posted January 30, 2008 04:25 PM
This is for Mermaidgrrrrrrl. Sorry DiScorp, I had to skip you b/c I didn't know what gender you were! Sorry! If you come back and add in your gender, I will be more than happy to do yours asap.
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Relationship Horoscope
Free Try-Out Edition
for Me, born on 21 March 1984
and MyDear, born on 27 July 1981
Text by Liz Greene, Copyright © Astrodienst AG 2008
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I. Introduction
This short extract gives you a taste of what you will find in your personal Relationship Horoscope by Liz Greene. The small samples taken from various chapters convey an impression of the complete Relationship Horoscope (35-40 pages) which can be ordered as an E-Horoscope or a bound book in the AstroShop.
The report speaks directly to you, Me. Your partner MyDear is addressed in the third person.
II. What Brings You Together
This chapter is particularly interesting for two people who have just got to know each other. It is about 10 pages in length, and three of the many topics in this chapter are here very briefly touched upon.
Our attraction to another person is rarely as simple as we believe it to be at the time we experience that initial fascination. What we first register about another person is only the tip of a very deep and complex iceberg. You and MyDear are two distinct individuals each of whom brings to your relationship a defined personality. But what is the specialness of the attraction? What has brought you together?
*Your partner is likely to be quite fascinated by your depth and insight, and there is a quality of sudden electricity in this attraction which may have made you both feel "love at first sight". But at [...]
*You are likely to be quite fascinated by your partner's originality and energy, and there is a quality of sudden electricity in this attraction which may have made you both feel "love at first [...]
*The sexual attraction between you and MyDear is likely to be very intense, and neither of you is going to want to loiter about postponing the day of fulfilment. To your partner, your mystery, [...]
*The intensity of the physical and emotional attraction between you and your partner may be a little threatening to you, for this is a profound fascination which can hold you almost like a spell. Your partner [...]
*Put very simply, your looks turn your partner on, and you are likely to experience a very strong sexual attraction for each other. Probably he is the sexual initiator in the relationship, directly [...]
*You probably find your partner beautiful, and he feels and becomes more attractive and desirable through the warmth of your appreciation. There is a strong physical magnetism and natural sexual [...]
*You and MyDear generate both attraction and tension in each other. Your partner arouses strong erotic feelings in you, and often you may find him very beautiful and desirable; yet at the same [...]
*There is an easy flow of communication between you and your partner. You have an instinctive understanding of how MyDear thinks and expresses himself, and your admiration of his mental abilities [...]
*There is an easy flow of communication between you and your partner. He has an instinctive understanding of how you think and express yourself, and his admiration of your mental abilities is [...]
*The fluid and mysterious qualities of your partner's personality have a way of making you genuinely like him. He inspires great tolerance and generosity in you, and you are likely to want to [...]
*The worldly and self-contained qualities of your partner's personality have a way of making you genuinely like him. He inspires great tolerance and generosity in you, and you are likely to [...]
*Your partner's innate fairness and efforts to live up to his ideals are likely to arouse protectiveness and generosity in you. He has great admiration for who you are as an individual, even [...]
*Your partner seems to embody, simply by being who he is, a quality of creative individuality which invokes a strongly sympathetic and protective response in you. His originality, energy and [...]
*Simply through who he is on an ordinary everyday level, your partner stirs a feeling of almost electric fascination in you. His communicative gifts and lively mind act as a powerful mental [...]
*You are especially receptive to your partner's ideas, attitudes and way of expressing himself, and instinctively validate his love of discovering human motives. He in turn is likely to feel [...]
*Simply through who you are on an ordinary everyday level, you stir a feeling of almost electric fascination in MyDear. Your almost uncanny perceptiveness and insight into others' feelings act [...]
*The dramatic and energetic qualities of your personality have a way of making your partner genuinely like you. You inspire great tolerance and generosity in him, and he is likely to want to [...]
*The friendly and communicative qualities of your personality have a way of making your partner genuinely like you. You inspire great tolerance and generosity in him, and he is likely to want [...]
*Your originality and efforts to express yourself creatively are likely to arouse protectiveness and generosity in your partner. You have great admiration for who he is as an individual, even [...]
*Your sensitivity and efforts to deal with others with compassion are likely to arouse protectiveness and generosity in your partner. You have great admiration for who he is as an individual, [...]
*Your partner is likely to experience feelings of deep fondness and warmth toward you, particularly toward the fair and decent way in which you express yourself to the outer world. The person [...]
*Your partner is very drawn to your courage and energy, and is likely to feel a deep need of your presence in his life because of the sense of emotional security and belonging which you give [...]
*Part of the attraction between the two of you involves the electric quality of instability and mental awakening which you bring into your partner's life. There is something about your essential [...]
*There is a certain emotional disharmony between you and MyDear in particular areas which can create certain difficulties in the relationship. The ambivalent nature of the feelings you arouse [...]
*You arouse rather ambivalent feelings in your partner. Attraction and admiration are certainly present, as well as a strongly protective feeling which makes him want to offer support, help and [...]
*Your partner arouses rather ambivalent feelings in you. Attraction and admiration are certainly present, as well as a strongly protective feeling which makes you want to offer support, help [...]
*There is an element in the attraction between you and MyDear which will require a lot of self-awareness to handle creatively, yet which, if you can really work with and appreciate it, could [...]
III. The Essence of Your Relationship
This chapter is divided into three parts which will be briefly outlined here. The chapter describes the character of your relationship and how it affects both you and your partner. In the complete report, this chapter comprises about 15 pages.
Your Relationship as an Independent Entity
The relationship which you and MyDear create together is a living thing, an independent entity in its own right. It has an essential character or basic nature just as any living thing does. Once we create a relationship, we must also accept and work with the thing we have made.
*A Relationship with a Romantic Soul
The keynote of your relationship with MyDear is erotic feeling. The word eros, which comes from the Greek, is not necessarily the same as sexuality - although it is very likely that you and your partner are both powerfully affected by the ambience of sexual attraction which permeates your relationship. Erotic feeling also encompasses qualities of sensuous affection and natural courtesy and kindness, and can also include a deep appreciation of beauty, harmony and style. All these things are likely to be present in the emotional tone of your partnership. The attributes of good taste and aesthetic feeling help to give the relationship a gloss of grace and even glamour in the eyes of others; for there is probably a kind of constant courtship occurring between you and your partner, invoked by the erotic qualities of the bond, which makes you both want to be desirable for each other and act in kind and considerate ways. Others can also see the brightness and creative energy inherent in this relationship, because as a couple you tend, consciously or not, to project an aura of friendliness, tolerance and communicativeness to the outside world. This partnership carries a persona of liberal thinking and openmindedness about it, and whatever emotive issues might be erupting between the two of you, it is not likely that you will air these in public. The image of reasonableness and civilised behaviour is likely to stand firm before others even if you and MyDear have had a hot quarrel fifteen minutes earlier; and the pleasant and open style of this relationship in social situations will always attract the interest and support of others.
You may find that the sensuous and even indulgent tone of the relationship propels both of you into shopping sprees and a greater concern for outer appearances, because the love of beauty and the need to look beautiful for each other are likely to be important components of the bond. The relationship may make you and your partner both delight in the feeling of being in love and beloved - a need for the heightened rituals of romance which usually belong to literature more than to ordinary life. Any pursuit of joint creative projects, as well as travel and the exploration of philosophical and spiritual terrain, can help to enhance the sense of closeness between you. At its best, the erotic qualities of your relationship can bring a little of the fairy-tale world into both your lives, and can keep the spark of romance alive despite increasing familiarity and the passage of time.
*Although the heart of your relationship is its deeply romantic and erotic ambience, there is also a powerful drive toward security which is likely to make you and MyDear want to put down roots [...]
*Your relationship is at core a deeply romantic one which emphasises togetherness and mutual pleasure; but it also contains a powerfully independent spirit which may cause you both to sometimes [...]
*The intensely romantic feeling inherent in your relationship is balanced and enriched by a highly communicative energy which is also part of the bond between you, and which may turn the strongly [...]
*The (other) keynote of your relationship with MyDear is communication. There is a quality of mental vitality, energy and inspiration generated between you which makes this partnership more than an [...]
*Your relationship with MyDear is likely to prove extremely stimulating and challenging to your thinking, your attitudes toward life, and your capacity to formulate ideas. There is another element [...]
*The (third, I guess) keynote of your relationship with MyDear is unpredictability. It is a creative meeting of minds which generates the inspiration, energy and excitement and transformative potential of the [...]
*The unpredictable nature of your relationship with MyDear may sometimes be threatening to your need for stability and continuity in love. But there is also a strong urge toward communication [...]
*The highly volatile and unpredictable energy of this relationship is not devoid of love and romance, however; for there is also an element of powerful physical attraction and erotic feeling [...]
Your Relationship and Yourself
*Home Is Where the Heart Is
Your partnership with MyDear will probably have a profound impact on your emotional life, for its creative energy fulfils your deepest emotional needs and gives you a sense of coming home. Somehow you feel looked after by the relationship, even if you sometimes feel you are the one doing the actual looking after your partner; and it is likely that over time you will come to depend on the life-giving qualities of the bond for your sense of security and well-being. You may experience a sense of meaning and belonging which nourishes you on the instinctual level, giving you a feeling of purpose in life and satisfying your need to be needed. Because your attachment to and need of this relationship are likely to be so great, you will probably be willing to accept many compromises or sacrifices which you might not have tolerated in past relationships. Through this you may also discover facets of your own ability to care and nourish others which you were not fully aware of before. This is an extremely important relationship for you, because it touches you at such deep levels and gives you such a strong sense of being rooted in life.
*The loving and physically affectionate qualities of this relationship have a powerfully positive effect on your feelings, offering you a sense of security, contentment and personal happiness. You [...]
*The emotional dimension of this relationship will probably have a healing and positive effect on your sense of lovability and self- value. Whatever conflicts might arise between you and your [...]
*Coming Home
The expansive and innately generous qualities of this relationship
are, to put it simply, likely to make you feel good. You will prob-
ably feel contained and protected, and supported emotionally in
ways which you may not have experienced before. Whatever con-
flicts might arise on other levels (and there are bound to be some),
nevertheless it is as though you have "come home" in some way.
And you are likely to respond with an instinctive warmth and enthu-
siasm which can help you to face most of life’s obstacles with opti-
mism and a sense of humour. Even if you are in the midst of full-
scale battles with your partner, you are still likely to retain your faith
in the relationship because the relationship helps you to have more
faith in yourself. And your capacity to express your feelings is
likely to be deepened and stretched by the relationship, so that, even
if you have been a more emotionally withdrawn person in the past,
you will be able to be more spontaneous and open with others, and
more able to take risks with confidence in your own future.
*In the Beginning Was the Word
The particular quality of mental rapport inherent in the relationship is likely to have a very positive effect on your sense of emotional security and wellbeing. You may feel especially "at home" in this partnership because it will seem at times unusually easy for you to express your feelings and be understood. Also, your inner world is likely to be stirred, so that you feel more imaginative and receptive; and this could result in your having more energy to put into creative activities because you feel inspired so much of the time. There may of course be deeper conflicts arising between you and your partner; but because of the way in which the relationship gives you outlets for emotional and imaginative expression, you are never likely to feel bored, and you also have the great boon in this relationship of being able to talk about what you feel.
Your Relationship and Your Partner
*Feeling loved
The particular romantic qualities of the relationship reflect in an especially harmonious way your partner's own ideals of love and romance. Because there is a kind of "match" between certain aspects of the relationship and his own very personal needs, he is likely to feel more loved, wanted, desired and personally fulfilled than he has in the past; and his sense of being an attractive, worthwhile and lovable person is likely to be strengthened considerably. Even if deeper conflicts disturb the emotional flow between the two of you at times, the relationship's capacity to activate your partner's ability to give and receive love can help to give him the confidence, tact and sensitivity to cope with whatever difficulties might arise.
*The feeling of unlimited potentials which this relationship seems to possess has a way of opening up your partner's mind and broadening his thinking, so that his mental attitudes and perceptions [...]
*The quality of communication in this relationship has a powerful awakening effect on your partner's mind and mental attitudes. The partnership is likely to open up new ideas and new ways of [...]
*MyDear is likely to feel very secure and contained by this relationship, especially by the way in which others see the two of you as a couple. He needs the partnership because it seems to offer [...]
*The way in which this relationship appears to the outside world, and the responses it invokes in others, are likely to give strong validation to your partner's self-confidence and sense of worth [...]
*The way in which MyDear experiences the romantic aspects of this relationship is likely to have a very enriching effect on his image of himself and his ability to express himself to the outside world [...]
*Your partner's "persona" - the image he presents to the world - is likely to undergo some very positive changes through the effects of this relationship. Because he feels loved and appreciated, [...]
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