posted January 28, 2008 12:17 PM              

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I used to be friends with a girl when I was younger.
We were together from the age of four, but that ended in seventh grade. She moved away and I was left alone at school to basically rot. I hated it there. She had been my friend for so long, and I depended on her immensely. But when she moved away, she literally died on me. She acted as if I didn't matter.
She made new friends immediately after she left. How did I know? I had to see her every Sunday at church. She would stroll around with her new buds, and she would smile every once in a while. Obviously I felt the distance.
This went on for years, and I never spoke to her once until most recently, when she came over smiling again. I finally called her, feeling maybe my friend was back, and she went on to say that this whole time, she felt as if I had a grudge on her. She bragged that she's not just another person in a group. She's her own individual. I wanted to both laugh and hang up the phone.
I finally realized I had no reason to be around. She'd left me, with not the least amount of decency, and now she treated me like a prisoner she'd released from death row. She charms her way through everybody, and she's adored. Simply adored by many people. I seem to be the only one who doesn't laugh or smile at any of her remarks in Sunday school, and the teachers notice.
I have my own sense of pride, but I feel she's diminished it because of her actions. After all these years, I can't get over the bitterness I feel for her. I feel so weak just thinking about it.
I feel even worse for not doing anything.
I don't know what to do. I want to get revenge, but I also want to do things morally (and still set her straight).

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posted January 28, 2008 12:24 PM            

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How old are you??

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posted January 28, 2008 12:24 PM              

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Are you looking for any astrological solutions here?

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posted January 28, 2008 12:25 PM              

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Just some good old advice, please. I need some good sense.
I'm.......zoop.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:29 PM            

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Let it go and move on is my advice to you, what else can you do and what would revenge do. You must be a Scorp or something like that..

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posted January 28, 2008 12:29 PM              

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The bitterness you feel is mostly because of the lack of awareness. She has her own reasons, and you have your own. Be free and set free as well.

This would have better been posted in Free For All board though.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:33 PM              

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Oh please. Nah nah nah. You've got to set people straight sometimes.
Moving on is not the case. It just won't happen.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:35 PM              

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Pluto either gives me bad dreams or knocks her in the face.
It's nothing she doesn't deserve.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:41 PM            

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Well seems you already know what your gonna do so why are you asking for advice..

And What I would do is let it go, thats the best revenge possible, when ppl do you some injustice leaving them alone hurts more then anything. Go on with your life find other friends chalk it up as a learning experience and thats that..

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posted January 28, 2008 12:43 PM              

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I don't know the solution. The situation's icky.
I want to be moral, but the girl deserves a beating.
Maybe karma will do it. She'll get what she has given.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:44 PM              

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At first you don't succeed. You can dust it off and try again.
Dust yourself off and try again.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:49 PM            

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Try what again..You sound like your a teenager..Infact this situation sounds kind of childish..If you believe in the whole Karma thing and she will get what she deserves so be it let the universe take care of it, nothing else to ponder..

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posted January 28, 2008 12:54 PM              

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I am acting childish now, but it bothers me more than I'll show you.
I'm sorry I can't detach myself from people I once held dearly. It must be harmful to care so much about someone.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:55 PM              

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I'm sorry I can't detach myself from people I once held dearly. It must be harmful to care so much about someone.

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Your answer is in your statement itself!

Good luck.

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posted January 28, 2008 12:56 PM              

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That didn't answer my question. What should I do about her?

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posted January 28, 2008 12:59 PM            

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We already told you leave it alone..You sound like you want us to tell you to go whip her azz..For the last time listen carefully leave it alone and if your not going to take the advice then why bother..

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posted January 28, 2008 01:01 PM              

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I'm just offended that you didn't seem to care about the situation.
Moving on isn't easy, yet you say it so simply.
*** **** . A little nurturing would do.

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posted January 28, 2008 01:03 PM            

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Uhm you may need a therapist for that..I am done with this maybe some one else that wants to play therapist can help you..Goodluck..

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posted January 28, 2008 01:08 PM              

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Oh, should I have patted you on the back when you posted that 'Love that Haunts You' thread? I mean, it would have been comforting.
Ah, but what you need is a pat from your man, the one who's been missing and has been in your dreams for so long. If only he could do the healing....
Oh f*ck. You were looking for comfort. Don't smack me on the face when I look for mine.

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posted January 28, 2008 01:10 PM              

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I guess the thread starter is merely an attention seeker! oh well.

And MamaMia, do not let such flamers get on you. Keep cool.

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posted January 28, 2008 01:11 PM              

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I'm good at getting it.
All of you are just bad at giving advice.

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posted January 28, 2008 01:13 PM            

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First off I Was not looking for comfort I was basically asking for others opinons who has been through what I Was going through, not sympathy or to tell me what to do. And whatever a person said to me I tried to recieve. Whatever we say to you, you already seem to know what your gonna do you want to kill the girl and if thats what you want to do go ahead and do just that..And for real you sound like you need therapist not a advice from a astrology forum..You sound like a real nut case now step off I am done with this if you want to hear some one say to go and do something mean then go on a satan board or something..Crazy..

I guess the thread starter is merely an attention seeker! oh well.
And MamaMia, do not let such flamers get on you. Keep cool.

SM: I agree 100%..

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posted January 28, 2008 01:15 PM              

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Hohohoho. The intensity....
May I ask you? Are YOU a Scorpio?

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posted January 28, 2008 01:48 PM            

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since revenge never did anybody any good
lets close this thread

hunk of rope, please watch your language

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