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Topic: Learning to trust S/O again is a LOT harder than I thought.
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Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted April 05, 2008 10:37 PM
 
I need help lindaland. I am having trouble trusting my S/O. She is not doing anything to make me think she was cheating (right now), its just that she cheated before we got married. We broke up this past summer and fall and now we are trying to work it out. We go to marriage counseling and I have brought it up in a one on one session with our counselor. I just don't know what to do. I thought I could get over it if that was the only major negative in our relationship but I can't. And i'm afraid to bring this up with her just incase i'm getting myself worked up for nothing. All I know is the trust issue is keeping me from completely opening up to her again. (I NEVER cheated on her, even after she did on me) Anyone else go through similar? Did you ever manage to trust your S/O again? Anyone have any advice or suggestions for me? This has been on my mind for a few weeks now. ------------------
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Knowflake Posts: 508
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Registered: Nov 2007
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posted April 05, 2008 11:07 PM
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Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted April 05, 2008 11:20 PM
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Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted April 06, 2008 01:29 PM
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