take an interest in, and the romantic feelings are sudden and unpredictable. They come and go. I often have a variety of love interests, and am 100% honest with all of them. I'm attracted to eccentric or brilliant women, or just very unlikely matches. I'm charismatic as hell (and I DO say so myself; I DO NOT promote false modesty, only honesty). I'm a friend to everyone; I love everyone impersonally; without getting to know them, I love them. I understand everything, in the sense that I do not judge ("Judgement is the antithesis of understanding." - Me), so I can be very sympathetic. I have brilliant ideas about relationship dynamics. For instance, I think the art of loving consists, not in meeting the expectations of a loved one, but, in imposing as few expectations as possible on a loved one; i.e. in freedom and honest spontaneity. My art is original and inventive. And so on. Of course, some of this has to do with other aspects to Uranus, with my Aquarius Moon, and with the Aqua Interception in my 1st house (most of the house/cusp pairings are in accordance with an Aqua Ascendant). My Venus is also in retrograde, which may have a bearing on some of the things mentioned here.  IP: Logged |
Waterlily
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posted December 17, 2007 05:15 PM
Glaucus I think you are on to something I'm black and have never and i mean never been attracted to a black guy it was always white guys from the time I was a little girl. I find that kind of funny cuz I grew up in a "ghetto" neighborhood and I would always wonder why do I have this crazing for a little milk in my coffee lol *wink wink
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Hexxie
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posted December 17, 2007 07:21 PM
Yes Glaucus, yer on to something. My sig. other is not of my same race either. Uranus is the ruler of my 9th too (and I have an 8th house Aqua Moon). I have Saturn in Leo in my 2nd (opposite my moon with a 0* orb!) so security is indeed important to me too. My guy is actually younger, but he does have Saturn conjunct his Asc and he is very responsible and seems older. ------------------
`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll
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posted December 17, 2007 07:53 PM
Obviously, interracial relationships would fall under the heading of "unconventional", and would correlate to Venus-Uranus contacts. But I think this is one of the most tame manifestations of Venus-Uranus. The unconventionality of Venus-Uranus contacts is more likely to manifest in interracial relationships for people who are otherwise fairly conventional. A difference in race is, after all, one of the more superficial differences. The closer and more significant the aspect, and the more unconventional the person is in general, the more likely it is that a difference in race will not be nearly different or exciting enough. My Venus is in the 9th, and Jupiter in the 7th... I've often been drawn to women from other countries, or of other races, but there has always been something additionally unique about the women I'm drawn to; something more than just their ethnic origins. I am also attracted to women of my own race, from my own country, but there is always something very different about the women, or the relationship.
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posted December 17, 2007 08:21 PM
I can agree with some of what everyone has said here. I personally have Venus in the 9th squaring Uranus in the 1st. I'm unique looking, but not in an unpleasant way, thanks to the Venus. I don't generally have the love at first sight thing, but I do usually get hit with love from out of the blue. I agree with whoever said that they make have a friend around them forever and then all of a sudden they'll take an interest in them. I have that happen, but I also have the opposite happen. I'll be friends with some guy and he'll all of a sudden take notice of me. I also like "unlikely" matches. I really don't seem to have a "type" so to speak. The guys I've been interested in have been extremely varied and usually highly intelligent in some way, and also slightly unattainable. I also can become interested in someone for a long while, but then drop it within a few days if I get bored or annoyed. I think the main difference with the Venus/Uranus Square aspect to the aspects mentioned here is that I have problems reconciling my need for freedom and independence with my need for closeness and intimacy. Anyway, I just thought this was an interesting discussion, even though it's mainly about Venus conjunct Uranus, I know that a lot of what you guys are saying apply to all of the Venus-Uranus aspects. IP: Logged |
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posted December 17, 2007 09:24 PM
Very well expressed, Enchantress. quote:
I really don't seem to have a "type" so to speak.
Yep. That's it right there. IP: Logged |
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posted December 18, 2007 11:25 PM
I have the conj. in the 11th, under Scorpio. Most of what has already been said, does apply to me. Hexxie, my husband is also younger, different race, and has the maturity of Saturn/Pluto on his Asc. He is actually much more serious and responsible than I am and he encourages my spitfire expression. E, I don't consider myself to be attracted to a certain type either. I do enjoy mental stimulation along with beauty. I get bored easily, and love men who have interesting conversations. I am more attracted to lighter men, probably due to the Aquarian theme. HSC, I have to agree with you about the conversative being more attracted to the different. The men I have cared for, have all been very different having only traditional values in common. My husband is very conservative with the exception of being attracted to women of my culture  I am very eccentric one mment, hard core grounded the next. The Uranian pull has my already roaming Sag Sun on fire, but Scorpio wants to remain loyal and steady. Scorpio is sometimes tricky, in that it does not like its love to be as free as itself. I have had to face my possesive and consuming nature, which isn't always easy. To be truly happy and blissfully interested in love, I must be free. If I fell tied down, I will become resentful and want out. I constantly have to put that Scorpio Venus into a reality check, to keep myself balanced. IP: Logged |
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posted December 19, 2007 02:43 PM
I have Venus Rx in Scorpio conjunct Uranus (in the 10th), opposing Chiron in Taurus (in the 4th) and squaring Jupiter in Leo (in the 7th). My relationships seem to drastically change, for the worse. Other than that and really bad relationship luck (especially lately), I have no idea how it might manifest in my life. Any ideas?------------------
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Glaucus
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posted December 19, 2007 03:07 PM
I agree with all the points made. IP: Logged |
enchantress299
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posted December 19, 2007 03:14 PM
Thanks HSC. Planet Soul- Yeah, I agree with you on the needing mental stimulation along with beauty. Interesting conversations are a requirement for me too. I think the one theme, aside from mental stimulation, I've noticed in the guys I've taken interest in has been that they are usually arrogant. I think this is due to the fact that I have Mars in Leo though. lol. They're all completely different and completely intelligent in whatever they do, but they are all definitely arrogant. Alcheme- Wow... I have aspects involving the same planets as yours. I've got Venus Rx in Virgo in the 9th (conjuncting MC and the Sun in the 10th) which is squaring my Uranus in Sag in the 1st which is also conjuncting Jupiter there. The Venus is also squaring Chiron in Gemini in the 7th, and Chiron is opposing the Uranus/Jupiter conjunction. I too really don't have the best luck in relationships. However, while my relationships has always been a struggle for me, every other area of my life has been relatively smooth. I'm not sure how it manifests for you, but for me it's been like a giant block that I keep running into. Even though it feels like I've done a lot of inner emotional work and all of that, it seems like things will get a little better and then all of a sudden I'll run into a new layer of the block that I have to peel away to get any further. Does that make sense? lol. Probably not. I, at least, can say that I've made progress, and that it's probably the main lesson I chose for this lifetime. I think the Venus/Uranus aspect effects it in that I either get too close to a person or not close enough. I can't seem to find the happy medium. IP: Logged |
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posted December 20, 2007 10:45 AM
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I am very eccentric one mment, hard core grounded the next. The Uranian pull has my already roaming Sag Sun on fire, but Scorpio wants to remain loyal and steady. Scorpio is sometimes tricky, in that it does not like its love to be as free as itself. I have had to face my possesive and consuming nature, which isn't always easy. To be truly happy and blissfully interested in love, I must be free. If I fell tied down, I will become resentful and want out. I constantly have to put that Scorpio Venus into a reality check, to keep myself balanced.
I can so much relate to what you wrote, Planet_Soul. And I don't have Venus Scorpio conjunct Uranus.
I'm a Sag with a Leo Moon -- Sun sextile Uranus-- Scorpio cusp, Mercury in Scorpio, Pluto in the 5th.
I want freedom ultimately, I have to be free,
and want that for my love as well, fully cogniscent that mutual freedom is the most benifitial path to highest, expansive, unconditional Love,
but Leo needs to be adored
above all...if I don't feel it's so,
I get restless. And Sag/Scorpio doesn't help that restlessness/impulsiveness. Passions can sometimes
consume me, overwhelming my judgement.
It's not easy for me to give the freedom I desire.
In fact, torturing. Sometimes to the point of running rather than having to feel the full force of my emotion. I put the one I most love through torment and then feel terrible for it. It takes someone very understanding and gentle...someone who's similiar and understands that I don't mean to...that its because of how much I love.
It's a constant battle between my more sensible aultruistic understanding nature(Sun conjunct Neptune~ which always hails in the end) and defiantly proud, passionate nature.
Didn't mean to detour the thread from its topic,
just thought it was interesting how the elements and aspects, even different, can sometimes seem to blend to form similiar energies.
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posted December 20, 2007 12:43 PM
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posted December 20, 2007 08:55 PM
~In fact, torturing. Sometimes to the point of running rather than having to feel the full force of my emotion. I put the one I most love through torment and then feel terrible for it. It takes someone very understanding and gentle...someone who's similiar and understands that I don't mean to...that its because of how much I love.~ Exactly! Freedom is so important to me. Sometimes, I wonder what my life would be like if I had taken a very different path. When I was a girl, I'd daydream about devoting myself completly to my spiritual path, and not be distracted by a love relationship. On the other side, when I do love I do it very intensly. It is hard and painful for me to release someone I have loved. I think my dreamdreams were partly my Sag/Pisces idealism and part running IP: Logged |
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posted December 21, 2007 04:23 AM
I can't actually say I read the above posts very thoroughly BUT.. I CAN say that I know a guy with a tight venus/mars/uranus conjuction in Leo ( he also happens to have all 3 planets tightly parallel to each other as well), who was a musician ( a bass player/vocalist) who has endless tales of his conquests in the "No Tell Motel" (i.e. the equipment trailer) ...
He also tends to feel compelled to remind EVERYONE that bass players are the most WELL HUNG, out of all musicians ( in his words "it's a scientific fact!!!" ) ( )IP: Logged |
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posted December 21, 2007 04:59 AM
Wow Lialei, I connected with every word you wrote. We have some similar astrological influences going on which could explain that: Sag Sun conj Neptune, Leo Moon, Scorpio influence (for me, it's my Ascendant and Merc-Uranus conjunction). I even lived the whole running away when things got too overwhelming thing. I had decided that the whole love thing just wasn't for me. I missed feeling emotionally safe and secure, which I think b/c I'm a Sag, means feeling free and accepting. Not caring too much about the outcomes, b/c living truthfully and freely means following your heart. And doing that means there's always a risk of everything ending. But I reached a point where I needed something less ephemeral than that with my SO. I wanted the possibility of permanence, but couldn't admit it to him or even myself. Fortunately, I did accept that more personal and passionately attached side of myself and things have worked out well for us. But it was a painful process. I (very appropriately) had t.Pluto on Neptune--my 5th house ruler--during that time in my life. To stay on-topic ( ), like I mentioned in an earlier post, I have my Sun on my Venus-Uranus midpoint. That and other influences do make me ultimately committed to honesty and freedom, but those values, I now realize, aren't antithetical to a commitment to a lasting union. Freedom and individuality can coexist with intimacy and commitment. IP: Logged |
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posted December 22, 2007 01:05 AM
Thanks for all the insights on this aspect. There's a guy I really like(d) who had this conjunction in Scorpio in his third house. I fell pretty hard for him and he seemed interested in me--we flirted a lot (we worked together) and talked for HOURS about everything under the sun; his body language said he was into me--but nothing ever came of it. I figured he just isn't the relationship type and let it go because I wasn't about to chase him.It seems like the Venus in Scorpio would be conflicting with that need to be free from the Uranus aspect. How do you deal with that conflict, or do you even feel it, for those of you with the conjunction in Scorpio? IP: Logged |
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posted December 22, 2007 11:42 AM
Jane,"Freedom and individuality can coexist with intimacy and commitment." Its all relative. It is possible to be so freedom-loving and individualistic,
that intimacy and commitment with other humans
is as impossible, or as undesirable,
as it might be with aliens from another galaxy. (Actually, for such an individualist,
intimacy might only be possible with aliens, lol.) I'm glad your path in this incarnation is not as extreme as all that.
love to you,
hsc
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