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posted February 29, 2008 03:45 PM            

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posted February 29, 2008 03:49 PM            

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As a generalisation, Taurus is a sign slow to anger but quite destructive when it finally explodes.

Techniques? Stay quiet and out of the way.

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posted February 29, 2008 04:02 PM              

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Send loving thoughts her way. Discontinue thinking negatively about her and the situation and watch what happens.

ps. You can do this for any Sun Sign.

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posted February 29, 2008 04:18 PM              

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Move, bltch. Get out the way. Get out the way, bltch. Get out of the way.

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posted February 29, 2008 05:35 PM            

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Self-protection techniques will only get you so far. In my experience, the act of living within the consciousness of lack (feeling a lack of distance from her, a lack of respect from her, a lack of anything positive to do with her) will continue to bring about these very things.

Sometimes simply recognizing on a very conscious level that her reaction(s) to you say more about her than you is a good starting point. She is in pain and is trying to get rid of it by directing it towards you. I know it sounds somewhat new-agey to say that finding a place of personal peace with the situation will help, so I apologize if it sounds trite, but I have managed to disconnect myself from unhealthy people simply by directing love towards them. The type of love I mean is more of a detached, humanistic kind of love. By changing your own energy, you'll automatically affect the energy that you draw towards you.

I also know that doing that can be hard since you probably feel angry and also what sounds like an intense need to protect yourself (and your daughter) from this woman, with good reason.

I don't know if this helps you, but it has helped me on numerous occasions.

All the best

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posted February 29, 2008 06:02 PM            

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Techniques? Stay quiet and out of the way.

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I agree with Blue. Taurus's are hard to anger, if you just keep a distance, she'll eventually get the point.

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posted February 29, 2008 08:31 PM              

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My older sister is a Taurus. She's very selfish and steps on anyone she can for self gain. She does things for reactions out of the other person and when they do react she plays the victim.

If she's anything like that basically, you need to learn the politics of the game she's playing and learn to play it better. Ignoring it and being the better person is a nice thought but at a certain point you don't really have a choice about it.

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posted February 29, 2008 08:43 PM              

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I agree with the concept of taking your energy out of the situation...Tauruses are very sensitive to changes in energy.

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posted February 29, 2008 09:04 PM            

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Wow, I didn't know that was a Taurus thing. I had the same problem with my best friend. I didn't know it was a common trait. Why can't they mind their own business? It seemed like she was just enraged that I didn't take her advice. I'd always heard they saw everything in black and white but never anything along these lines. She not only did what you described, but when I didn't give in and then ignored it, she attacked my integrity and told me I was using HIM. If anybody was a sucker in THAT relationship it was yours truly and I couldn't even bring myself to dignify that with trying to make her understand. It was not only insulting, but absurd and I lost all faith in her perception. I also think she was not only talking behind my back, but letting her sister or friend listen on three way. I'm a Leo and they're also threatened by our confidence. I wish there was a way to deal with it because they are some of the sweetest most helpful people on earth. But when they attack our integrity that's a deal breaker.

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posted March 01, 2008 02:30 AM              

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mrsxdwinchester i feel you, my older sister is exactly like yours and shes a taurus

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posted March 01, 2008 03:11 AM            

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Well I think there are two things you can do.

1 (the preferred one) is to ignore her cr*p despite how destructive and annoying it is and hope that the friends you have will be mature enough to not give into her slander but choose to instead point out to her the error of her ways. Or

2) you can confront her about it (have solid evidence) and tell her how immature and petty she is being and how much it dishonors the friendship that you did have.

P.S. Its not a Taurus thing. I have a Capricorn ex friend who has been doing the same for 2 1/2 years now. Its a petty, insecure girl thing

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posted March 01, 2008 02:25 PM            

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I'd say to just avoid her. Taurus is a fixed sign. Most likely, when she doesn't like someone (like your boyfriend, and now you), she is stuck in her dislike. It's very hard for her to change.

Send her loving thoughts. Hopefully, she was wrong about your boyfriend...

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posted March 01, 2008 04:35 PM              

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It's never really "over" with a Taurus.
I've had my share of disagreements but they keep attacking me (even behind my back) to this day.

Ignore it, and don't let this negative energy and her bullsh*t affect you. <3

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posted March 01, 2008 04:46 PM            

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Hunk of rope put ludacris to shame.

what you do is.. you go find her and basically either threaten to kill her or just kill her.. scare the **** out of her so she see's a whole different side of you noone has ever seen.. and she will be aghast and think twice about calumniating you.

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posted March 01, 2008 04:55 PM            

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scratch that.

a more appropriate and sophisticated way to go about this. get into an argument with her and make sure you put her in her place. come with a good argument and make sure you know what to say and how to defend against what she might say.. use what you know about her to your advantage.. and make her look retarded in front of a bunch of people.. make sure you do it in a public place or where people will see.. just hand her a$$ to her verbally on a 24k gold plate two toned with silver that is lined with diamonds on the edges. once she shes how badass you are then she'll stop mouthing.

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posted March 02, 2008 03:21 AM              

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I wouldn't chock up the insanity to her Sun sign. 8 months? Even Taurus gets tired of the rage eventually. There's some Scorpio, maybe Gemini action in there somewhere.

But still—doesn't sound like astrology necessarily explains her behavior. Mental illness might, though. I'd stay away for that reason alone. And I think that's the best thing for you to do. Just stay. Away.

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posted March 02, 2008 05:15 AM              

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even if you are right in an argument with a taurus they will never accept it they will just
walk away and come back next day with more issues. they can never admit they're wrong, not
even to themselves when they are alone

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posted March 02, 2008 07:15 AM            

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I'vd done this quesion once before on Cancers...and I'd like to know how to rid myself of a certain Taurus Woman who used to be a great friend of mine

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hmm if you've done this question twice maybe it is time to think why you keep attracting the same kind of 'friends'?? what if they are there for you to teach you something very important about your Self? Maybe you get mirrored what you project and don't want to admit about yourself?

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posted March 02, 2008 09:26 AM            

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scratch that.
a more appropriate and sophisticated way to go about this. get into an argument with her and make sure you put her in her place. come with a good argument and make sure you know what to say and how to defend against what she might say.. use what you know about her to your advantage.. and make her look retarded in front of a bunch of people.. make sure you do it in a public place or where people will see.. just hand her a$$ to her verbally on a 24k gold plate two toned with silver that is lined with diamonds on the edges. once she shes how badass you are then she'll stop mouthing.

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But you run a risk that then she'll play the victim and cry and they'll all take her side. You're dealing with women here.

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posted March 02, 2008 11:36 PM            

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posted March 03, 2008 03:17 AM            

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still at large good point.. well then she will have to make sure she is completley calm and has the polite air to her while she makes her look retarded and clealry shows how she is right. therefore if she does cry everyone will think her emotions are unduly and think she is a baby. besides. most of the public or people around should know this beotch and how she deserves therefore no sympathy . and then if she says sorry and she wants to reconcile you two can be friends again. all better. cant have peace without war.. thats an interesting subject. when I was younger. all the kids I got into like fist fights with and such I was like their friend a week later.. hahahah wierd.. and it happened with more then one person. I guess thats a libra moon kid for yah.

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posted March 03, 2008 09:19 AM            

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lol. Funny how that goes. I've seen it plenty o times myself. In fact it can be a good technique if there's a guy you like. I guess you have to really get someone's attention and penetrate before the love/hate sides of the coin go into effect and banish the indifference...which they say is the real opposite...

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posted March 04, 2008 02:25 AM            

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still at large.

what do you mean?

and about attracting people? I would definitely be attracted to a girl that could fight with me or give me reason to feel threatened by her. I think when I was younger I could never take my eyes off that girl that would come out to play and not be afraid to get rough. hahah kids.. the tomboyish yet emotional alpha female hah.

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posted March 04, 2008 08:32 AM            

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You have to get the pot boiling. You have to be someone to be reckoned with, get their attention. It works with women better, now that I think about it. I've heard guys that actually USE that strategy. It goes against everything you hear but if it works it works and I've seen it too many times. You don't necessarily have to SAY anything. Just diss them. I remember one time I did that to a guy not even meaning to. He dropped a bunch of change and I stood over him looking down in really disrespectful way. He was already awkward and embarrassed and it was in front of everyone. I looked like such a b**** . They all HATED me and felt sorry for him. It was intense, a major scene, but noone ever said a word. This is the south and a woman does not insult a man. He was seething but I had him. After that I could take the relationship anywhere. I was really good-looking at the time and that made it all the worse. LOL. He really had no choice if he wanted his pride, etc.
Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. If you can get them to hate you, it's a very short process to turn the coin. That's the idea anyway. IMHO.
However, I would only use this on someone who could handle it. Someone who thinks too much of themselves anyway, usually. You wouldn't want to do it to someone who was beaten down or had low self esteem. It wouldn't work the same.

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posted March 05, 2008 02:00 AM            

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thats so very true.. the hardest thing is getting feelings there.. once there there they can easily be altered Thats an interesting story still at large. maybe you should have asked him out since you already clearly had the power. lol. Im not sure how well this type of approach would work for me. I would prolly most likely just get a bad impression from it. or retaliate. it does sound hot but usually a girl who is forward in her demeanor for seeking men usually tends towards promiscuity. and it would have to be playful kind of challenging and slighting. it I didnt find it funny I would tend to just not like the person.

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