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posted March 28, 2008 12:11 PM            

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My Moon in Virgo in the 7th House makes me very, very picky (and quite critical about people, I'm ashamed to admit)- I didn't have a real relationship until I met my husband when I was 32. He was/is the only one who "passed the tests." my Venus in Leo in the 7th House makes me really affectionate to those I'm close to, loyal, and generous - I love to indulge my loved ones' every whim (but is that more my Cancer Sun, Mercury, and Mars?). My Aquarius ASC makes me very claustrophobic in relationships though. I need a lot of space. Luckily my husband's Moon is Aqua and conjuncts my ASC so we both share a similar need for space and we give it to each other effortlessly - though I definitely need more space than my husband does which is odd since he's a Capricorn Sun and Mercury with Libra ASC, Aqua Moon, and Sagittarius Venus and Mars. The only water in his chart is his Cancer South Node (conjunct my Sun and Mercury) plus his Moon is in the Cancer-ruled 4th House. The rest is all earth, air, and fire. You would think I'd be the one wanting less space with all my Cancer placements but my Aqua ASC is obviously very powerful.

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posted March 28, 2008 06:46 PM              

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Moon in Gemini, Venus in Leo-- I would think the Sun in Virgo helps!

But my feelings fluctuate for a guy that I'm involved with. I go from love/lust to like/lust. But rarely the real thing LOVE/LOVE. I need loads of space. And I give loads of space. BUT when I'm with a guy, in his presence, the roaming will %100 percent of the time, slowly kill any affection I may have for a guy. But I won't voice it or go postal, I'll simply change towards him until I'm gone. Like I recently told a guy, I need to know you're extremely attracted to me for me to be extremely attracted to you--if only while we're here together.

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posted March 28, 2008 07:01 PM              

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Moon: Sagittarius
Venus: Scorpio

I'm very easy going in relationships..playful, affectionate, but usually emotionally detached and intimidated by intimacy, but I am secretly obsessed with the object of my affection, and lustful. I am fickle and my feelings swing from one end of the spectrum to the other, so my relationships don't last long, and I usually am very cold in the breakup.

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posted March 29, 2008 07:09 PM              

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My moon is in Scorpio with a Venus in Taurus...loose opposition...Moon in the 5th house with Venus in my 11th.
In a relationship I am very giving and patient, loyal but very very demanding. I'll be the first to admit that I am NOT an easy perosn to live with. Im extremely private with my love life when talking to other people. It really takes a while for me to trust someone, takes years and years and even then I keep playing my scorpio-moon game where I test them and see if they pass or not. I'm not at all for public display of affection, in fact a lot of ppl think i am cold and unfeeling in my relationship but that is totally the opposite.
And yes even if how much I deny it...I DO want some sort of control in my love relationship. Not all, but just some sort of it.

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posted March 29, 2008 07:32 PM            

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I have moon in libra and venus in virgo,both in the eight house.I am kind of picky too but once I make a choice I am devoted,loyal,there is no limit to what I would do to make others happy,I really don't expect much in return(low self esteem?). these placements indicate a rather intellectual approach to romance and relationship but I think the eight house brings an intensity of emotion which I don't really express though.I am communicative but I think some things should just be felt rather then expressed.

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posted March 29, 2008 08:39 PM              

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How do you think it would be with:

Moon in Cancer
Venus in Capricorn?

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posted March 29, 2008 08:50 PM            

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I dated an aqua with that configuration last summer. My venus conjunct her moon 0º and our venus i think were squared or opposite.

She was a sweet girl, always looked out for and took care of me, and was quite moody at times. She was a lot of fun to be around though. We clicked well. She just had some issues she needed to deal with.

Even though I don't answer her calls, she still tries to call me to this day. I wish it had worked out with her but I guess everything happens for a reason. My wife and I are trying to work it out so I guess everything happened for the better.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus

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posted March 29, 2008 11:11 PM              

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Thanks, GotGem. It's always neat to hear how it was with an actual person! This guy has a Cap sun, and he's also back in school to become a registered nurse!

Hope things work out well with you and your wife!

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posted March 30, 2008 03:55 PM              

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My Moon in Capricorn and Venus in Aries combo actually tends to cause me to...um, er...it basically equals rare incidents of love at first sight. I'll either like someone or I won't (Venus in Aries). People don't grow on me and if I don't love or dislike a person...that's not going to change. But those I love, I love. The Moon in Capricorn factor, well...I tend to be shy and reserved with everyone except the loved one and with that person, I actually have a tendency to go overboard (Capricorn, like its polar sign Cancer, can have a tendency to love too much, too deeply, for too long).

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posted March 30, 2008 04:17 PM              

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N111... i also have Gem moon and Leo venus..

Im very fickle.. something small will start me thinking it aint gonna work and it snowballs from there...(this fights very strongly with my Cancer sun)
I do however like to be spoiled in a relationship and will do the same in return...
Ive just started a relationship with a Taurus moon, Taurus Venus...Gem sun...
I've found myself completely besotted with him.. extrememly open(which is very scary)
He is very touchy feely which i love..
Physically he is not what im attracted to normally but i love his innners..
For me this is odd...as i could never normally date someone i didnt consider attractive..
*went off subject a little*

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