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Topic: How can you tell if a scorpio man attracted to a virgo woman?
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dvirgo
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posted March 03, 2008 10:53 AM
 
How can you tell if a scorpio man is attracted to you? How will he show?IP: Logged |
artemisss
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posted March 03, 2008 12:25 PM
he'll start being possessive over you. suggesting who you should hang out with, what you should wear. he'll be discreet, stare at you alot. you will feel it and know. hes eyes will penetrate you. he will pay attention to you. a lot. and try to make sexual advances...eventually, once you have earned his trust. IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 03, 2008 01:21 PM
He'll start doing whatever you ask, he pays attention and tries to make you feel you could have control if you wanted to...thats my experience with Scorpio men.IP: Logged |
Hermes28
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posted March 03, 2008 01:27 PM
It's unmistakable.He will lock eyes with you, and you'll feel magnetically pulled to him. IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 03, 2008 01:31 PM
Hermes- youre right, they STARE A LOT when they like you.IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted March 03, 2008 02:52 PM
Yeah, they'll most likely stare at you a lot...Noticed this with men who have either one of these placements: Sun, Moon, Asc., Mars, or Venus in Scorpio....It's a strong placement and you can just tell they're looking straight at you without being embarrassed...They 'want' you to know they're into you and will get closer to you. Moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 03, 2008 07:33 PM
Are these 'symptoms' still valid even if he is married (to an aquarius wife) and I am a married virgo?
he constantly shares his feelings and weakness with me.
he brings up sex related topics when we are chatting, (not suggesting having sex with me)
he is very careful - we are colleagues.Can it be he's just testing out his own charms? IP: Logged |
artemisss
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posted March 03, 2008 07:39 PM
yes, being married doesnt tune out your inner nature. and no hes not testing anything. this is him. he will always be curious of what else is out there. and who else can understand his nature.IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 03, 2008 07:45 PM
if i start to backoff, no more after work drinks, no more one to one dinners, will he still be after me? We of course did not admit anything between ourselves.I am attracted to him but I need to suppress myself. IP: Logged |
artemisss
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posted March 03, 2008 07:58 PM
no, ignoring him will only make him want you more. there is no real way to get rid of him, unless you really hurt his feelings. but even then, it could be dangerous. he has to get over you on his own time. you could try to communicate your uncomfort with the situation, even though you are somewhat intrested in him. let him know your married and will not cheat.IP: Logged |
dj
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posted March 03, 2008 08:06 PM
Oh, goddess, I am gonna be sooooo fried by my clan for giving away their secrets, but hey its the age of aquarius...
You want out of this entire situation? Dispel the mystery. The mystery is what is drawing him. Just come flat out with the truth at the first oppurtunity. (Im not interested, Im married, forget it, sorry). Whatever you do, dont show even the barest hint of doubt, or you will probable find yourself with a bigger problem.
Snuff out the mystery, and you kill the romance.
Now I am doomed, because this is like pointing out to Leos that lions by nature are lazy scavengers. oops. (this was a joke of course, and a subtle hint to really overdo the Verrgo thing of pointing out critical flaws...in him). goodnight 
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libraschoice7
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posted March 03, 2008 09:13 PM
Its true in any case that a Scorpio man will do things for a woman he is interested in without hesitation and he'll want to be a part of everything you get involved in(more like in control)...no matter what sign she may be.------------------
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Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted March 03, 2008 09:27 PM
Men in general tend to stare at you when they like youMost of them it's pretty obvious how they feel. Many men are really shallow and really will completely ignore you unless they're attracted to you. Hate to say it but it's the way it is. Especially younger ones. IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 03, 2008 09:35 PM
BR- Scorpios tend to have an unique stare...there is a distinction with their stare. Most men Ive come across stare briefly..but scorpios make it very obvious.IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 03, 2008 11:57 PM
Aren't Scorpio man supposed to be very loyal husband? How can one tell if he doesn't not love his wife anymore? Will he stick to his responsibility but have a separate thought in mind?IP: Logged |
mblover
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posted March 04, 2008 12:35 AM
Ok Virgin - forgive my grammar and spellings; here you go;Virgin's meeting with Scorpio will obviously be quite interesting. Generally Scorpio man enjoy Virgin's company right away. He enjoys Virgin's listening skills and thinks that Virgin is really following him - which is not true - but thats how he interprets it at early stage ;-) If he is interested in you then, First Step, he will break all of your superficial analytical discriminating skills by showing you way more deeper analysis behind human psyche. Just about every opinion you have will be taken into deeper analysis and you will be shocked as well as magnetized because he will not disagree but will show you a deeper psychological level thought process behind just about everything from Macro to Micro economics. Suddenly, you are in a world that is not planet Earth --- Either you are in Sky with an Eagle or you are in Ocean Floor with a Scorpio. Either way you start seeing a world that you never saw before. Because of your acute listening skills, he will realize you are taking an interest in him!!! So, he pulls you even more deeper. Second Step, he will make some sudden moves in trying to explore an opportunity to hug you or somehow touch you - and - that would be the moment of TRUTH. By MISTAKE if you hugged him, then you are hipnotized. And, somehow a lot of opinions you built about how things work on this world by mastering so many skills are Short Circuited and Fused!!!! But you still feel drawn and even more attached. Physical touch will be nerve breaking and all analysis will go down under water. But somehow Virgins are not scared of Scorpios. And, if by another MISTAKE, a physical relationship (sex) has been performed, then Virgin explodes with the deepest desires that she controlled for long long time. Scorpio will almost attempt to transform Virgin into her opposite Pisces. He will let you stay loose, he will ask you NOT to do the laundry, and he will ask you to take a break from work for a day to relax. He will even ask you not to love your Job Life Boss. Third Step, of course by now, he is in Control and most amazing thing is Virgin loves Scorpio's control because they see the man quite differently from fellow Air or Fire women. And, Virgin believes that she has been chosen to serve this deep emotional yet completely controlled strong willed leader. Virgins are way more powerful than Scorpios because they are selfless and take the life as it comes without any ego in picture. Scorpio will realize this truth at one point - and decide to either accept it and get married with Virgin OR desire a relationship where Emotions rule more than daily Nagging. Either its a new beginning or its an end. Please note that based on Mythology, only a Scorpio can break the Virgin's Virginity. And, in real life, if Virgin has a few Waterly planets then she will lose her virginity almost every night and sometimes every morning before getting ready for her Virgin work life during day time.
Also notice that SCorpios don't explicitly appreciate thousands of small little tasks Virgins do to make Scorpio happy - but he will repay via one night of erotic Sex and it will be more than enough appreciation for years and years of Serving. That's how Virgin will realize but she will ALWAYS hope that her man appreciates her work by giving roses, cards and little pat on her butt ;-) Whether it happens or not will depend on Eagle's maturity. IP: Logged |
Bushidogrl
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posted March 04, 2008 01:50 AM
I'm gonna have to agree with the staring thing. When they stare at you it's like they are looking into ur soul. Piercing eyes/stare o_0! And dj is right...Snuff out the mystery! IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 04, 2008 07:11 AM
Thanks MBLover. Very precise and to the point. In fact I feel that he's acting very strange when I start back-off. He begins to talk pure business with me. But I sense that he's 'finding business' to talk with me. He still has those stares in my eyes. I feel sad and it's pretty hard to suppress my true feelings for him. It's very hard to withdraw a bonding from him.
But I think he's got a wife who needs him a lot and she is really very dependent. And I got a husband I love - who's a Scorpio!!!
I did not believe torn between two persons (can't say lovers cos there's never any explicit talks between us stating our feelings for each other.) I sometimes even suspect I am over reacting and too sensitive. Though deep down I know I'm not.
It's very tiring and it's really hard to let go, particularly you see him everyday.
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dvirgo
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posted March 04, 2008 07:14 AM
What I'm saying is that I 'did not' believe in 'torn between two lovers/persons' before but now I do. And I'm afraid that if I don't back off I'll step into infidelity. I feel guilty and 'mentally cheating' on my husband.IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 04, 2008 07:17 AM
On second thought, is it possible that this Scorpio deliberately sends some mixed messages to confuse me? So to enjoy the feelings of being loved? IP: Logged |
bvanzy
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posted March 04, 2008 10:41 AM
Scorpio men, when they truly like you, my experience is, as someone said above, that they will do absolutely anything for you and their feelings are unmistakeable.IP: Logged |
starrym
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posted March 04, 2008 12:34 PM
Scorpio's dont take backing off or rejection easily - there's only one direction to go- which is deeper. Sorry to hear about your situation.. IP: Logged |
dvirgo
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posted March 04, 2008 06:25 PM
Guess I have to face him again and again unless I quit the job.
I even tried to delete his mobile number (although both of us never call/test each other having private talks - it seems that we have a very subtle understanding of 'the rule of the game) but I can't let go.IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 04, 2008 06:29 PM
Scorpios like a good game, so I wouldnt be surprised if he was toying with you to test out the waters.IP: Logged |
mblover
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posted March 05, 2008 02:22 AM
dvirgo, Let me explain you - your inner problem. I know you need a lot of details - so here you go - please reread two three times...Your current Scorpio husband is not really appreciating things you do because he thinks either they are trivial or there is always nagging to seek appreciation of your hard work. And, trivial things have no appreciation in Scorpio's world. So, he tries to avoid you when you are nagging. Now, suddenly this another Scorpio comes into picture and you are finding all those mangetism that you were used in early stage relationship with your current husband - so missing link has already been found and lots of repressed emotions are boiling. Again - as you know - only Scorpios can invoke Virgin tightly controlled deep emotions - so volcano has been built inside you -. BTW, this Scorpio guy is still a loyal husband to his wife. Do not mistake his lusty STARE for love or sudden moves as if he will leave his wife for you. By testing your waters, he is testing his own. My advice is to STICK to your husband - because - this Scorpio might not know you are way more powerful than him. But, as I told you in the 'Moment of Truth' section above - when he realizes that you have power of selflessness - he might leave you completely. What happens when he will leave you from this short term fling, SELF CRTICISM. You will go into Martyr Dom and realize that it was your OWN mistake from the beginning. Please note that Virgos have this really bad dark side of managing multiple relationships along with their spouse relationships. As an example, you might be giving equal priority to your Boss at work or your close friends or parents or a random community person whom you are trying to help. And, you will try to organize everything so much that you can manage all of these relationships with high efficiency and productivity. Well, it would work if your current husband were an Aquarius or Gemini - but - being with Scorpio and still giving others higher or even equal priorities will be visible to him even if you don't say anything. He will not appreciate your attention towards him even more. It can only get worse and you will have to compromise at one point. So, think twice before you move out of one Scorpio's world and get into another one's. One thing I can promise - it will be full of drama and one way or the other.. Self criticism will come at a very very deep level. Now, if you really want to love your current husband and find his love back - then simply read, Scorpio Man - Virgo Woman, Scorpio Man - Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man - Pisces woman sections of Linda's book. A lot will be visible. And your future will be bright :-) IP: Logged |
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