posted March 29, 2008 11:03 PM         

Venus in Taurus: Venus rules Taurus and imbues these natives with a special knack for understanding sensual pleasures. They are loyal, steadfast and deeply appreciate kind gestures ranging from a good meal to a shoulder rub. Possessions are important to these individuals and you may find them hovering over their favorite chair for years or constantly seeking "things" that meet their standard of quality because quality equals stability and stability equals security. Because Taurus is a receptive sign, these individuals prefer to be pursued rather than to pursue and this is true with their relationships as well. They love to be doted upon and can easily be seduced by breakfast in bed or little gifts brought to them each day. Flowers, candy, cards, or a new piece of clothing find them lit up and attentive. They have a gift of showing their approval by showering you with tons of Venusian appreciation and no one knows the value of appreciation better than Taurus and no one makes you feel so secure when things are going their way. When their security is threatened, the bull sees red and that can be a scary thing. Don't threaten to take anything from a Venus in Taurus and if you like security you won't mind being seen as one of the possessions. Usually, these individuals have a good eye and a knack for finding things that have great aesthetic appeal. A romantic evening would be one with a great dinner, an after dinner bath for 2, good music and reciprocal and sensual massages till dawn but be warned, sleep is considered one of the comforts they do not easily give up!

Venus in Gemini: People with Venus in this position love the communication that is inherent in all Gemini natives. Here, Venus loves to "talk about it" and gets much pleasure from understanding you and equally loves being understood. Venus, here, can appear fickle, loving diversity in relationships and often likes to know many people. They are fascinated by quick minds and carefree attitudes. It is not uncommon for these natives to maintain friendships with all their past partners and usually have a good rapport with their siblings. These individuals love the clever use of words and original thinking and can easily translate their feelings into words. Though they can be quite committed in a relationship you may find that they abhor confinement. Venus in Gemini loves gadgets and gizmos and is found in the dictionary next to the word "Gossip" which is often harmless for them but should be something to be aware of if you find that you want to tell them a secret. Sexually you'll find Venus in Gemini open to knew ideas but the key to their seduction is conversation; tell them what you want to do but keep it playful and imaginative (too much graphic details may be found as an aversion at first). Flattery is a strong "weapon" for them, as they know how to put into words the things you love to hear. Tell them often how much you think of them; share your thoughts, your ideas and your hopes, likely you'll have a good listener and a great friend.

Venus in Cancer: People with Venus in Cancer have a strong appreciation of the qualities of care giving and care-receiving. These natives like symbols of the home, of warmth and tenderness. Cancer is a water sign and when Venus visits their depths it imbues these individuals with a special magic. They can be excellent in their ability to read what you need and provide it almost psychically and it often pleases them to see you happy and content. Being water however means you have to contend with the fluctuation of their moods, which seem to change for no apparent reason; but there is always a reason though it's sometimes just too hard to swim for it. Venus in Cancer loves strong, and loyal displays of affection; this counters their inner insecurity and need for stability. They have a diverse amount of sexual interests all of them closely associated with some childhood memory. These natives love to save things from the past and are often prone to nostalgic visits in their mind. Sometimes they love to be cared for and sometimes they love to care for you. It's not uncommon for the Venus in Cancer individual to learn to cook but not for the same reasons as a Taurus who just loves good food; Venus in Cancer loves the memories that the aroma of food conjures and the general warm feeling that cooking brings to a home. Let your Venus in Cancer friend know how much you appreciate their care, be demonstrative (but only in private and when it's genuine) for they love to be reminded that everything is going to be alright. In matters of possessions and money, these people love to have both and often do; but be warned, they often only share when you don't ask for it!

Venus in Leo:This is a dramatic position for Venus. People with Venus in Leo love the chivalry of love and tend to build strong ideals around their partners. They desire the relationship to be bigger than life, to live in the majesty of the castle and to be admired by all to see. They are born romantics and fantasize about hosting the biggest party in the world and being the envy of diplomats, stars and royalty. On a personal level, they love to be adored, to be the sole apple in your eye and have a flair for lighting up a room when they enter. Often, they love children and the childlike energy in those they care for. There is an appreciation for grandiose displays of affection. At extremes they are prima donnas but know how to lavish appreciation in the most generous of ways. Venus in Leo gives and expects a strong amount of loyalty. You may notice that they have an aggrandized view of their father who may or may not have been what they picture him as. These are the natural actors with a vivid sense of color and style. They place particular attention on their hair, which you can be sure, is given much thought. Sexually, the passion will be there in generous doses; you will be their one and only and they had better be yours. There is a tendency to see those not in "their kingdom" as the lesser mortals but if you are lucky enough to be able to serve their royal court you will be well cared for.

Venus in Virgo: Venus in this placement carries a certain loner quality. These individuals do love to have their alone time in which they can feel an uncontaminated kind of quiet. There is a deep appreciation of order but that doesn't necessarily mean "neat and tidy"; it's a perspective that everything around you is supposed to be there because it serves a purpose. Venus in Virgo is big on service, they know how to be there when you are sick and appreciate the thoughtful response of others who are there for them as well. This is a picky placement for Venus with an aggrandized view of what is ideal and as a result, disappointment is likely and common. These individuals know what they like and know even stronger what they don't like. Cleanliness is a must, these natives would never think of sharing a toothbrush with you or eating your food if there wasn't prior knowledge of your personal standards. They can become overly concerned with their appearance and somewhat obsessive about their diet. This is not a "holier than thou" placement for Venus as they would be willing to change your bedpan if you needed it but their naturally critical eye makes it hard for them NOT to find what is flawed in anything or anyone. If you are mated with a Venus in Virgo your best gift to them is to ensure that they have the proper time alone, keep yourself clean and "properly maintained" and show good manners. Sexually, they can unleash a part of them that you would never suspect was there, but afterwards let them into the shower first; then grab the soap and clean yourself up!

Venus in Libra: Venus rules the sign of Libra and is comfortable here. The pleasing social graces of Libra are enhanced in these natives and you rarely find them without a relationship or at least without the pursuit of one. Good taste and social graces are second nature to these individuals and they love things of beauty around them at all times. They have an innate sense of fairness and they like when you share in the duties of the house. Partnership is important and what is presented to the outside world must be pleasant and graceful. Venus in Libra is uncomfortable with too much conflict and discord and will try desperately to remove themselves or their attention from unpleasant encounters. They have a natural eye for art, music and many other creative productions. They are often true romantics and love to cuddle up to a good love story. They are not afraid of public flattery (as long as it is in good taste) and are particularly suited for parties and social gatherings. Venus in Libra loves fine things and will always appear well groomed to the outside world. In the negative, this placement gives too much importance to public opinion and in the positive they understand that it isn't polite to snub the lesser able and will give equal time to all of their friends (which are likely to be high in number). There is no such thing as too much romance for these natives who love flowers (with a nice arrangement and vase), jewelry (tastefully balanced) and a white wine (it is less likely to stain).

Venus in Scorpio: Venus in Scorpio loves intensity in their romances. With Venus in Scorpio, the key to winning their appreciation is honesty and intimacy as these natives don't easily trust and do easily become possessive of their partners as a result. Venus in Scorpio loves emotional strength and likes their partners to be willing to go to the depths of the cauldron to face any fear. These people love sex but even more they love the power of the emotional energies that are released when they are feeling passionate. In the negative they can become consumed with romantic relationships and sacrifice everything in the name of "love" and in the positive they are deeply loyal and personally committed to the truth, which lies below the surface of everything. These individuals have strong artistic tastes and like bold colors including (and especially) black. They are interested in the mysteries of life and are intrigued by the psychic world. Within them is the inherent feeling that what they love belongs to them which can incite feelings of jealousy and envy if trust isn't established. They can have a ferocious sexual appetite and even if they don't appear that they can handle anything you can dish out, have no doubt, they can! Let your Venus in Scorpio partner know that they are the most important person in your life. You may find them obsessing about security or money when really they are just not feeling very safe. You can reassure them with a compassionate yet direct confrontation. They admire fearlessness and will remain loyal for the long haul of the relationship!

Venus in Sagittarius: Venus in Sagittarius people have a natural exuberance for life. They love to be inspired by the magic of love and appreciate sharing common spiritual ideals. These natives love diversity and seek pleasure sometimes to excess. There is a natural desire to expand their minds and they can easily enter a fantasy world of Knights donning the armor to do a rescue or of Damsels waiting to be saved. It's all about the expanding possibilities of life and the constant knowing that the Sun will always be there behind every cloud. Venus in Sagittarius wants to be inspired and loves relationships where honesty is expected and received. Depending on the spirituality these individuals have embraced they will want their relationship to fit within the ideal of it. For example, if one embraced Catholicism then they would want their partner to go to church with them or if Atheism is embraced they would want an alignment with that ideal as well. These people love to learn and love partners who light up their minds with fantastic ideas that they have only dreamed about. Venus in Sagittarius can be prone to over indulgences and may occasionally say something that is a bit too frank and consequently annoying but their general drive is for a spiritual union. These individuals can be avid equestrians and extreme sports enthusiasts. Sexually they are romantics and look for each rendezvous to be filled with magic. A spectacular gift for them is a vacation or a trip to some of the spiritual places in the world.

Venus in Capricorn:Those born with Venus in Capricorn appreciate relationships that are defined and have a purpose, which ultimately fosters the achievement of a goal. When young, these natives often find themselves comfortable with partners who are more mature whether in age or demeanor and as they age, they tend to prefer more youthful partners who they can provide for. These individuals are not afraid to put considerable effort into the successful development of the relationship. The problem is passing their personal criteria. These individuals love the classic style of relating and often abide by traditional rules of order when it comes to dating like, "No kissing on the first date", "Make plans a least a week in advance", " Be prompt.", "Be Courteous", etc. They like the idea of a slow build and gradual progress of a relationship, it gives them time to understand what is being built and gives them the feeling of some control (something they like). They like to be wined and dined and respect people with status in life. They seem to radiate a stoic maturity that can appear almost melancholy but has great appeal to people who appreciate their seemingly unapproachable air. They are not openly demonstrative but extremely loyal and often possessive of their partners. Venus in Capricorn loves antiques and often have a good sense of material value so if you are buying them a gift, assume they will know its inherent value. Sexually, these natives are surprisingly passionate and appreciate a strong sexual rapport but don't expect sex to be given casually; enjoyment is not enough of a purpose for these individuals to engage.

Venus in Aquarius:Venus in Aquarius individuals love the unusual and are constant in their search for stimulating ideas. They have a deep desire to stay away from what is considered mainstream or popular and appreciate alternative forms of art and expression. They enjoy stimulating conversations and have a friendly demeanor when connecting socially. Relationships are like pictures in their head and if you fit the picture you are considered a relationship, if what is actually happening is different than the picture, it's very possible that you will simply not exist in their reality. Venus in Aquarius likes you if you are "different" from the cultural standards and abhors the thought of being average. These natives are known to have radical and sudden changes in their emotional connections; having a strong relationship one minute and for no apparent reason incite a break up the next. In the negative they may have stubborn emotional attitudes and refuse to see another point of view and in the positive can see the highest ideal within their partners. Keep them happy by agreeing to alternative ways of relating, buy them computer gifts that allow them to be "plugged in" and tuned into the latest technology. If their Venus is pleasantly seated in their chart they can be loyal and devoted with an effervescent personality.

Venus in Pisces: Venus in Pisces individuals are capable of deep and profound love. They have the compassion to see the heart in every one they meet giving them the reputation for loving the underdog. They have a unique perspective on the understanding of the interconnectedness of all life and know what it is like to walk in your shoes. They are romantic and sensitive and may sometimes merge to the point of losing themselves to the relationship. These natives have an evolved sense of creativity and are often composers and artists of startling magnitude. Because of their deep sensitivity these individuals can be easily taken advantage of and would do well with a trusting partner who understands their vision and depth of feeling. They love sexual contact and are profoundly affected by physical contact. It is important for the Venus in Pisces native to take some time to be alone so that they can merge with their inner identity and recognize themselves outside of a relationship. Because of their depth of feeling they may be reluctant to engage in romantic liaisons for fear of being hurt or rejected. There is little that they find offensive in sexual activities. Give them a relaxing foot massage or send them off to the spa for an occasional treat. They often will ignore themselves at the expense of your comfort so when you turn that around, you can deeply move them. In the negative they can indulge in mind (or mood) altering substances such as alcohol or marijuana and in the positive they can reflect profound acceptance of their partners.