posted January 13, 2008 05:55 PM              

Me : april 19, 1983 : Sun Aries, Asc Aquarius, merc & mars taurus and venus in gemini

Him : april 20, 1981 : sun taurus, Asc Leo, merc & mars aries and venus in taurus

posted January 13, 2008 06:49 PM            

Your Suns are very close together, with yours at the end of Aries and his moved into the next sign, it makes sense that you are attracted to him. But there are other planets involved, his Mercury may work out that you find you can communicate well with him, but it is Mercury conjunct Mars which spells argumentative. The Sun is your ego and true self, I betting you will hold your own.

Also, both your Mercury and Mars are opposite his Moon. There is a real spark here but you could wind up causing offence or upsetting each other, but mainly you to him.

He could see you as a challenge, particularly if you are female (I am thinking of the traditional Moon/Sun energies going on).

The aspects above have edge. Your Moon is trine his Moon, both in water signs, so there is an emotional understanding that softens the more challenging aspects.

posted January 13, 2008 09:16 PM            

Your question is: "Could I ever have something to grab his attention and hold it?"

I say yes. You have Venus trines his Saturn and his Jupiter. The trine is flowing energy and Saturn can give some longevity to a romance and the Jupiter to Venus can be jovial, fun and you probably would enjoy parties together or feel like a party.

But you also have your share of tense aspects as well. Your Sun conjuncts his Mars which can feel like wonderful sexual chemistry, but it can be explosively argumentative and competitive as well.

Your Pluto-Saturn conjunction opposes his Sun-Venus-Mars conjunction and those are some pretty stressful, heavy and combative energies on his personal planets, yet they can be binding as well.

Because he has Neptune trine Mars in his natal chart, that suggests that he is loaded with charisma and probably extremely attractive in general to many women (and men) so I think you have definitely fallen under his spell.

Without knowing your situation with this guy, I can't say much more. For all I know, he could be a movie star or your boss or just a friend, so I don't advise anything, but don't fear the negative aspects, EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS NEGATIVE ASPECTS AND THEY ARE NEEDED.

I hope it's a situation that can work out for you positively in your favor.

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posted January 14, 2008 11:42 AM            

I don't do composite charts as part of my practice because once you really know what you're doing with two natal charts, you find that there's enough information there without having to dig through Composites and Davison's and myriad other charts.

Another thing, you may want to eliminate vocabulary words like "bad" and "good". Modern astrologers have learned that aspects can be stressful or flowing. But nothing on this planet grows without stress, the stress is NEEDED. It doesn't always feel good, lifting weights doesn't feel good, most exercise doesn't feel good, but we don't stay in shape or grow muscles without stress.

Saturn in the 5th house of any chart can suggest many things from: skin, bones, death, limits, muscles, authority, blocks, structure, rules, fathers, etc. Those are just some of the keywords. Because you are the only person who knows what your relationship feels like with this guy, you might be able to tell us at this point. We know that the 5th house suggests romantic sexuality, children, teaching, athletics, creativity. Are you both scultures? Are you both discus throwers? Weight lifters? Are you both into skin piercings or tattoos and does it play a role in your sex lives?

See, I'm coming up with some of the wackiest things I can think of which could be suggested by Saturn in the 5th house. Last but not least....Saturn suggests fear...

You mentioned that you have some fear of starting a romantic relationship with him, it could be your fear that stops this relationship from going anywhere. Now that you are alerted to that, perhaps you can work on letting go of fear in certain areas of your life. Turn that fear into faith, trust, strenght. Fear, trust, and strength are all ruled by Saturn.

Good luck to you.

Geocosmic Valentine