posted March 22, 2008 01:10 AM              

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I need help...I am trying to win the heart of a Libran man. He's very indecisive& I would like to know what it takes to charm this man. I really don't understand the men of this sign! Help!

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posted March 22, 2008 05:41 AM              

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Not exactly very compatible sun signs for a love interest I wouldnt have thought ?

How are you trying to "reel him in" exactly ?

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posted March 22, 2008 06:16 AM            

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I don't think you should have to reel him in. I vote for finding that someone who KNOWS they want you. Or letting him work through his indecision by just being yourself and doing what's comfortable and normal for you. If that reels him in, then you're set!

I don't believe in "reeling people in" so to speak. From your side, you end up with someone who is into you because you were able to find and push his buttons, not because you are necessarily a good fit for each other. From his side, he thinks he's getting one thing, and then when you inevitably revert back to what is comfortable and normal for you, you might not be the person he thought you were...which can obviously make for problems.

I'd go with just being yourself and letting his indecision work itself out. I know a Cappy Fem/Libra Male couple, happily married, and when they were first dating, she had no doubt that he was into her.

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posted March 22, 2008 07:57 AM              

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I am trying to "reel" him in by being myself. When we first met we shared so many interests that it was scary. We enjoy many of the same hobbies, food & grape pop is both are favorite. I am in fact being the kind, considerate person that I always am. But he's been hurt just like many have been. He tells me that he wants to be sure before he lets go. This man is different in good & someways. Because he is in his late 40's & he has only been in love twice & they were back to back & it hurt him alot. He tells me that I'm different & that I treat him like no other woman has. I have made a couple of his favorite dishes. He takes me out usually or we spend time together on every Saturday. We've been doing this for 12-13 wks. We have not missed a week & he emails me every morning & we talk almost every night. When we met Dec 21st of '07 he planned our next date after we had been on the 1st date for about 30 min. He also in February got tickets for us to go to a play in April. But what concerns we is that we are still dating & we are not an official couple as of yet. I just don't understand how we could still not be a couple at this point. He said he wants a serious relationship & all the same things that I want. He's even told me about all of the things that he wants us to start doing now that the weather is breaking. We click on many levels, but I just want to know how much longer before we will be an actual couple. I enjoy spending time with him but would like to know that I'm in a developing courtship. And not feel like I'm in something that will remain just a dating game. He's offered me to meet his family. He did around our 10th week of dating. So next week I will be meeting his family. I'm hoping that things will pickup. From the stnad point of us even spending more time together & from knowing that we are no longer dating,but are a "true couple." I need all the advice I can get! Thanks Isis & Pluto....sorry I forot the rest,for responding.

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posted March 22, 2008 09:53 AM            

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To win a Libra man, you want to be part of his dream and his perfect relationship idols through continous chatting and intellectually talking. He would love it if he can show you off to his friends or social groups.

In my view Capricorn woman is way more refined, serious and practical. Libra's intellectual thinking, friendship, royale style etc are bound to confuse Capricorn.

Good news is he is handsome and charming :-)

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posted March 22, 2008 11:17 AM              

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Mblover,my libra guy is cute..He has somewhat of a little boy charm. I think being apart of his dreams will be make a mak for me. I think he believes in friends first & then lovers. But just want to make sure that I'm on the right track. See I'm more sure of what I want. He's a little bit of the fickle/undecisive type. It's not just in his personal life. I'm a very charming woman, & I must say that he is a great challenge for me!!!! Again, I wish that I had a roadmap to his heart...Please share more of your tips with me.

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posted March 22, 2008 02:04 PM            

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Well to be honest goodnewsforme, the doubt will linger in his mind for quite a bit of time; Especially when you said that he have had been hurt in the past. Though Libras are known for their quick recovery from breakups, like any other human being, they do not like being hurt in anyway (well... minus the masochists Lol!) But by some of the behavior patterns he is exibiting (i.e. continuous communication, plans on you meeting his parents, etc.) points to a more deeper interest then just a causual fling.

Here is a link that gives some really good pointers on Libra behavior:
http://www.wikihow.com/Love-a-Libra

All the best to you and your partner goodnewsforme.

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posted March 22, 2008 03:43 PM              

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Xodian,thanks for the link, I found a lot of helpful information. I'm thinking too that his actions point toward something bigger than a casual friendship & must involve us becoming something more in the near future.
After all, who let people that they don't care about meet their family? And he happens to be apart of a very close knit one. Hopefully, if I allow him to take his time & become apart of his interests, than maybe he will open up & spend more time with me. In short, it's not easy getting into the heart of a Libran male, and I need all the luck that I can get!!! Thanks again, for sharing!!!

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posted March 24, 2008 12:37 AM              

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Goodnews..
Way back when I was in college, I fell in love with a Libra man, his birthday is the day after mine. I had dreams of settling down with him...but it was not to be....
for YEARS he pined away over someone he'd had a brief involvement with before he met me. He never did "shake" that fantasy, & I never could convince him that I was the ONE.---still in all, be was in-n-out of my life for YEARS, until I finally moved on.
I hope you have better luck!!!

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posted March 24, 2008 09:14 AM              

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im a capricorn with a similar dilema .. librans are tough cookies to crack but im still a firm beliver in regardless of starsigns if you love someone you can make it work.

My parents are a prime example.. there starsigns are at tota opposites but there still happily married and overcome any obsticles that thir signs may pose

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posted March 24, 2008 09:19 PM              

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jesiii, I believe in anyone can make love work. I think there is information in the zodiac signs that can be useful. In my situation I'm willing to make things work.

And for BLKflake...I know what you mean out Libra males & fantasies. Becaue the guy that I care for was hurt but that was at least 8 mos ago. I think he secretly can't shake his last relationship. It seems like Librans just love holding onto the past!

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posted March 25, 2008 10:35 AM            

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GNFM:

Well if by shaking it off you mean breaking all contact with the person, then I am afraid to say it just might not happen Lol! Well... unless she betrayed his trust to the point where its just unforgiveable (and that's relitive.)

But usually, Libras stay good friends with their exes.

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