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Topic: generally speaking.. would someone born really close to you..
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heart cakes
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posted March 23, 2008 10:51 PM
 
be good for you? i mean, that is such a loaded question, but what are most peoples' instinctive thoughts on this?i just found an old old friend (elementary school) on facebook who is four days younger than me. he is super adorable and i don't really think i'm attracted to him, but i've always felt fondly toward him and always felt we were similar, since we were kids. i don't know his birth time, but our charts are exactly the same except that his venus is 4 degrees away and in another sign, his moon is in another sign (but sextiling mine) and his tight conjunction of sun, mercury and mars are a tiny bit shifted over, but still conjunct mine. otherwise, everything else is an exact conjunction. like i said, i seriously doubt anything would happen, but i'm curious and it is rare to know someone born so close to you with such a similar chart! i am wondering what lindalanders would think of this, or if anyone knows of people who are close with very similar charts, and how they experience it..? IP: Logged |
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posted March 23, 2008 10:55 PM
I actually wonder about this myself. Sometimes i play around with birthdates on cafeastrology just to see.------------------
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posted March 23, 2008 11:01 PM
I've known quite a few Aquarian men born within days of me, but not the same year.Usually we greatly identify with each other and we're very similar, and there is usually a great attraction, since my Mars is conjunct my Sun (which makes my Mars conjunct THEIR Sun in synastry). So my experiences are coloured by that. In high school and into my early 20's, I had a friend that was born 8 days after me. We always got along great and saw eye to eye on everything. In all cases, we got along great and felt extremely similar, like-minded and validated by each other. IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 23, 2008 11:04 PM
what do you mean play around with birthdates? they have a thing where you can enter birthdates and get infos?!?IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 23, 2008 11:08 PM
cool, venus de milo..we are both aquarians too, with sun conjunct mars.. i remember when we were kids we sorta would bug eachother. well, i would always be like, "hey i'm four days older than you" just to be a dork, in true aquarian style. he was a grade ahead of me though (since we were born on the cut off cusp). maybe it has to do with being aquarian, and thus, quite odd, but yeah i do feel a certain kinship with him. he is weird, but sweet, and i do feel like there is some kind of innate understanding, even after years and years since we last saw eachother.. (we did meet up once maybe 6 years ago cuz we have a friend in common. another aquarian in fact!) so yeah, it's interesting!! IP: Logged |
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posted March 23, 2008 11:51 PM
Who is the Mars person? I am just curious, because I want to know who is more into who and how that plays out with synastry  IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 23, 2008 11:55 PM
my sun is 15 aqua, mars 11 aquahis sun is 19 aqua, mars 15 aqua what do you make of that? i'm super curious! IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo
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posted March 24, 2008 12:22 AM
apparently you guys have the double whammy and are exactly each others type!you must have an incredible attraction, yes? no? IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 24, 2008 12:29 AM
woo!well it's tripping me out a bit cuz i'm finding i AM attracted to him.. even though i can't help thinking of him as the weird little kid he used to be.. i am not sure if he is attracted to me, but he did flirt with me a bit in one of his messages to me. i haven't been with a guy (or really wanted to be) in the last three years, but dated, briefly, two in the last 6 months and now i seem to have opened the doors of attraction again! IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 12:59 AM
Heartcakes yes. On cafeastrology, go to the free reports link then click on birth chart. Put your data in and proceed. At the botom of your birth chart, there will be a ;ink to add a second person to check compatibility. Give it a shot. This is the link:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal ------------------
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posted March 24, 2008 01:10 AM
ooh that was pretty sexy. according to cafeastrology the conjunctions are good!and actually, his venus is exactly conjunct my eros. yummy.. thanks got gemini?! IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 02:28 AM
now that you talk of it , the closest i have ever felt with have been cancerian woman . both of them with a ten day gap from my bday .
they were difficult relations but i never felt such depth elsewhere .
infact , one of them (i never checked other's chart ) had a very similar chart to me with aminor differnece of asc. otherwise we had almost similar charts .IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 02:35 AM
I've met two other people with the same birthday as me (different years) and liked both of them. Both of them were in allied professions to mine, one even had the same name as me! The one with the same name as me was wierd, it was looking into a mirror really - she had my personality!! Another person I was email pals with was also born on the same day, 2 years younger. I've lost touch with them since but I enjoyed chatting with them. I can't really remember my astrology with them. But I have also strongly identified with a dead pop star with he was alive too. He was born the day before me, has a different to chart me but our venuses were dead conjunct. IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 07:51 AM
Interesting topic....I knew a guy that was one day older then me, I used to hang around him the only difference we had was are mercury, moon and rising. But we still got along pretty well. Then there was a gem gal, born a couple days after me. Couldn't get it, I could make her laugh without even trying, just by being me. Then again if you can make a gem gal laugh, she's yours forever.
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posted March 24, 2008 10:19 AM
and if you can make any cancer woman feel respected ,you know they are yours .
so i dont have to work hard with them ever .IP: Logged |
capnsag
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posted March 24, 2008 11:15 AM
Thanks, GotGemini, I never knew Cafe Astrology did those reports! I just started emailing with a man 12 days (and 3 years!)from my bd. He has Mars/Venus/Sun/Saturn conj. in Capricorn, right on my Asc. We are both the same level of tennis, both play 3 times a week, both have furry cats! Unfortunately he lives about 7 hours away, but we agreed to keep emailing. His Mars is conj. my Venus, although it's at 10 degrees, so maybe to wide an orb. He sure would be interesting to meet! IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 12:37 PM
The guy I'm seeing is born a week apart from me. It grew from platonic to a romantic relationship over a very long time.
I'd say it is very trying, because it's akin to a mirror image of yourself.
My Saturn conjuncts his sun, saturn, pluto,merc and venus, and his saturn conjuncts my sun, pluto and mc (loosely conj my venus). So it's hard to break free.It can get very boring, in a way, unless there's something opposing or different in your charts, to act as the 'opposite attracts' stimulant. My moon squaring his moon makes us seem like opposites, even though we have alot of conjunctions in between. IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 01:33 PM
Hiya Heartcakes  My ex husband is 15 days older than me and l would never ever do it again. Our charts are almost identical. Our relationship was a nightmare. Started off great and then we just clashed and clashed etc ended up fighting like cat and dog  IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 01:44 PM
I like the points that they give at the end off the aspect list too, they kind of fit a lot of the time. Just out of curiosity, I always go there when I meet a new female. IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 24, 2008 10:11 PM
some mixed reviews here!!yeah.. i seriously doubt me and this guy will ever get together.. but i do find i'm fascinated with him. probably just because our birthdays are so close. but he is an interesting guy and it's neat to think about how people with similar energies or behavioural potentials would relate.. and the link is awesome! IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 27, 2008 05:08 PM
ayayay!so.. um.. we are actually kinda flirting now in emails and it is tripping me out how much i like this guy! we have the same hometown but are on opposite sides of the country now, so i really really doubt anything will happen, but it is so weird! i'm totally smitten with him. i have no idea how much of it is fantasy, but, we DO both have SN pisces (conjunct exact) and pisces juno (3 deg conjunction).. so maybe our capacity for fantasy is well matched and can transcend itself into.. reality! haha. anyway, it's totally blowing my mind. his sun moon midpoint is conjunct my moon, our moons are sextiled, my moon sextiles his ascendant.. our composite moon is trine our suns and exactly trined our composite sun, and is conjunct my descendant.. no wonder i'm all jellified by this guy. shucks.
the rest of our charts are identical (all conjunctions within a degree). it is really weird because i do feel like we are very similar, but it is not weird or boring. though with this much aquarius and pisces between us, neither of us is particularily pinned-down in reality, and i'm finding it fun to just be all weird and silly and yet ever so cosmic with him too! 
..and! he's a cancer moon and rising! which i find totally hilarious. can't shake the cancers.. IP: Logged |
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posted March 28, 2008 05:09 PM
The mixed reviews will reflect the difficult aspects you have in your own chart, especially your Sun. Any square of opposition to your natal Sun will be making a difficult aspect to this person's Sun also. Then if you're also both born in the same year, any squares and oppositions you have to the outer planets in your chart, will be at least some what reflected in your synastry with this other person. Similarly, any positive aspects in your charts will be similarly felt IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 28, 2008 05:10 PM
I think it depends on what your chart looks like.IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 28, 2008 05:27 PM
yeah, i've been thinking about this! me and him are very similar.. there is something quite familiar about the way he expresses himself (makes sense since we both have sun/mercury/mars conjunctions, conjunct one another). i find him totally fascinating. and darn it if my eros on his venus exact isn't totally getting to me too..here is our synastry, for kicks, if anyone wants to throw in their pennies:
(i am on the outside). 
i was thinking.. the difficult aspects we have individually AND together might be exacerbated but in some ways could also be easy to handle consider we'd innately understand the conflict..? i guess it probably comes down to how aware we are and work with it as individuals..
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posted March 28, 2008 05:41 PM
here's our composite. i am totally in love with that exact sun moon trine.  IP: Logged |
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