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Topic: So Many Problems In My Life
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BeAuTiFuL Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Mar 2008
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posted April 03, 2008 01:24 PM
First of all i would like to say that The Fantastic Linda Goodman's Fabulous book about synastry helped me alot when i was not sure about what to do After reading this book i also found out what my Moon Sign is and what my Ascendant is My moon sign is - Libra My ascendant is - Libra I have had a lot of problems in my life my mother is a single mother and has done alot of crazy things which have affected my life in many ways. I can't bear cruelty to animals . I am a vegetarian and i take in cats and dogs of the roads get them checked up by a vet vaccinated and i find them GOOD HOMES if i can't find them a good homes then i keep them with me. I thought i would just tell a little about myself to see if these qualities of mine were visible in my birth date and time My birth Info -> August 27th 1979 Time 10.15 AM Country - Srilanka City - Colombo I would really appreciate it if someone could tell me why i have so many problems and what i can do to make my life less stressful and sad someone told me that i have the sun, venus and saturn together and that my chart is fated can someone plz help me Thank You
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blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 01:49 PM
Please tell me if I have got your details wrong on the following charts. If not, under Western astrology you are Libra Moon and Scorpio Rising (same as me).
Sideral makes you Virgo Moon, Libra Rising:
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blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 02:07 PM
I use the Western version ~ going on that chart I'd disagree that your Sun, Venus and Saturn are together. The Sun and Venus are together at 3* Virgo, but Saturn is out of orb at 15* Virgo. What did they say was fated about your chart? Excuse me for saying, but this kind of dramatic pronouncement makes me suspicious. Not that I'd dismiss it out of hand, but I'd treat it with caution. My mother often says she was born under an unlucky star and/or in an unlucky year. Her life hasn't been one long picnic but there have been times when negative thinking has made things worse. It may sound unkind but I have pointed out she has nearly reached her 3 score year and ten and unlike a large number of children born 1942 wasn't murdered at the order of an evil dictator. Just looking quickly at your chart I see Saturn is transiting your Sun and Venus right now. Was that what they were talking about? That could be a depressing influence, but it is a transit, it won't last forever. Without wishing to confuse the issue, your progressed MC is also Conjunct the Sun and Venus. The other thing I note is that you have the Moon Conjunct Pluto in the 12th house. That sounds quite a difficult combination to deal with, I have this conjunction so I can relate to this ~ I have strong feelings but they tend to be hidden. Maybe even more so for you in this house. IP: Logged |
sd09 Knowflake Posts: 1045 From: canada Registered: Oct 2004
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posted April 03, 2008 04:04 PM
I know what you're thinking, 'cause right now I'm thinking the same thing. Actually, I've been thinking it ever since I got here: Why oh why didn't I take the BLUE pill?
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Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 05:29 PM
Hello Beautiful,It seems that you have been dealing with a lot of issues over the last several months. I will put some of this in the form of a question. Did a relationship break up recently or is that in the process of happening? Is one of your parents dealing with a serious health issue? Most likely your father or father figure? Also, are you dealing with your own kind of health issue as well? With the potential health issues that I mentioned for you and/or your father, are you in the position of having to help him more than usual? Or are you in the position of having to be helped more than usual? The kind of help that I mean is either financial help, or physical/nursing kind of help. And last, are you also having employment issues, is it possible that a job ended for you very recently or is in the process of ending? I want to emphasize what Blue Moon told you. You are not at the mercy of fate. The symbols in your chart are there for guidance, not to lock you into any kind of fate. Just because you are in crisis doesn't mean that you are being punished. Everyone has great difficulties in their lives off and on through out their entire lives, that's just how life is. I'm very sorry that you are having a hard time right now, but Blue Moon was right, these hard times are temporary but you have the tools and resourcefulness to get through them one day at a time. Please let us know if any of this rings true and perhaps people will chime in with helpful suggestions. You will get through this. Geocosmic Valentine Professional Astrologer geocosmicvalentine@yahoo.com . www.myspace.com/geocosmicvalentine ------------------ "Everybody is a star!" Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 05:35 PM
Hi SD09,I was wondering why I didn't take the BLUE PILL, too. I'm mean, gosh, the BLUE PILL comes with a steak and everything.
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Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 05:59 PM
about the BLUE PILL - Tell me about it!!!*sigh* now we are in the filthy Nebuchadnezzar. Joy! IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 06:10 PM
Hey Unmoved,Maybe we can go to the Oracle's apartment and have delicious oatmeal cookies that make us feel "right as rain" and then we can sit down on the floor and bend spoons with our minds. I mean...since we took the RED PILL we might as well have some cookies and mind bending fun from time to time, don't you agree? But then again, I hear "...there is no spoon." Hmm...then what are we gonna play with? Maybe we'll just have some cookies, that's enough for me right now. It washes away that RED PILL after taste. Geocosmic Valentine IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 06:30 PM
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belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 09:52 PM
Leo loves dramatising lol------------------ ASC: Virgo Sun: Cancer Moon: Gemini Mars: Cancer Mercury: Cancer Venus: Leo IP: Logged |
LadyNeptune Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 10:08 PM
Your transits suggest trouble and enmity with friends, clubs, dating, and children. This is most likely a period of isolation; pSun poised to enter the 12th. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted April 03, 2008 10:28 PM
LadyNeptune, you are very well versed on how transits affect one's natal chart. Just showing some appreciation. IP: Logged |
BeAuTiFuL Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Mar 2008
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posted April 04, 2008 12:06 AM
Thanks For The Replies Geocosmic Valentine you asked Did a relationship break up recently or is that in the process of happening? No a relationship didn't break up recently and isn't in the process of happening you asked Is one of your parents dealing with a serious health issue? Most likely your father or father figure? My mother has high cholesterol and was asked to walk for about an hour everyday this happened 2 weeks ago You asked Also, are you dealing with your own kind of health issue as well? No just an insect bite You asked With the potential health issues that I mentioned for you and/or your father, are you in the position of having to help him more than usual? Or are you in the position of having to be helped more than usual? It's with my mother and i take her to the doctor for the tests and stuff You asked And last, are you also having employment issues, is it possible that a job ended for you very recently or is in the process of ending? No i don't have any emplyment issues I own my own business My MAIN problem is i get sad really fast like if a pet dies or if a friends pet dies or if i see something sad on the tv or internet or poor people I can see right through people and I feel like i can read peoples eyes and know exactly what they are thinking and what's going on in their lives and when i do this if the person is sad or has problems it really upsets me When it comes to animals if i see an animal that has been knocked down or injured or someone being cruel to one on the road or something i can't seem to get it out of my mind
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Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 11:55 AM
Hi Beautiful,As for your emotions, if this is something that's only been happening for a few months or a year or two, it's a possibility that Neptune trining your Moon may be increasing your emotions, kind of like the expansion of an oil spill, out of control. Even though it's a trine, which is a flowing energy, not so stressful, it's expanding two watery energies. Blue Moon also mentioned that you already have a Moon-Pluto conjunction, that's already an incredibly strong emotional aspect to have, especially in the 12th house you may try to keep it private, but with Neptune aspecting your Moon now, it's making your emotions overflow those private boundaries. She also mentioned that transiting Saturn is currently conjunct your natal Sun-Venus conjunction. That can have a cold, depressing influence on your energy and emotions and your mind since your conjunction is in Virgo which is one of the cerebral signs. Both of these influences are temporary. There may be a reason that you need to be more emotional now, it's not a bad thing and the sadness can also be a teacher, if it feels like too much you can also see a doctor or a counselor. The doctor can check your hormone levels, the counselor or psychologist can talk it out with you and get to the issues behind all the sadness. Your body and mind may be trying to tell you some important messages. I hope you feel more uplifted soon. Geocosmic Valentine IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3121 From: Registered: Apr 2005
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posted April 04, 2008 12:54 PM
transiting Chiron looks to have opposed natal Merc and is applying to trine natal Moon ( that's going by that first chart pic .. .. bit small to make it out clearly here .. )IP: Logged |
LadyNeptune Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 01:16 PM
quote: LadyNeptune, you are very well versed on how transits affect one's natal chart. Just showing some appreciation.
Awwwl, thanks! IP: Logged |
mblover Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Registered: Nov 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 03:16 PM
Regarding your prob with mother, Moon Conjuct Pluto on 12th.. well.. that clearly shows Power struggles with Mother.. Your Pregnancy itself was not easy because you really wanted to come out early to find freedom.. Were you born a few days in advance or were there complexities in pregnancy?Additionally, this is a life long battle of Power struggles with mother. So, there is no easy fix. Looking deeply at all areas of life that you share with mother, and assigning the proper owner of each area will make it easier between you two. Sacrifices will be there and it is written. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 03:39 PM
Mblover,Her Sun is at 3 degrees Virgo, it is 10 degrees away from Jupiter. If you are looking at an Astrodienst small chart, it appears as if Sun and Jupiter are together, but if you enlarge the chart and look at the planet table to the side, you'll see the correct placements. IP: Logged |
mblover Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Registered: Nov 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 03:56 PM
Geo, makes sense. I looked at it closely. Changing my previous assessment..I wish she was a Leo ;-)IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 04:12 PM
I was thinking about it, too, and thought that her Jupiter in Leo can still let her squeak by with some Queenly status. IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 04, 2008 04:41 PM
My MAIN problem is i get sad really fast like if a pet dies or if a friends pet dies or if i see something sad on the tv or internet or poor people I can see right through people and I feel like i can read peoples eyes and know exactly what they are thinking and what's going on in their lives and when i do this if the person is sad or has problems it really upsets me When it comes to animals if i see an animal that has been knocked down or injured or someone being cruel to one on the road or something i can't seem to get it out of my mind ----------------------------------------- This could have been written by a close friend of mine. In her case this deep empathy is accompanied by severe depression. Neither of you are wrong, but making yourself ill over things that worry you is not only personally damaging but it can be counter-productive - it can end up harming the people or things you are trying to protect. As cruel as it sounds it is often necessary to switch off from this level of empathy, sensitivity, pyschic reception, call it what you will, or it will not be possible to get through the day on a normal functioning level. Maybe this does not apply in your case, but if you feel you are starting to make yourself suffer, maybe Moon CNJ Pluto is the emotional response that will help you switch this on and off. IP: Logged |
triplecancer Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted April 04, 2008 05:18 PM
Beautiful, I also have moon in 12th house (square pluto) and I also get sad very easily and everyone's pain and suffering ends up being my own pain and suffering. I think this placement makes us like sponges, absorbing everyone's emotional state. It sucks. I hate it. It's enough that I have to deal with my own suffering, but also others? Moon conjunct pluto is a very strong aspect and means a lot of issues with mother regarding control, possessiveness, domination, manipulations etc. I have the square and also have many issues with my mother. I think the conjunction is even stronger. I think we need to learn that empathy is ok, but it's not good to suffer so much. We have to find the limit. There's a lot of suffering in the world (diseases, poverty, wars, etc.) and maybe we can help, but in my case I know I can't save the world. If you help someone who's suffering that's a lot, but you probably can't help EVERYONE. I hope you feel better. IP: Logged |
BeAuTiFuL Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Mar 2008
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posted April 15, 2008 12:51 AM
Thanks There are some very nice people here
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