posted March 26, 2008 08:55 AM              

I know...we all are curious to know more and more about these 2 themes isnt it? I myself started to study astrology mostly because of this.
Now obvioulsy that i found much more into it and i want to share with all of you some of the articles i have about Soul Mates and Twin Souls.

Any opinion is welcome

Share whay you thought about the articles;
If you found it as Truths to you;
Share a story of SM that you consider important ( famous or non-famous)

Good readings everybody!

Soul Mates and Twin Souls:
By Dr. Tan Kheng Khoo
http://www.kktanhp.com/twin_souls.htm

Soul Mates Book Excerpt by Barbara Rose
Society’s Misconception of Soul Mates
http://www.borntoinspire.com/id60.html

Twin Flames and
Soul Mates - The Summit Lighthouse
http://www.spin.net.au/~tsl/flames.htm

Twin Souls,Twin Flames and Soul Mates by Harusami
http://www.harusami.com/soul2soul/twinsoul.html

Finding a Soul Mate:
The Failsafe Method For Finding A Soulmate
Julia Jablonski 1999
http://www.soulmaterelationships.com/soulmatearticles/findingasoulmate.htm

TWIN SOUL (TWIN FLAME) RELATIONSHIPS
be still, my beating heart...
http://star.goddess.tripod.com/twinflame2.html

posted March 26, 2008 01:56 PM              

I yet have to read some of the articles, but wanted to contribute another one, if that is okay.

posted March 26, 2008 04:43 PM              

Hi Strtnash - a difficult nick name to write isnt it?

Yes ive found one of my soulmates - my Dear Jonnhy - that was why in the 1st place i started to research about SM you know.
Somehow,i knew there was sth diferent and new going on when we met.

And what about you? Have you found a SM or want to talk about some event that you felt there was sth such special happening?

DD

Of course you can add whatever links you want - the more the better to learn and study to find what resonates with us most!

Im going to read the one you gave - post back to say what i thought

posted March 26, 2008 05:15 PM              

DD,

i completely loved to read those words!It´s just incredible but some of them are exactly what Jonh said to me one day that i tried to reason what i was feeling for him and he just said: " if you are able to explain what youre feeling,then it´s not Love;i know that i love and what i feel it´s unaxplainable and there lyes the beauty of what we have"

Those exact words..and yup he left me with no words,thing very unexpectable for a Virgo like me hihihi

" And if you, or the other person, isn't being vulnerable and real, then you can be sure you will not see whatever beauty is there. Why? There simply won't be a path on which to travel to see this beauty" - this is so true.

If we let our pride and fear of being rejected win,and start to act under our masks,then the "falling in love moment" will be lost and sure neither we or the other will see the true beauty again.

"Know this. Healthy love is never static. Over time, it never stops becoming more visible. This growth, then; the ability to see more deeply into an existing love; is what identifies love as "healthy love." Conversely, the fixed view of a single moment is what identifies love as unhealthy and addictive, no matter how wonderful that moment may have been.

So is all unhealthy love an addiction?

Yes. "

Again - here lyes an almost Universal Truth.

Over the time,what keeps us more and more connected are all the moments that we SEE truly the other in diferent beauties,and they keep growing and appearing in unexpected moments - when the two face each other in our most vulnerable ways,naked in our own identity,this is an unforgettable moment!

posted March 26, 2008 05:32 PM              

I found her at an unusual place and we felt instant connection. But it took a while to get things started, and then it was like we were living in the lalaland. Soon after living in heaven for a while we started trying to push each other away and broke up as she moved to another city. For some time I thought I was caught up in infatuation. Since the whole feeling started as an instinctive reaction rather than being a rational one. I dated another girl after that but I knew my heart was some where else. I felt like I was cheating and I ended it.

I was just not able to get over her, and then we reconnected again. Just thorough emails and phone, but I know for sure she is gonna be a part of my life, very much. I am trying not to force any thing on her but try and love her for what she is. I hope I can and I am going to leave it to destiny to take its course.

I wouldn't have believed the soul mate thing if it was not for astrology. At some point I really tried hard to forget her and move on and i couldnt.After seeing the way our charts connect, I dont want to leave her out of my life, anytime. I am just gonna give you a few examples of our chart connection and you will understand what I am talking

I am just giving the Sun,Moon,venus,node aspects(as i dont want to bore you)

Her S.Node conjunt my ASC
Her ASC trine my Moon, sextile my Sun,mars,merc stellium
Her Mars Conjunct my ASC
Her Sun conjunct my ASC

Venus trine Saturn (double whammy)
Her Chiron conjunct my venus
Her venus conjunct my S.NODE
Her Moon, Jupiter conjunct my N.Node
Her Moon conjunct my sun moon midpoint.

Can you see what I have got myself into. I have to get back with her isn't it?

Did you look up how your chart connects with Jonnhy? Can we see?

posted March 26, 2008 06:24 PM              

yes, I loved that article, too. That`s the reason I posted it.
I resonated with much being said there, especially this thing about the "moment", that if you ever have fallen in love, you can point to a certain moment, and I found it to be true in many cases.
Ánd in those cases I *wanted* to be in love, but haven`t been, I cannot remember such a moment.

Regarding your articles, I wrote you a mail. I`m curious to learn what you think about what I thought.

posted March 26, 2008 08:03 PM              

do you know what?the one it resonated with me most was also the one of Barbara.

i know what you mean by saying that you dont want to leaver her out of you life - i feel that to with Jonnhy.
I only can imagine the missing you had when she was away and you thgouth it was for good.But know what? SM relationships are just lke that:never easy ones cause at first we think eveything is a bliss and naturally that with time, Life brings situations that will force us to grow and if one of the persons doenst want to,or is afraid,the other one has to let go and give space and time - that is where lyes the patience,the compromise and the inner Truth that will come to Light: that real love doesnt end and from one way or another,the 2 will always be connected.

She came to you again now,maybe now is the time when she feels ready and no longer afraid?

You are doing great on being that calm and patience and above all,in understanding her way and act - love is generous like Gibran says

SN conj ASC and Venus conj SN - points to possible lovers in past life

ASC trine Moon and SUn conj ASC - wonderful aspects,just beautiful and i know cause we have one of them

Venus saturn gives stability,commitment relationship but also,you must try not to push each other so much

kiron venus conjunct - one of my favorites!There´s a high quality of healing through your love for each other

Moon-NN:did you felt somehow that she seems familiar to you?like if maybe you shared a past life as parent/child relationship?Cause i have that too and we feel a deep need and urge to protect each other the way family members do..

Moon-Midpoint-also points that you two are very important to each other

posted March 26, 2008 08:14 PM              

of course you can see: at this point im in,i almost kind of memorized the aspects!

i´ll post some of it to,and also the ones that are difficult,we´ve got a bunch of them also - again,SM indeed push us to grow isnt it?

His to Mine

posted March 27, 2008 01:12 PM              

None of her friends wanted us to continue. A few of her friends came up and told that she is so weird and selfish. But I just couldn’t accept their words, I saw her as a soft sensitive creature who gets hurt really bad for words said by other people and locks herself down for a while and it makes her look so bad. Some how I always trusted her after all the hard time and confusing picture she gave me.

It’s the hardest relationship I have ever been into and the most rewarding one as well. She raised questions in every aspect of my character. I had to let my ego go off time and again, realized the need to compromise & accept and question my own intentions. She is slowly wiping me off the subtle manipulations I do unconsciously. Any ways, I have only grown better and realized that the heart break I had was the best that could have happened as it strengthened me as a person. (It was very horrible though)

Well, the time hasn’t come yet for us to get together (in person) again, but I will keep you posted.

Regarding the Moon-NN: We have also felt the unknown urge to protect, I remember saying to her one day, ‘I don’t know where this feeling comes from but I just feel that I should protect you from the world’!!

We have a Moon sq Moon as well, if I remember correctly Stephen arroyo says that it is very tough to handle Moon’s stressful aspects as we may keep bugging each other in a living together situation. He also wrote that even if they part ways, they may stay in touch with each other, for the rest of their lives. (Though other parts of the chart needs to be given due consideration).

Till now I have found people who “I” wanted them to be a part of my life and this is the first time I have honestly felt that I should be a part of their life. So I am gonna let her do what ever she wants to but I will stick in what ever the form god allows me to take.

It has been almost a year and a half, but
Love her to death.

DD
, I have a question for you.
Can u elaborate what you mean by " i wanted to be in love " ?

posted March 27, 2008 04:25 PM              

Sometimes we just need time and little of space to think and undertsand the patterns our Life have been showing to us and that we didnt wanted to see or face.

You are doint the right thing and never doubt of what your heart is telling you.

It´s not unmaneageable the Moon skuare Moon: me and Jonnhy also have that but other aspects can help a lot as well as our consciounsness of " what are the energies we have to face " when looking to the sinasty and Paul Mccarntney and Linda had it too and look how far they went!

And actually,SM relationships many times arent understood by the persons outside - cause they dont see the Truth and its only seen by you and her.Dont worry about that,it doenst matter what other people say about it - if she makes you good and you make her better,what is the Sin in that? Generosity and affection,purity and spirituality ...these words are all natural to SM and odd and strange to whom never found someone as special as a SM.

posted March 28, 2008 03:25 PM              

Im very positive to others but in what it concerns just me,my Virgoness gives me much of a headache.

But that are just my own insecurities talking like ghosts..they are always within me,even if most of the times i dont have reasons at all to feel them...so youre not alone with your Scorp Moon