posted January 15, 2008 01:17 PM              

Well there is this amazing guy
I'm interested in ...
He is a Sagittarius Sun/Taurus Moon!!

A-M-A-Z-I-N-G voice!!
BEST voice I've ever heard in my entire
life...
He is also an amazing artist!!

We're just "friends" now and we live far
away from each other, but we talk online
and through phone and all that
but I might be moving near him in a year

lately my wild mood swings have been
kind of distracting our relationship...
we have on and off moments a lot!

But I have so much fun with him, and
I can't imagine myself without him

I'm Virgo Sun.Aqua Moon but i'm sag rising
also Sun in 9th (sag) and moon in 2nd(taurus)
He has his venus in scorpio, mine is in leo
but in 8th house(scorpio)
Our suns are sextile(late vir sun, early sag sun), but moons are square

Anyway...I wanted to ask
if he appreciates complete honesty or little more mystery?
(I'm confused b/c he's sag sun with Scorpio venus)

And do you think we're a good match??

this is our synastry chart:

ignore his house placements though
just look at his planets b/c he's not
sure of his birthtime

posted January 15, 2008 03:55 PM            

On your natal chart it looks like your Moon is square Pluto. This is quite a difficult aspect to live with, as it carries intense feelings and emotional needs you find hard to satisfy. I have the conjunction, so I can empathise with this a bit, some form of outlet outside of relationships is helpful, maybe creative. You have another tricky placement with the Moon opposite Venus. On the one side of the see-saw is your emotional needs, on the other your social interactions. You don't always get what you want out of situations, and maybe there is something of the people pleaser about you. Maybe interacting with others is also sometimes a problem.

It might be worth reading up on these difficult aspects on Astrology Weekly and Cafe Astrology.

Your friend has Mercury conjunct Uranus trine your Venus, and sextile your Moon. Check out how that makes a triangle on the chart you have posted. It is flowing energy that is providing an escape route for your opposition.

He must be quite original, and articulate. I'd imagine he helps you express your feelings. Careful though, Jupiter joins in this triangle shape, being conjunct your Moon. This is generally an harmonious aspect, but watch out that its opposition to your Venus could be expressive of a certain amount of self-indulgence ~ too much escapism, maybe.

Your Mercury is conjunct his Mars, it's not a close aspect being at 7 degrees, but it reinforces the impression that this is a mentally stimulating relationship.

He has the Sun conjunct Saturn. This is an ambitious placement. Like you say it is sextile your Sun, so you appreciate his drive. But it is also opposite your Jupiter. You are expanding, he is contracting. You want to have fun, but he won't always want to play.

posted January 16, 2008 09:08 PM              

yeah, i have always been honest with him
even if i thought it'd hurt him a bit...
because i didn't feel like faking to him.

so I was a little worried if that has been
turning him off...
but I guess not!

And oh well if he doesn't like me for
who i am, then that's fine too