posted February 16, 2008 08:25 PM            

They like out there chicks, freaky, liberal, free, nonconventional in relationships.

One of the guys I knew was into bi ladies as well, he wanted them both at the same time, course this was a 62Aqua with not only Venus in Aqua, but Mars, Merc, Jup and Saturn and of course the sun as well!

posted February 16, 2008 08:32 PM              

They can blow hot and cold, and alot of partners get confused and see this as lack of interest. They can shut their feelings off in an instant, after a warm, and intense projection of caring.

posted February 16, 2008 11:05 PM            

Not to be rude, but venus aquarius doens't necessarily indicate detachment, this is an aquarian quality, but specifically is much stronger in a sun or moon aquarius, not necessarily venus. The only time one might see extreme detachment in a venus aquarius is if their rising sign is libra or taurus, thus making venus their chart ruler and more imporant.

ANYWAY.

Venus aquarius are the "friend" dating sign. They aren't detached but they often see people as friends, and they often prefer to develop a platonic relationship first. They aren't commitment phobes, they just need freedom when they relate to others. They are attracted to offbeat people in general, and like underdogs or counterculture people. They want someone outisde the mainstream, someone who is an individual. Venus aquarius is a very charming position, they are good at relating to the public and groups in general.

When dating a venus aquarius just don't try to box them in, but don't be so aloof that you seem uninterested either. Venus in air indicates that communication is important to these people, so this is an important area for them.

posted February 16, 2008 11:24 PM              

So interesting. Thanks for replying to my thread.

So how does one know when a Venus Aquarius person is truly interested romantically? Do you sort of "flip flop" (for lack of a better word) between romance and friendship even when you're in a romantic relationship? How would one know, or what indications would there be on your part that you do actually love someone?

Are you male or female? Doesn't matter, I'm just curious.

posted February 17, 2008 07:06 AM            

Women express their Venusian qualities alot differently than men.

posted February 17, 2008 09:19 AM            

I have Venus in Aquarius, and what I can tell is that I cannot be detached from my emotions, because of Piscies Moon.
Venus in Aqua reflects in finding a right One; She must be special, different from others, she must have something in the eyes, thats why I never commit if I don't find person like that.
She has to be person I can talk about everything, friend and lover.

posted February 17, 2008 09:21 AM            

The way I knew he loved me was that he TOLD me verbally, and every once in a while I would catch a glimpse of it in his eyes when he looked at me a certain way. He expressed his love verbally, but not very emotionally or physically.

It was difficult for me to take after a while, because I express love very physically, and in tangible ways.

posted February 17, 2008 10:06 AM              

he's EXTREMELY humourous, and can be very uplifting to be around. just that he needs plenty of space, which although i don't really feel comfortable with, i have learned to accept.

posted February 17, 2008 11:56 AM            

Be careful about applying traits that maybe 2 or 3 people had to all people with that position.

Remember people are a blend of their entire chart, and those are just tendencies, not law. It's good to start to take note of things, but just because one person is one sign and one way does not mean all people will be that way.

Venus usually doesn't tell you much about that persons general personality, it simply tells you about the way they relate to others and their preferences.

Kaira I think a lot of men are really affectionate one day then detached the next. But I dont' think the way you are using the word detached is correct. A piscean is almost never detached, they simply don't have that ability.

People in astrology often use the word detached to describe aquarian influenced people. I'm wondering if they mean the traditional definition of detached which is "aloof or uncaring," or emotionally detached, which is more like they aren't really there emotionally, feeling what everyone else is. I believe that aquarius dominated people tend to take on the later, it's definitely not that they don't care.

posted February 17, 2008 03:33 PM              

So, it's not that they don't FEEL emotions, they just express them differently. Think of the opposite sign of Leo and how they express themselves... then go in the other direction! lol

Good luck!

posted February 17, 2008 03:45 PM              

And I do like what BlueRoamer and kindjali wrote about Venus in Aquarius. I think it sums up what Venus in Aquarius is really like deep down below all the astrology jargon about "aloofness."

Venus in Aqua is a very interesting aspect of a chart's whole. I've personally known many people (mostly men) with this aspect so I was curious to find out more. I'd love to keep this discussion going and get more indepth!

posted February 18, 2008 09:45 AM            

True,true..

Venus in Aqua seek friendship FIRST once we get that down to a science with a person its on we can love deeply..Men and women..

I have Moon,Merc,Venus and rising in Aqua, but they all take a back seat to my Pisces Sun..When I love a man he does not even have to think twice he knows..Remember friends First..

posted February 20, 2008 06:28 PM              

THERE IS NO HOPE FOR HIM!

I honestly mean this.

He is so emotionless, I can't fathom who'd understand it, never mind put up with it.

I actually feel terribly sorry for this man. I doubt he'll ever find anyone. PLUS, he's terribly selfish.

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Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
Pluto in Libra