posted April 10, 2008 06:52 PM         

ok... so l have a dilemma. I like 2 guys and both of their lifestyles have pro's and con's for me...

both their synastry's with me are SO similar that l cannot see which is the better synastry. It is important that l l don't make a mistake as l have children who will at some point become involved.

I am involved with one of them but he is foreign and lives abroad... the other one is foreign but lives here.
(I have venus in 9th!!!)

So, l ask kindly for your help please. Can you tell me which one is more compatible with me? I am really so confused arrrrggggghhhh!!!!

Problem is, i'm way too honest to string either of them along - it's just not my style so l have to drop one... or both ! lol

Thanks so much. Here are the charts...

(in the 2nd synastry l have had to guess the ascendant as it is unknown) sorry

PLEASE can you have a look and tell me what you think?

Charts are 2 posts below cos l messed up!

posted April 10, 2008 07:06 PM         

How do l post them directly onto the page, do you know pls?

posted April 10, 2008 07:25 PM         

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I'm scared as l have not had a relationship since my divorce 3 years ago and l don't want to involve the kids in something that is incompatible.

posted April 11, 2008 01:45 PM         

Synastry 2 doesn't look like much longevity, there's sexual chemistry to be sure, but hardly any Saturn connections, at least not close enough to make a difference.

But I really don't like how Synastry 1 looks, only because of his Saturn conjunct your Mars on the 10th house cusp. Too controlling and possibly brutal at the darkest end of the spectrum.

Can you please let us know if you are already aware of some of these energies with Synastry 1? Thanks.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted April 11, 2008 01:53 PM         

Synastry 1 l have been seeing for 4 months now but he lives abroad so only see him for 5 days a month.
Already l feel that he is not going to fulfill my needs. He is pretty selfish and like to be in control, yes. He is very good at ignoring me if l ask him a question he doesn't wish to answer... and l don't think l can continue this relationship.

Synastry 2 l only met last week. He is such a lovely guy, lives in my city and also has children. Basically, much more compatible. We get on amazing well considering the fact l have only met him once (at a party) after which our communication has only been by email/text/phone... but he does intrigue me.

So you don't think number 2 will be more than a potential fling? Interestingly, whenever l have saturn aspecting mine a lot it normally ruins the vibe because all my emotional side is bang on my saturn. Does that make sense?

posted April 11, 2008 03:35 PM         

(if it helps)