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Topic: Superficial understanding and the third house
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GeminiLover75
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posted December 22, 2007 06:33 PM
 
Do you think that a person who seems to exhibit a superficial understanding would have negative aspects to their third house?I must admit that I find it frustrating sometimes dealing with Mr Gemini because he cannot seem to understand things (about other people, mostly) beyond the superficial. Like he'll notice things on the surface and somehow jump to the conclusion that it represents the whole person. And with my recent back injury that I'm recovering from, for some UNFATHOMABLE REASON he cannot seem to grasp how it physically affected me. If I tell him I'm not able to do this or that because of my back, he literally *does not believe me*. I believe this is because on the surface I seem to be fine and I am not screaming in pain or anything like that. I'm much much better now that I was, but he seems to think it would be ok for me to carry a backpack and things like that, which are in fact out of the question right now. I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall because he cannot seem to grasp what is going on! Like the other day we had to carry some things and I was like, well I can only take this much - and he replied with "you can take it down the hill, it might be a bit uncomfortable but you'll be ok". I wish it was that simple! I can handle discomfort but if I had carried this stuff that he wanted me to carry, I would have set my recovery behind by another couple of months! He seems to think it's all about a bit of muscle soreness that will go away, ie something superficial, but it's about deeper things like reactive tissue, setbacks, and so on. It starts to drive me insane that he cannot grasp this! This is just one bad example that represents the way he thinks about a lot of things. So is this a third house issue? He's a Gemini with 3rd house stellium including Mercury. Also combined with his Aries rising and moon do you think this might give him an immaturity/superficiality in the way he understands things about other people? And can he ever get over this??? IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted December 22, 2007 08:46 PM
No... I think it's just a plain old regular guy thing. You see, if he was in your shoes he *would* strain himself, walk down the hill.. make his condition worse, fail to go back to the doctor.. thus making it even worse, strain himself again.. so on, so forth.. until it got so bad that he would need surgery. So he would have the surgery - get slightly better BUT not wait for a full recovery before he decides to play footie/soccer/bball with his mates and unavoidably ends up on the hospital table once *again*.That is what most male homo-sapiens without a woman in their life do to themselves on a regular basis. This includes having a common flu - They will refuse to go to the doctor and eat icecream while they have a raging fever. Any attempt to explain to them how stupid this behavior is won't work. That being said, most gfs/wives/sisters and mothers will nag long and loud enough to prevent such horrible health problems 
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CoralFrequency
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posted December 22, 2007 08:46 PM
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Also combined with his Aries rising and moon
That would make him extra masculine, so what I said above probably applies.
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And can he ever get over this???
Not really.. lol
But you can laugh at it and ignore him  IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted December 22, 2007 09:50 PM
Ahhhh YES good points CF! Ok what about the fact that he takes things very literally? Like the fact that if you don't use the *exact* word he's looking for then he completely misinterprets what you just said? I've never experienced this with anyone before, so now I'm thinking I must be a terrible communicator! I would really love to blame this one on *his* third house rather than anything to do with me.  IP: Logged | |
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