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SparklingSag
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posted March 15, 2008 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey all,

Just wanted put something out there....i've noticed lately the name of the guy my heart belongs too everywhere! For example, at work i was processing an application and the street name was the his name, a friend reccomended a book and the author had his name and i see his name in newspapers. It's been happening alot recently. He is on a study abroad program for a year but we spoke a week or so back when he helped me out with something.

I guess my question is this: seeing his name everywhere when i least expect it, is that a sign? or is it simply that im subconsciously looking for it??

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blue moon
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posted March 15, 2008 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How unusual is his name?

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SparklingSag
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posted March 15, 2008 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gregory...i guess its not unusual....hes the only person i know with that name so perhaps its unusual for me.

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Atlenta
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posted March 15, 2008 02:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You take notice of the name more because it vibrates to a personal meaning for you.

However, the name appearing at inopportune times are signs that the universe is reminding you of him.

The name of my guy appears in inopportune moments that are very significant. I usually chuckle and enjoy the meaning and moment of recognition it evokes on me.

His name usually appears alongside something that has personal meaning, either for him or both of us, so its a breath of fresh air, even if its just coincidence!

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SparklingSag
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posted March 15, 2008 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Atlenta,

I agree with you...i think its a combination of both. I find myself smiling when I see his name at an unexpected time...i guess it is a sign, or a nudge from the universe. I'll take it as positive and carry on as usual :-)

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stillatlarge
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posted March 15, 2008 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a sore subject for me. I've gotten to where I just say a little prayer and ignore it most of the time. It's so frustrating trying to figure these things out all the time. I have psychic silliness all the time. I mean truly earth shaking coincidence and very profound things and then those like you're talking about but most of the time they seem to mean nothing. It can really make you neurotic with the most mundane things and you get supersitious. It's like there's an intelligence out there behind it just screwing with you for sh-ts and giggles.

BUT THEN there have been those nonsensical out of the blue flashes like it felt like God was telling me something that when I followed up it really paid off big time sooo...

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BLKFox
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posted March 16, 2008 04:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Still,
Re: "...intelligence out there behind it just screwing with you..."
I believe the "intelligence" is in you, acting on your directions, but that is only part of the story...
There is the "you" part, & the "big picture" part...who knows where one ends and the other begins?<---rhetorical question.

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stillatlarge
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posted March 16, 2008 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But I couldn't MAKE these things happen even if I tried. That's completely external.

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nattie33
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posted March 16, 2008 07:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They are signs. believe me i went through this for the better part of a year

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stillatlarge
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posted March 16, 2008 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But what CAME of it? That's what I'm asking. I acknowledge there are signs but sometimes it seems so purposeless or you get the sign and it seems like it's only to taunt you like finding out what you need to know when it's impossible to do anything about it or it's too late in another way. That's happened to me so many times.

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SparklingSag
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posted March 16, 2008 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, i think its a case of having faith and that can be hard sometimes because doubt creeps in...but then i am a great believer in angels etc and signs do come through in simple ways. Seeing his name suddenly when not expecting it, does seem a sign to me. It makes me smile anyway, so is all positive :-)

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nattie33
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posted March 16, 2008 07:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my case someone i hadn't seen from or heard from in more than a decade returned. After 7 months of signs.

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stillatlarge
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posted March 16, 2008 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good for you. I hoped it worked out the way you wanted. I really need to start writing these things down cuz when the topic comes up I always draw a blank.

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nattie33
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posted March 16, 2008 08:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It didn't work out for me. The signs went on longer than the relationship lasted. I dont know why i had to go through this. A long lead in and then Boom nothing.

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BLKFox
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posted March 16, 2008 08:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Still,
I believe nothing is completely external, in fact, we live in a universe that is creative and responds to our thinking ...our thoughts--both conscious AND unconscious are creative--thoughts become things.
Whatever you focus on acts as a magnet, attracting anything like itself. Your mind takes whatever you think about as a problem to be solved and goes to work "presenting" you with solutions. So, because you've been thinking about "Gregory"...the universe is presenting you with all kinds of "Gregorys".
If you think about it, you've had similar experiences in the past.

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nattie33
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posted March 16, 2008 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For me though. I wasn't thinking about him until the signs started.

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BLKFox
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posted March 17, 2008 12:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He was already in your sub...

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SparklingSag
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posted March 17, 2008 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BLKFOX-

I think you've hit on a good explanation, you attract what you think about. I didn't post this topic in order to gain an affirmation that it means we'll be together. I just wondered about conicidence and synchronicity and how the universe works.

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posted March 17, 2008 09:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BLK Fox,

I also think you are absolutely right with your explanation.

Actually I think this is exactly what fate is: The external materialisation of an inner process.
At least in most cases.

DD

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dj
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posted March 17, 2008 09:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are the universal awareness experiencing itself, there is no difference, its all Eternity gazing at itself in a mirror.

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heart cakes
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posted March 18, 2008 02:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow! what a mind-blower, hey? i think about this stuff all the time. i'm inclined to agree with BLK and dj. that is, there is no definitive answer, and i do not think LOGIC bears any place in understanding and can trap us into dead ends..

i think if you are finding signs or signals, those are YOUR reachings out and recievings back. just like if you kept seeing the name of someone who made you feel completely awful.. you would work diligently at ignoring those signals and shaking them.. and in the process, would also have the opportunity to deal with whatever hold that person had on your soul and mind.. etc..

i think it is all relevent, but it's about our own choices and intuition and using our hearts to move forward, without fear, into what feels right.. signs are there for a reason, but that's only the tip of the iceburg and the rest is really about what we do with it..

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SparklingSag
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posted March 22, 2008 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey BLFOX

Since you made the point that "signs" are a physical manifestation of our thoughts, it has been happening even more but I am aware that it is perhaps me creating it.

For example, my love interest is from Sweden and my flatmate put a post-it note up in the kitchen. The note had "sweden" written all over it as her friend had sent it from Stockholm. My love interest and I had collaborated together on a travel article on sweden for my job. So it was on my mind.

I can see it so clearly now...its the manifestations of my mind rather than the universe....

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Virgo/Leo Cusp
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posted March 22, 2008 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo/Leo Cusp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

well the same thing has been happening to me for a few months now.....
I see the name of a person.......I'm trying to forget about but the name keeps popping up.......like today this name showed up three times....and that never happens on a regular day....and also when at work..at the most unexpected time the name will show up and I will give a big sigh....or when I say I will not think about the person and I'm not ... then it shows up again...the name seems to haunt me......I don't know what to think

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