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posted March 24, 2008 08:44 PM            

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hypersensitive is hurt and wants an apology.

proud won't offer one at the best of times, and doesn't see why they should in this case.

Both are Aries moon and are being a bit, well, childish and attention-seeking.

Any advice for a Libran Moon? Leave them to get on with it is probably the answer, I know.

Leo, I get. The Cancer need for an apology I find harder to work out. Do they need their emotional needs recognised? Leo (in this case) can be quite vile, but it's water off my Geminian back.

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posted March 25, 2008 04:34 AM            

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So no wise Cancerian advise for me on this one? I suppose I have the answer, anyway. What I'd brush off a Cancer will brood on and feel hurt by.

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posted March 25, 2008 08:11 AM              

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I am a Cancer Sun Sign and I had a very good Leo friend for a long time. I really admired her and looked up to her so when we fought it was especially hurtful because I gave her the power in the friendship. If Leo appologizes it will take about two seconds for the Cancerian to be right back to normal I bet.
Cancers admire Leos.

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posted March 25, 2008 08:27 AM            

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Tell the Leo to just move on. My experience is Cancerians never really forgive. She'll be looking for a knife in her back for the next 20 years. There will be snide cold blooded remarks from now on. Just say asta baby.

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posted March 25, 2008 08:39 AM            

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My SO's ex girlfriend is a Cancer. He's a Leo. Even after 4 years apart she still can't 'forgive' and he thinks he's done nothing wrong. Who knows what she feels he has to apologise for. I think he's a pretty direct, fair sort of person but she's still aggrieved. She's very nice to me (lucky as we live about 100 meters away from each other) but if he says 'Hello' to her, 9 times out of 10 she won't answer and the 10th she'll say eff off. My feeling is 'Oh for the love of God get over it woman'. He's just not nasty enough to still be that bitter about. He really isn't.

But who knows what goes on in her soul. Me don't know.

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posted March 25, 2008 09:58 AM            

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thanks for the imput ~ words of truth all around ~ things would be back to normal with an apology but normal here IS snide remarks about things that happened 20 years ago ~ yes they should get over it but staying out of each other's way is the next best option ~ this is sad as they are family

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posted March 25, 2008 01:24 PM              

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I am a Cancer Moon here. My Moon is my guiding planet too acording to Skyscript article on "Guiding Planet". My Moon is also a singleton. I am very passive and never attack or hurt anyone, but if someone hurt me, I hardly forget though I can forgive easily if that person shows her or his regret, I hug them right there. And if someone hurt me, I immediately withdraw and they never can have the second chance to wound me again. I avoid them at all cost. My moon is quite cool, trine north node only.

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posted March 25, 2008 01:55 PM            

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Both apologising/showing regret would be good. But that comes from a Libran Moon.

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posted March 25, 2008 03:49 PM            

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Im a Cancer sun. My best "girlfriend" in highschool was a Leo. funny thing is she was my best friends gf. he was an Aqua. but then he got into some trouble and went to prison. after that we became close, really good freinds.. everyone pushed for us to date, but I never allowed it to happen. plus I just wasnt into her like that. but she was, she had a very strong thing for me for a long time. but we talked about everything and were like buddies. we never really fought but when we did we would be talking again soon. and it was usually over stupid stuff.. she was born like 2 weeks after me. on another note. I dated a leo girl when i was younger just beginning highschool. I was attracted to her she was a year younger then me. july 25 which is a birthday that has popped up in my life more then once. but nothing serious ever developed. Although I always had an eye for her. come to think of it, nothing serious ever develops with girls younger then me and this isnt coincidence. but besides feeling attracted I would never say I admire leo's.. or any sign for that matter attraction and admiration are very different.. it is very very hard for this virgo AC to admire someone.. and still to this day there is none.. as for the relationship I wouldnt say any Leo's I have known had dominence over me. lol. but thats a given since I wear the pants in any relationship.

hahah omg .. on another note!!. there was a leo in college that was a friend of my ex.. and she would hang out when her and her freinds were all together. I remember a couple of occasions where she would run her fingers through my hair and I would just be estatic and so relaxed.. it felt amazing.. this is possibly the only power a Leo could exercise over me.. but of course it would be a more hidden power that they wouldnt brag about or even think about suggesting it as a way of controlling me I wasnt sure how my gf felt about it at the time but I suppose it wasnt like that.

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posted March 25, 2008 04:27 PM            

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Not many people like to be under control ~ which doesn't sit well with this particular Leo.

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posted March 25, 2008 05:22 PM            

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Which gender is which sign?

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posted March 25, 2008 08:37 PM            

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I dunno, leonine people always tend to get on my bad side anyways so I may be completely BIASED in this. I cant speak for the cancer in this situation as its obvious their negative traits are coming from their fire moon (which I do not have) BUT, I can say that if it ever gets to the point where I have to cut someone out of my life, it isnt for nothing. The leo also needs to stop thinking their above apologies and just own up for once.

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posted March 26, 2008 01:53 PM            

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Both women ~ they are sisters!

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posted March 26, 2008 05:21 PM            

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I'm a Leo and my sister and other neice are Cancer. This is never going to work because the Leo is not going to kiss her a--. That's the only way to get along with them. Cancer wants to needle and constantly insult the Leo in cold blood expecting them to take it. That's not the way Leo fights. Sooner or later Leo is going to roar in their face. In that case the Cancer will retreat like a cockroach, act innocent, cry for sympathy, and bide her time til the less aware have forgotten and do it all over AGAIN. Consistent scenario. Leo WANTS peace. The only thing the Leo can do is take her on directly and not stop til she is completely exposed, FORCE the issue and don't stop til it's out in the open. This means going to some extremes but it's the only way. I've lived this. I know.

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posted March 26, 2008 06:49 PM            

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still, I didn't witness the incident at hand but going on the reports of both parties that pretty much sums it up exactly. Spot on.

Cancer says Leo is a viscious harpy.

Leo says Cancer is a histrionic attention-seeker.

I'm having problems spelling the word viscious, but it is fitting. All the words are fitting. They just missed out the Aries Moon words: childish, demanding, aggravating.

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posted March 27, 2008 07:26 AM            

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I don't know what to say. It's definitely been a cross to bear for me with the two fems and the Aries sun/ascendant in cancer older brother. I really feel for the Leo. With ascendant, mars and venus in cancer you would think we'd click but it was immediate war when I was born.
I think you should take the Leo's side and call the cancer out. Otherwise it's going be that way from now on.

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posted March 27, 2008 07:51 AM            

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NB: vicious is spelt vishus. Just to clear that up.

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posted March 27, 2008 09:04 AM            

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Vicious. I gave it an extra S. S for....this particular Leo The girl with a curl in the middle of her forehead:

When she is good, she is very very good
But when she is bad she is a vicious harpy

If I have to side with anyone it will have to be her, a wise person will always keep her on their side and in any case she is my mother

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posted March 27, 2008 10:14 AM              

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I am a leo and whenever I am wrong I quickly apologize. Laughing if I am wrong.
I am very easy to get along with and a very playful personality and it takes a lot to anger me..but when I am angered I will spew it out and then, it is over. No grudges ever held.

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