posted February 11, 2008 09:13 PM            

Hope you and your little one are well

Here are a couple of things l found!

Composite Venus Conjunct Saturn:

At best, the two of you will take your relationship with each other seriously, and are willing to work on the problems you have. A strong sense of responsibility, even obligation, toward one another permeates your bond. However, you are apt to feel that all you do is work on the relationship, that it is beset with difficulties, disappointments, and a sense of heaviness, and that there is meager reward for all of the effort required. There will be very little easy pleasure and lighthearted sweetness. Your affections turn cool, even cold, toward one another when you let the burdens you share become the sole focus of your togetherness. It is rather easy for distance and separateness to grow between the two of you.

On the other hand, you may want very much to be close but circumstances or fate prevent this from occurring. In either case, frustrated love feelings and inhibitions about giving and receiving wholeheartedly are bound to be a major challenge with the two of you. A feeling of restriction and containment, and emotional congestion makes it difficult for either of you to be truly joyful together. However, if you are not seeking bliss, and a more subdued, committed bond is what you want, this may be a good choice.

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus conjunct Saturn in the composite chart can present problems for a relationship.

Saturn represses the warm and self-expressive nature of Venus and can make a relationship very cold. Even if there are strong feelings between you, the expression of those feelings is somehow always subordinated to more practical considerations.

This aspect particularly can prevent a sexual relationship from ever being consummated, not for lack of feeling, but because of the considerations just mentioned.

posted February 11, 2008 09:20 PM            

Would have been easier to be married to the devil! :O

posted February 11, 2008 10:52 PM              

thanks for the cut and pastes.. i didn't see that second one when i looked. it seems like it offers some pretty nice potential. i did find this one though:

Venus Conjunct Saturn:

You may have difficulties expressing your love for each other and may veer to minimal displays. However you both value the longevity of the relationship and so will be able to weather hard times together. Sometimes this aspect will feel like a strong love attraction initially that draws you together and it is later that you may notice that you feel shy or inhibited about being demonstrative once the relationship is established. You both value a conservative expression of love and money.

how was your relationship hellish? did it make it difficult to express affection and emotion? do you think it was this aspect, or others? natally we have venus (his) sextile my saturn, exact, so i hope that would help things along somewhat. and also my venus on his moon, so i think that could help with the affection thing. but man we are pretty awkward or something when it comes to getting anything started.. that is, if he does have feeelings for me which i think he does. but i'm not sure.

i'm not sure what house it's in cuz we don't know his birthtime. but there's a good chance it's in the 6th.

posted February 14, 2008 04:54 AM              

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venus conjunct saturn in the composite chart present problems for a relationship, particularily a personal one. in professional associations it's not so difficult.

Saturn represents the principle of reality, at least as most people see it. as a planetary power it represses the warm and self-expressive nature of venus and can make a relationship very cold. Even if there are strong feelings between you, the expression of those feelings is somehow always subordinated to more practical considerations. one of you may feel that despite your affection for one another, this is not the right time or the right place for your being together. perhaps it would fool up a personal relationship that one of you has with someone else. this aspect particularily can prevent a sexual relationship from from ever being consummated, not for lack of feeling, but because of the considerations just mentioned.

this aspect can have another, quite different effect. your affection may be expressed, and a sexual relationship may be consummated, but in a very cool and restrained manner. there's little of the spontaneity and flamboyance that is supposed to characterize a love affair. nevertheless, the feeling is genuine, and saturn's slowing effect may make the relationship steady and enduring rather than an affair that burns itself out, as some do. it may turn a potential love affair into a platonic relationship. the same cooling and steadying effects will also be seen in friendship.

there is no reason to assume that this aspect will deny a satisfactory relationship, but it will slow it down and keep it cool. the two of you must ultimately decide what you want from this relationship. if you want a cool, steady, and reliable bond, this is it. but if you want an exciting and romantic affair, you won't find it with this aspect.

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it doesn't sound that bad to me..."reliable, steady..." and you must have more than just this aspect so you can probably bring the fun differently...

posted February 09, 2016 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Sunshine0705:
All my longest relationships (2 years+) had Venus conjunct Saturn in the composite chart. None of them was easy but we loved each other deeply.

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