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Topic: Mars on the IC
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writesomething
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posted March 26, 2008 12:31 AM
 
Have you ever had someone's mars on your IC(4th) in synastry? Did they drive you nuts? how would describe the experiences?IP: Logged |
sameesadiq
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From: Pakistan
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 26, 2008 01:49 AM
I don't have any experience in synastry but I do have natally Mars conjunct IC orb 25' making T-square with Saturn And Neptune. I do sometimes drive nuts the people at home.IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo
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posted March 26, 2008 02:22 AM
My Sun and Mars were on my exe's IC. I think we drove each other nuts, lol. I think I was unsettling to him, I made him panic a lot.... how settling down, commitment, etc. Not sure if this is directly related to my Mars sitting on his IC though. not many books explain this aspect but one I have The Astrology of Human Relationships says: The indication of this comparative combination is dynamic mutual action in the home. It's general significance is the same as Mars in the 4th house, but it's effects are stronger and more immediate. If this comparative house combination is afflicted, there can be quarrels over domestic and family affairs. It is not a good indicator for family relationships, unless it is well aspected. In that case, it can be good for professional and business relationships dealing with real estate, construction, farming or mining. The Nadir/ Midheaven individual is likely to consider the Mars individual as inconsiderate of emotional feelings and family relationships. The Mars individual can regard the Nadir person emotionally super sensitive, indolent and set in his or her own ways. I am the Mars person and I find the latter part to be absolutely correct. He was so hyper-sensitive, it was like walking on eggshells. IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted March 26, 2008 06:24 AM
Venus- about the eggshells...(my IC)Iam really sensitive to his actions, so much so, I usually ignore him or avoid him altogether because he drives me insane...If I dont keep my distance during his certain behaviors, It wouldnt be pretty. I feel very frustrated by him, his behaviors, his inconsistencies....But I also feel like Im the only one seeing it the way I do? Like he really isnt as bad as It feels like, also Im sure my signals/behaviors are just as strange to him. Its all subjective.IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo
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posted March 27, 2008 03:13 PM
Writesomething, wow... that is really insightful to me because thats exactly why our relationship ended. I felt like he couldn't deal with me and I was never even doing anything wrong! I just felt like whatever I did set him off and unsettled him and caused him to panic. I couldn't win, no matter what I did. Like, he told me he loved me via voicemail and then I didn't know how to deal with it because of his hypersensitivity... I knew that if I responded in kind (as I truly did feel)... he'd freak out and run for the hills. But if I didn't respond in kind, he'd interpret that as a devastating rejection too. Long story short, that "I Love You" was the end of us. But things like that, where he would just shut me out happened all the time, and ultimately spelled the end of us. IP: Logged | |
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