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capnsag
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posted March 03, 2008 03:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How has this worked in your relationships?

I'm going out with a Virgo that's been interested in me for a while, and the synastry is not pretty! Both his Merc. and Mars square my Moon and Merc.

Thanks!

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blue moon
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posted March 08, 2008 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds a bit argumentative. How is it working out?

It doesn't mean the clanging chimes of doom. It could be a testing aspect you both learn to use to fulfill your personal potential. That is what relationships are often about.

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EighthMoon
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posted March 08, 2008 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi CapnSag,

The Mars moon square can be a bit tough. It depends on placements and other factors in your chart as to how it might play out between you.

Moon opposite moon can work...but it also depends on other factors. Usually one of you has to be willing to adopt the other's lifestyle although it's not necessarily in sync with yours. It depends on what that lifestyle is and how comfortable you are with it.

I dated someone that I had this aspect in a long distance relationship, and it was great...til the question of ME moving there came up. I think I was OK as long as "that's your life, this is mine." As soon as I would have had to bring his world home and give mine up, I realized it wasn't what I wanted.

He's fixed and I'm mutable, so his lifestyle changing wasn't an option. As a matter of fact, my life "stage" has changed many times over the years and his is exactly the same! We're still friends after 23 years though...long distance friends! LOL!

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Love
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posted March 08, 2008 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's see...I had Moon opposite Moon in my longest relationship: 7 years. The thing is, we lived in different cities for 4 and a half of those years and then lived together for about 2 and a half and then it ended. Of course, it didn't end because of 'Moon opposing Moon' but that was surely a factor, however small. I have a Taurus Moon and he has a Scorpio Moon and he would hold his feelings in and refuse to share them. The more he did this, the more frustrated and demanding I got about communicating and then he would subsequently hold back even more. Vicious circle.

I have Moon square Mars natally and I just met someone who I have this with in synastry. I tend to think that if you have the same challenging aspect in your chart that you have with someone in synastry it can definitely soften it. After all, you are probably more used to and aware of the energy of that aspect.

I would say with the aspects you mentioned that communication will be a big deal for the two of you. Make sure to be very clear and balanced as much as you can when you talk and that should mitigate the energy. Communication is the most important thing anyway.

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Bucketrider
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posted March 09, 2008 12:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any aspect between moons is great. A close friend of mine has her moon exactly opposite my moon and we a very natural pair. Very yin/yang and feeling like two parts of a whole. In general, my experience has been that oppositions are not bad in synastry when they involve the same planet, sun opp sun, moon opp moon, etc. They are more challenging when they involve dif planets like mars opp sun.

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capnsag
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posted March 09, 2008 05:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for all the input!

The way it's working out for us, is that I always feel I have to say things a couple of times, because he doesn't seem to 'get it' the first time...I don't feel understood right away, but then he gets it.

With our Merc. square too, and with that, I think there's uncertainty about where the other stands, from words.

I really miss, and seem to need, that conj. between Mercs and Moons. I felt so understood with that aspect with a past bf!

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LeoCat
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posted March 09, 2008 05:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had mars square moon with somebody almost exactly, both at 16 degrees. I was the mars although it felt the other way around.

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Hermes28
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posted March 09, 2008 11:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in Gemini really, really irritates me. I'm moon in Sagittarius, in the 3rd, & Sun in Gemini. The Sun-Moon conj, nor affinity does nothing to help 'cept attract them. The Leo suns were cool though.

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Green Fairy
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posted April 07, 2008 06:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dani California
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posted April 07, 2008 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dani California     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me and OH have moon opposite moon in that mine is in Libra and his in Aries....its ok, til you get in an argument, then you can see the differences. Not a bad thing though.

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neloose
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posted April 04, 2013 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for neloose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Dani California!
I'm really intersted in your moon aspects with your OH, as I am moon in Aries and someone i'm interested in has moon in Libra. What is it like to have moon in Libra? How do you react/interact emotionally? How is the chemistry between libra moon and aries moon? What are the interactions like? What kinds of traits (for each sign) do you notice most? (e.g. is aries moon more hot-headed, more argumentative at all? are you always the voice of reason?, etc)

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Leo-Cancer98
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posted May 16, 2016 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by neloose:
@Dani California!
I'm really intersted in your moon aspects with your OH, as I am moon in Aries and someone i'm interested in has moon in Libra. What is it like to have moon in Libra? How do you react/interact emotionally? How is the chemistry between libra moon and aries moon? What are the interactions like? What kinds of traits (for each sign) do you notice most? (e.g. is aries moon more hot-headed, more argumentative at all? are you always the voice of reason?, etc)

I'd love an answer to this too lol. But you probably should've quoted her post :$

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