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Topic: The Taurus way of doing things.....
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BLKFox
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posted January 07, 2008 09:26 PM
 
I haven't a clue how to tell if a Taurus is attracted to me. If you have some insight, let's hear it...
--And how about that Taurus thing of wanting people to help with the details of their life, when all I want is romance & fun....
Tauruses, loosen up!!!IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted January 07, 2008 09:29 PM
Bulls need to loosen up?If you say so!  IP: Logged |
LibraChickety
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posted January 07, 2008 09:33 PM
Tauruses are straight-forward and simple. You'll know when they like you. However, I do know shy ones that may need you to let them know that you're interested in them!You'll get all the romance your little heart desires  I know some Tauruses that are total home-bodies and others that like to get out and do things all the time - however, they're all stable and secure. I don't understand what you mean by 'helping with details of their life'. They're just so incredibly simple - what you see is what you get. ------------------
Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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AcousticGod
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posted January 07, 2008 09:36 PM
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I haven't a clue how to tell if a Taurus is attracted to me. If you have some insight, let's hear it...
She'll let you know when she trusts you enough. quote:
And how about that Taurus thing of wanting people to help with the details of their life, when all I want is romance & fun....
You want to change a Taurus?  Good luck! IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 07, 2008 09:38 PM
Libra, I've actually known two Tauruses intimately--I initiated contact. What they both had in common was really wanting me to roll up my sleeves and "pitch in" early on in our relationship----maybe that's just because they were women...IP: Logged |
LibraChickety
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posted January 07, 2008 09:42 PM
What are your placements?IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 07, 2008 09:46 PM
Acoustic, thanks for your insight...her behavior has been strange---like an approach<-->avoidance dance. It's kinda eerie..IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 07, 2008 09:58 PM
LibraChicklet,Me: Sun, Asc, Merc, in Libra; Saturn in Virgo, Uranus in Cancer, Jupiter in Cap, Venus in Scorpio, Moon in Cap, Mars in Leo Her: Sun, Merc, Saturn, Uranus in Taurus; Moon in Sag, Libra Asc, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Cancer
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GeminiLover75
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posted January 07, 2008 10:11 PM
With Venus in Pisces and Mars in Cancer, I really can't say except that maybe she's very shy and is wary of getting her feelings hurt? I know a guy who has Venus in Pisces, and he's very careful about getting involved because knows how emotionally caught up he gets. Honestly though in the beginning stages, I think that the ascendant, Venus and Mars play more of a part than the sun sign - but that's just how I see myself as acting when I'm attracted to someone. I'm generally chatty and flirty (Venus in Gemini, Sag rising) but there is a bit of shyness involved and that's the part that is most in-keeping with my Taurus sun I think. I don't know if this really helps you much! Maybe with the Libra rising she's having some indecision about what to do? IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 08, 2008 12:00 AM
Gemini,
Yes, she does lapse into indecisiveness---it seems even more than I do with all my LIBRA....maybe I'm just in denial about my psychological swagger.
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LibraChickety
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posted January 08, 2008 12:45 AM
I think GeminiLover has a good point in that the Cancer is making her shy AND perhaps her Mercury in Taurus (I knew a shy Mercury in Taurus). PLUS, she has the indecisiveness of her Libra rising.Perhaps you give off a 'party girl' persona that I know a lot of Tauruses don't like (?) And, that a lot of Librans can portray. (You did mention wanting romance and FUN.) And with your Venus in Scorp, perhaps you appear too 'wild child' for her - LOL. IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 08, 2008 01:18 AM
LOL, Libra...
She has Moon in Sag...her wild behavior is legendary!! So, I'm kinda confused. I think it's such a trip that we both have Libra rising(conj)and I really can't wait to personally find out about that Venus in Scorpio/Venus in Pisces interaction.(WOW***)
I believe that Mars in Cancer is passive-aggressive. I almost wonder if she gets angry when I don't respond appropriately(to her way of thinking) to her little overtures. The reason why I haven't responded is because I'm caught off guard & only realize she was making a move in retrospect. ME=Merc retro in Libra in my natal.IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted January 08, 2008 02:45 AM
Ahhh well if you haven't responded, then either she'll get more determined OR because Tauruses usually prefer to be pursued then she may decide to back off. I'm trying to picture myself in the same situation as I am a Taurus, but as I said I think the difference in Venus and rising signs really has an effect. (See with my Venus in Gemini, I would eventually cut myself off if I wasn't getting attention and go elsewhere where the flirting was happening. ) Does she seem very determined in her repeated attempts?IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 08, 2008 03:00 AM
She seems rather coy...once when I went to give her a hug, she kissed me on the neck and indicated, days after the fact, in so many words, that she expected me to pursue her. I didn't even want to start the conversation because it felt dangerous because I didn't know what I was getting into...Recently she's been somewhat distant...I miss our closeness.
Lately she's also been stressing about money so I feel this has consumed her personality (we've only known each other for a little over a year)
We are supposed to work on a project together...now I'm wondering if she will back down?IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted January 08, 2008 04:20 AM
Oh ok, so if she's known you for a year then she's had plenty of time to get comfortable with you! I was thinking this was a new acquaintance, so to be honest with you when we're familiar with someone then it's different. Then again I have to wonder if my opinion about backing off and looking elsewhere *when the flirtation or acquaintance is new* is more to do with my Venus sign. Could be that she's distant only because of the stress she's under right now. IP: Logged |
wild sheep
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posted January 08, 2008 05:33 AM
Taurus females can be very shy, although of course, a chart is more than sun sign alone. Moon and Venus placements also factor heavily into how solar Tauruses respond in love. As a Taurus sun, I feel the need to add that I have sometimes done a lot (a lot) of resisting in the early stage of the relationship (like its polar sign, Scorpio, Taurus has a tendency to over-protect its perimeter). The key is patience (and if you don't have it, I'd say you shouldn't pursue a Taurus at all).------------------
"You stay young as long as you can learn, acquire new habits and suffer contradiction." (Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach) IP: Logged |
alma-noble
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posted January 08, 2008 05:54 AM
So what about a taurus male with Venus in cancer, and Mars in libra and supposed saggittarius asc? How can I tell if is attracted to me? Could be that he prefer to be pursued? How big should be my patience??? IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 08, 2008 09:38 PM
Wild,
I think you're right....I'm learning patience.
BTW, when you finally let your guard down & give in....does it take the "Jaws-of-life" to make you let go...?IP: Logged |
Sarai
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posted January 08, 2008 11:03 PM
My boyfriend is a classic Taurus. He's very much into chivalry, gets jealous easily and often, a homebody, steady, romantic, loves to eat and cook, and he also loves to take his time with making decisions. But when he does decide on something he totally goes right in for it and holds on until the end.His Sagittarius ASC was definitely more noticable at the start of our relationship. He took me on a surprise trip on one of our early dates. However as I got to know him his true Taurean steadiness came through. He LOVES staying in and feeding me - I've gained weight since I've been with him!! He is always buying me little things and doing things for me without my asking. The him I know now is him deep down. I'm more the type to just want to take off on random, unplanned trips so when I get the urge to go away, he sort of gets uncomfortable, like I've ruined his plans or something. But he comes with me. Taurean romance is interesting. My bf sort of puts a little romance into everything he does. He'll go all out for special occasions and such but every day, he's more caring than overtly romantic. If you want passionate romance from a Taurean who naturally isn't the type to be your classic romantic, youhave to bring it out of them. So do something romantic for them. Once you do they totally fall for it and get into it. I think a lot of Taurus people do fall into ruts but they love being coaxed out of them. Sarai  IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 08, 2008 11:33 PM
Thanks, Sarai
Your bf sounds like fun!IP: Logged |
wild sheep
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posted January 08, 2008 11:57 PM
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BTW, when you finally let your guard down & give in....does it take the "Jaws-of-life" to make you let go...?
No "Jaws of Life" needed—'cause I wouldn't be letting my gaurd down with anyone who felt it necessary to whip those things out. If I perceive the other person to be compassionate, passionate and most importantly non-threatening, we're good to go. If not, um, er, Bull girls tend to refuse to cooperate. We can't be forced or rushed.
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So what about a taurus male with Venus in cancer, and Mars in libra and supposed saggittarius asc?
'Kay, if it were me, I'd let that one go. Venus in Cancer (bitchy and insular, possibly anti-social with anyone not precisely of his 'kind') and Mars in Libra (can't respect boundaries because of a lack of awareness of what boundaries even are)? Plus aggressive and possibly arrogant Sag ascendant? Run.------------------
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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 09, 2008 06:37 AM
I'm trying to figure out a taurus guy who is a taurus sun and maybe taurus or gemini moon, were in the same group together for a class and we've been talking since october. I told him I liked him then...and at the time I did. But to be honest it kind of went away. Anyway we hung out we were approached by our group leader who asked if there was any romantic interest from us to each other and we said no. We agreed as long as were on the same project we wouldn't hang out. Well I'm about to leave the project and start a new one, and in the past last semester he had said if one of us left then we'd get to hang out. Well I talked to him tonight and I asked him if he thinks we'll still talk after I leave and he said no. I couldn't belive it...I thought we were friends, we've been talking and everything since October, and I thought we were semi close. Anyway I have a taurus venus so obviously I hate wasting my time...anyway to make a long story short what went wrong? I don't want to read into anything...but he's never had a gf...and he's never been kissed or had sex...and he's 21. In fact I'm apparently his closest female friend...at least that's what he told me in the past. Thanks! Me: July 3, 1985 at 5:34 Am in Bellflower, Ca
Him: May 9, 1986, in Charleston, SC IP: Logged |
wild sheep
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posted January 09, 2008 06:49 AM
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Him: May 9, 1986, in Charleston, SC
'Kay, that's another one I'd just walk away from. Venus in Gemini. (Wandering eye; also, very fragile and...some other things.) Mars in Capricorn. Blech. I've seen that in the charts of one too many abusers to want to go anywhere near anyone with that Mars placement. Also—his sun, moon and Merc in Taurus is...a lot of Taurus. IP: Logged |
chotG
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posted January 09, 2008 07:12 AM
hi wild sheep..so hw 'bout someone with sun,merc,mars & venus in taurus. plus moon in cap. Does these placements make them extremely shy/quite and perhaps hold back what they want to say. IP: Logged |
wild sheep
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posted January 09, 2008 07:35 AM
The sun and Merc in Taurus could equal shyness and signal the kind of person who's...sort of a plodder. Venus in Taurus...well, Venus in one of the signs it rules is typically a good thing, although the shyness factor is there, along with a tendency toward hedonism. Mars in Taurus is difficult. Although I know it can indicate a life of success for many, whenever I see Mars in Taurus I still think "adversity." Of the two-steps-forward-three-steps-back variety. Moon in Capricorn adds a whole 'nother level of "issues." Moon in Capricorn, while very misunderstood (says the moon in Cap native) is extremely problematic. It can make for an individual who is reserved (even repressed) emotionally, austere, sarcastic or worse (I'm not gonna go there). It's also affiliated with a host of long-term health issues which can complicate relationships considerably. I actually like my moon in Capricorn, (it's good for self-discipline and the ability to perservere during adversity) but to say that I can be hard to get to know (or that I've had a less than easy emotional life) is an understatement. IP: Logged | |
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