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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted February 10, 2008 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is it about this synastry that makes me very attracted to this girl?

I was surprised to see she was a scorp cause usually im not attracted to them. but her look drives me nuts. seriously. the kinda look that compels you to think that this is your soulmate. a crazy out of this world attraction like you could find nothing more beautiful, the epitamy of your hearts desire.


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posted February 10, 2008 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

for some reason the oppositions arent showing.. hmmm

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posted February 10, 2008 01:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First thing I noticed is her Mars & Venus on your ASC and your Venus conjuncting hers. You love the way each other looks.

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Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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posted February 10, 2008 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so the ascendant does play in attraction?

her AC doesnt conjunct my venus..

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posted February 10, 2008 01:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Um...your Venus is in Gemini and so is her ASC, correct?

Of course ASC plays in attraction..it is your body ego..someone with Mars on your ASC may be sexually attracted by the way you present yourself.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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posted February 10, 2008 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so the attraction goes her way to?

interesting.. yes but my venus doesnt conjunct her AC. but yes they are both in gemini

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posted February 10, 2008 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your Venus squares her Mars with 3'15 orb,and that can indicate sexual attraction..you as the Venus,the more attracted in that aspect

Your Venus trines Midheaven with 1'24 orb
according to Ebertin's book,COSMIC MARRIAGE,
that aspect indicates Individual love,spiritual tie,sincere affection

a lot of people overlook Midheaven in synastry,and Midheaven is very important point.


Your Venus conjuncts her North Lunar Node with 2'35 orb
according to Ebertin's COSMIC MARRIAGE, that aspect indicates united in love


Her Mars occults your ascendant.....that is...her Mars conjuncts your ascendant with 2'35 orb and parallels your ascendant with 18 minutes of arc
That indicates that her energy,passions can strongly affect you.....that can indicate strong physical attraction.


Your Venus trines her Ceres with 2'12 orb, and that indicates that you can be attracted to/love her nurturing qualities.


In your composite with her,
Moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio with 1'06 orb,and that's a very intense,deep emotional connection. Venus in Leo in 1st squares that.

Venus square Pluto with 2'18 orb can indicate an intense,deep love connection which can be obsessive

Moon square Venus with 3'25 orb can indicate emotions in conflict with affections...but it can indicate affectionate feelings in the relationship

The thing with Venus in Leo in 1st square Moon-Pluto in Scorpio in 4th is that it seems like there could be a conflict between desiring attention and being noticed versus wanting privacy,time for yourselves

Moon-Pluto sextile Neptune is very deep,sensitive,idealistic feelings in relationship....can be a very spiritual connection.

Neptune is conjunct Vertex with only 2 minutes of arc,and that seems to indicate a strong spiritual connection.

btw
in her natal chart,
she has Venus conjunct Mars,and it squares her Neptune.....so she could have strong sex appeal and be very charming,alluring,romantic..and highly idealistic in love,sexual relationships

She also has Scorpio stellium too,and that can indicate a very deep,intense nature..that could indicate sex appeal....especially with her Sun-Moon conjunction in Scorpio. She also has Mars parallel Pluto,and so her actions,energy is intense..can be strong sex drive.

it's possible that a lot of guys could be very attracted to her.


I was very attracted to 4 Scorpio Moon gals including my girlfriend

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posted February 10, 2008 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bummer..

why does every girl I find attractive have to be found attractive by everyone else. I wish I had a unique taste.

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posted February 10, 2008 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

nothing wrong with that. She's a hot gal.

go for it!

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posted February 10, 2008 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol

Glaucus.. Ive never seen her. lol

she lives closer to you anyway (san diego)

I was just browsing profiles on starmatch. lol and she stuck out the most.

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posted February 10, 2008 02:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

shrugs.....my girlfriend is in New Hampshire.....I went to see her twice. I am going to be moving to the East Coast this year..hopefully in the summer.

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posted February 10, 2008 03:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL

l have the same unbelievable attraction with my boyfriend. We are 24/7 jumping each other's bones and fell in love almost instantly and we have none of these aspects...

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posted February 10, 2008 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lara,

What aspects do you feel reflect your strong attraction/connection with your boyfriend?

at Maurice Fernandez's evolutionary astrology forum, there was thread on soulmates. I looked at people's geocentric planetary nodes...noticed couples tend to have strong nodal connections involving Venus,Juno

Soul Mate Indicators in Astrology (Part 1)

"What some students of astrology are not aware of is that all of the planets have nodes because one can determine where their orbits intersect with the plane of the ecliptic just as one can do with the Moon. Some astrological software programs like Solar Fire, v. 5, include the planetary nodes in their computations. What all of the nodes show us is the development of the Soul over time within its current cycle of experience so that the South (Lunar) or Descending (Planetary) Nodes reveal the Soul's evolution up to the beginning of this lifetime and the North (Lunar) or Ascending (Planetary) Nodes reveal the intent the Soul has for its direction in the future. The Moon represents the emotional center of one's personality, its instincts, habits, and unquestioned existential assumptions; the raw, unformed ego-state of personality that serves as one's initial selfhood until (and unless) one can grow into one's individuated Sun self. This is the realm of reaction and untested, visceral perceptions of reality. Its nodes generate emotional impressions of where the Soul has been and where it is going. Aspects between one partner's planets and the other's South Lunar Node stir up distant memories of feelings and instinct past, indicating either an actual karmic connection from a previous lifetime or something terribly reminiscent of one. The hard aspects especially produce patterns of energy and curiosity between two people, as do conjunctions by the Luminaries, by excitement-producing Mars and Uranus, and by the ultimate indicator of karmic obligation, Saturn. Aspects to the partner's North Node are not so easily felt, representing what could be should the two decide to join forces over a considerable period of time. My uses of the planetary nodes have been inspired and influenced by the brilliant pioneering work of eminent astrologer, Jeffrey Wolf Green. Strong aspects, especially tight conjunctions, oppositions, and squares, of one partner's planets and/or angles to the Descending Nodes of the other's personal planets (Mercury, Venus, and Mars) are significant indicators of soul mate connection and likely involvement in previous lifetimes. The actual pre-incarnate contact between the two parties strengthens the experience of soulfulness in the relationship exactly because the source of that contact lies outside one's current bodily perimeters. This works in much the same way that meeting an old and close high school friend after an absence of some twenty or thirty years evokes not only the feelings and memories associated with those years together but also an enhanced sense of life's meaning in general through comparison of where we were then and where we are now. These contacts put us in touch with a deeper dimension of life than we could experience within either of those points in time by themselves. The reason we use only the nodes of the innermost planets is because those of the planets from Jupiter on out move too slowly to be of much use in analysis of personal relationships. Contacts to those nodes do indicate prior life overlap but more in the impersonal sense of membership in the same tribe, village, society, or era." http://www.synastry.us/soulmate_indicators.asp


even in my own chart:
My South Mars Node oppose my girlfriend's Venus with 29 minutes of arc,and her South Venus Node conjuncts my Mars with 20 minutes of arc


you can calculate the nodes of objects here: http://www.megadelfi.com/~jonathan/pos/

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posted February 10, 2008 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glaucus.. bad idea. you better have her come to you. the weather here is bullcrap.. you will want to go back to Calli as soon as you see that first snowflake.. or leaf fall. when I get the chance im heading to either florida or Calli

the snow was always fun.. but now that Im an adult it just pis$es me off alot.. lol

that ephermis followed by the link is confusing..

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posted February 10, 2008 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She doesn't have that luxury to be doing that. She doesn't have the money to be doing that.
She wants to be close to her mother. Her mother wants to stay on the East Coast where she was born.

I don't mind moving over there. It's what I want to do. I can afford to relocate. I want a change of environment any way. It even fits with my Jupiter conjunct Imum Coeli in Sagittarius....living somewhere far away from my place of birth.


why is the ephemeris confusing?

I can help you out if you want. show you how to use it.

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posted February 10, 2008 04:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glaucus

Ummm l think these ones:

my venus trine his mars
my mars semi square his venus
his sun trine my venus
his moon trine my venus
his sun trine my n node
his moon trine my n node
his sun conjunct exact my vertex
his moon trine exact my vertex
his venus conjunct my uranus
his venus square my asc
his venus conjunct exact my eros
his mars trine my moon
his mars conjunct my vertex
his vertex sextile my sun
his vertex conjunct my descendant exact
his venus in my 8th house (conjunct my eros)
my venus in his 5th house
my moon in his 5th house
his psyche in my 5th house

What do you think? Not sure how many of these are relevant!


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posted February 10, 2008 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


When is the wedding??

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Lara
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posted February 10, 2008 05:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL

Funny you should ask :O

No seriously, it's totally out of this world and even though i'm a novice at astrology the aspects seem pretty awesome.

It gets better though:
COMPOSITE
moon in 2nd
saturn in 4th
sun/mars/mercury/venus in 7th
pluto/jupiter/uranus in 9th
neptune in 12th

sun trine moon
sun conjunct mars
mercury conjunct venus
venus conjunct mars
no nasty saturn aspects

hehehe

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posted February 10, 2008 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi SS,

In my experience, contacts between Moon and Pluto create the attraction, mystery, and curiousity, which can turn into obsession. The fascination with "what lies beneath" this person will always be felt, even if you never end up together.

With Moon in Scorpio in her natal, and your Pluto "activiating" her moon in synastry, I'm guessing that this intensity would feel familiar and comfortable to her.

So, have you contacted her yet?

8th

Glaucus, I tried the link but I'm getting an "internal server error" message.

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Lara
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posted February 10, 2008 10:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True.

I have moon square Pluto with my s/o

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posted February 10, 2008 11:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Seeing Stars, I consider planets/angles in the same signs to be significant like a conjunction, perhaps not as powerful..but the fact is still that the Gemini characteristics she has (physically, since you just saw a pic) are part of what you (Venus) find attractive and alluring.

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posted February 10, 2008 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I tried the link, and I have no problems with it.

It will probably work for you now.

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I had that error-message, too, when I tried the synastry one.
But when I used the ephemeris for one person, it all was okay.

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posted February 10, 2008 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

OH I see......I don't use the synastry one.

I am having the same problem with the synastry one.

I use the individual one.

as for planetary node synastry,I use my Solar Fire program....Solar Fire calculates the nodes of the major asteroids and Hygeia

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posted February 10, 2008 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea but you see the thing is that I didnt think she looked at all like a Gemini.

I thought maybe Pisces cause of the alluring look in her face. perhaps Im disillusioned of something. my venus opposite her neptune? what would that do?

yea hm I noticed we have moon conjunct pluto both ways. one in libra and one in scorpio. venus square mars and venus opposition mars. and my Mercury trining alot of her personal planets. would that effect my mentality of hers?

I normally wouldnt go this far.. but since all of you are telling me this I figure what the helI I will send her a message I suppose.. yes maybe she lives all the way across the country and is almost 5 years older then me.. hahaha. and on her profile it says she has a kid. which would normally be a dealbreaker for me. but I suppose maybe it would be nice to just talk.


glaucus no I was just confused about what to enter on the ephermis.. not the normal data entry feilds I see. i was just going to do it for the planet nodes. if they arent that important then i would say forget about it.. but if you feel you have the time then just type up some instructions or something other.

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