posted January 10, 2008 06:15 PM              

I wonder if you could help me with the following.

I have the following personal planets in Cap: Sun,Venus,Mercury

Moon in Gemini. Mars in Pisces. ASC in AQUA. Leo on the 7th cusp (although no planets in Leo). I have Pluto(Virgo) and Uranus(Libra) in the 7th (using Placidus house system).

Pluto, Sun,Venus is heavily aspected in my natal chart. I have sun and venus trine pluto. Moon square Pluto and Mars opposition Pluto.

Sun conjunct Venus. Mars sextile Venus. Mars square Moon. Venus square Saturn.

From previous experience I am attracted to Gemini girls but find them too flighty. They dont seem to want to know.

Pisces and Taurus is very physical (which is nice!) but dont seem to get the emotional connection.

Last serious girlfriend was a Taurus with a Pisces Mars conjunct mine. She had a Venus square Pluto aspect.

Alot of physical fireworks but was very destructive. I dont seem to get the physical attraction and emotional connection at the same time.

posted January 10, 2008 06:30 PM            

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Bloody cheek.

Not sure what answer you are after ~ go for a Scorpio? Gut instincts is my tip.

posted January 10, 2008 06:50 PM              

I am after physical attraction and emotional connection all in one package (arent we all ?). Just dont seem to find both in one person. Its either one or the other but not both.

posted January 12, 2008 03:03 AM            

I'd say take a look at synastry charts of friends as well as potential partner. It is interesting to see how the dynamics work.

If you are looking for a long-term partner some of the aspects you get with your friends might crop up. Some people bring out our best, some people bring out our worst, and of course that's a two way street.

CafeAstrology is a good site to look at. It makes a good point about looking at the charts of a whole, and although she was talking about composites, looking at patterns both charts make in synastry terms is also a good plan. She suggests that planets that link together and form patterns are more indicative of a 'soul-mate' scenario than one that is scattered. If you think about it, this makes sense.

As an example, someone with planets in Taurus that link to your trine between Pluto and the group of planets in Capricorn might form a Grand Trine, a flowing group of energy.

If you are looking for a long term relationship, Saturn being useful somewhere will help. Personally, I think a Saturn in Taurus linking in with the trine mentioned above could be an interesting solid, blend of planets.

Someone with the same Mars sign is triggering your Mars opposite Pluto which might be good for your sex life but is sounds too hard (forgive the pun) but you'd really need something gentler elsewhere to balance that out.

Venus in the same placement would be easier to live with and there would still be fireworks.

Is your Moon Square Mars? I'm thinking t-square.

A person with a Gemini Sun could potentially force a t-square with your Mars/Pluto opposition. That sounds like hard work to me. If you have one on your chart this would reinforce it rather than resolve it, but that's a guess not a fact. I'm thinking power struggles, too much.

Moon/Pluto carries something of the (emotionally) insatiable. You've got a square and with the Moon in Gemini. Gemini is interested in everything, and doesn't sit well with this aspect, I wonder if you will always be hankering for more. Anyone who reinforces this aspect or sets it off in a negative way will not make for an easy pairing. Maybe also it will help to look for other outlets than relationships to help this (i.e tricky Moon Square Pluto), I thinking creative, etc.

Scorpio Sun might be quite good although I was being flippant. Their ruler is Pluto so they'd connect with your intensity, and their placement could sextile your Sun/Pluto trine. If they had a planetary oppostion with Taurus that could potentially form a kite (which will make the best of the planetary energies and get things up and flying).

Just some thoughts, I don't have all your chart details and if I've got anything wrong from the details you have given I'm happy to have it pointed out.

posted January 12, 2008 08:39 AM              

Makes more sense now. Hadnt thought about aspect configurations being triggered off.

Yes I have a T-square Mars (Pisces) opposition Pluto (Virgo) both square Moon (Gemini).

That would explain Gemini antagonism which is abit of a problem with a man having a Moon in Gemini and what he is looking for in a woman ? I guess a Sag woman would complete the grand square ? (not good!)

The grand trine idea sounds great.

Weird as the ex kicked off the grand trine with her Taurus sun but her Pisces Mars conjuncting my Mars in Pisces kicked off the T-square.

So do I need something to trigger the grand trine and soften the Mars opposition Pluto ?

A woman with Sun, Venus in Taurus (earth signs as well) for instance would make good aspects to Pluto and Mars and Sun Venus ? What about woman with Mars taurus however ? This would trigger the grand trine but her Mars would trine my Pluto and would not soften the Mars-Pluto opposition ?

The Scorpio idea is good one for intensity and sextile Cappie and Virgo and trine Pisces.

Mars in Pisces might explain attracting the Piscean woman and how these tend to be just physical.

A Cappie woman may be good with my Venus in Cappie and this would sextile Mars and trigger off the Venus trine Pluto ?