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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 11, 2008 11:46 PM Hi, theres been this Aqua guy thats been sort of chasing me on and off for awhile, and would like to get some advice on how to be tactful on telling this guy I am simply not interested in him...out of all the signs to be after me it has to an Aqua(sorry no offense to any of you aquas on the board). I just don't feel a rapport with this guy or really any other air sign for that matter, at least romantic wise that is. Friendship is fine, but that is not the case here. I have no idea why I attract them so much. Any advice welcomed ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2009	posted April 12, 2008 12:28 AM Tell him you love him and want to spend every minute for the rest of your life with him. That should do it! You can thank me later! IP: Logged
mblover Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 12:33 AM I love future_uncertain's answer. It is very easy to scare an Aqua. Basically, become a Cancer woman, Clingy and Demanding of every single moment of his life. Also tell him that he is not available when you have problems. He is not helping in emotional problems (According to Aqua, you are supposed to solve your emotional problems yourself). Tell him that you can't live a relationship in which there is a 'Space'. You have to share every single moment of the relationship. And there he goes off into his new adventure. Expect some angry questions.. and answer all of those questions emotionally without any logic... IP: Logged
Belage Knowflake Posts: 463 From: California Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 12:52 AM Tell him you love him and want to spend every minute for the rest of your life with him. That should do it! You can thank me later! Picking myself off the floor That's it!!! LOL. IP: Logged
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2009	posted April 12, 2008 12:58 AM "Expect some angry questions and answer all those questions emotionally without any logic." Love it! I've never dated an aqua guy, but I have plenty of (single) aqua female friends who would respond "positively" to any of this advice! However, it sounds like you may be interested in maintaining a respectable friendship with this guy, and if that's the case then you'll need some real advice. Have you tried being honest with him? Maybe the truth is all it will take. Good luck! IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 01:07 AM Being friends with this guy would be ok, and something I would prefer, and I have mentioned before that we just 'hangout' sometime with other people, but than he has a tendency to bring up being alone together(and other romantic hints). I am just not attracted to him like that, and I am afraid that in my impatience with him that I will be mean about telling him how I feel. But I do want to keep him as a friend...I just don't know how to deal with other air signs, I am accustomed to being surrounded by water signs majority of the time. ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 01:25 AM Become needy IP: Logged
BLKFox unregistered	posted April 12, 2008 01:29 AM Yes, to all...become possessive IP: Logged
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2009	posted April 12, 2008 01:42 AM OK... let me ask you this: sometimes Libras can seem like they're "flirting" when they're really not. (You can't help being so charming, can you?!) Is it possible that he's misreading your friendliness as signals of something more? If so you may want to become more aware of your responses to him and adjust accordingly. IP: Logged
mblover Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 02:12 AM future_uncertain.. have to appreciate again... your answer is highly diplomatic and perfectly written for a Libra to understand.. ;-) IP: Logged
Galactic Newflake Posts: 11 From: CO Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 11:25 AM Lol. Sorry for laughing but, yes, the more you "shun" him the harder he will try. You will just have to tell him you only want to be occasional friends. IP: Logged
hippichick Moderator Posts: 737 From: Registered: May 2009	posted April 12, 2008 01:01 PM O, these are all very good answers, very "traditional" Aqua stuff! However remember, there are the odd ones, the "freaks of nature," perhaps an Aqua sun with a hell of alot of water, god forbid alot of Cancer, who overcompensates for their detachment by over-attaching... Well, good luck with this one! However, a typical Aqua is very easy to let go of. O, and btw, the longer the relation with the Aqua, the harder it is for them to let go, a funny quirk to the Aquarian energy. They are FIXED and in all of their lofty detachment, they have trouble detaching, really, fixed is fixed. IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 12, 2008 01:26 PM Trying to be tactful might be the problem. Just tell them straight, maybe making it into a bit of a joke. That's what I tend to do with Aquarian types, anyway. IP: Logged
BLKFox unregistered	posted April 12, 2008 01:44 PM HEY!!!!!---NO LIBRA Bashing... As a full-fledged, Libra, I must admit that,yes, we do flirt!!!---aren't Libras & Aquas supposed to be compatible?...I've been infatuated with a few, but mostly not! I say, give it a go...(LIBRA balancing her scales)..you may like it!!! IP: Logged
PaidVacation unregistered	posted April 12, 2008 06:02 PM Where is his Moon and his Venus? That should help you figure it out. If his Venus is in Pisces, you could hurt his feelings easily. His Moon is esp important in knowing how to deal with him. You don't want to snub a Moon in Scorp, but a Moon in Sag will be just fine. IP: Logged
praecipua unregistered	posted April 12, 2008 06:38 PM be clingy and show that you don't give a toss about people in needs. show him you don't love people in general. he might try to change your mind, until he realises you are a lost cause. aqua sun IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 13, 2008 07:26 PM You guys are funny...next time he calls and tries to get all sweet with me I'll just take some of your advice, it should be easy since it is in my nature to be clingy and possessive(needy Libra). Lets hope it puts him off just enough ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged
wild sheep unregistered	posted April 13, 2008 07:45 PM I know of only one surefire way to get dropped by an Aquarian: insult one of his/her friends (even a little). One lesser-appreciated quality of Aquarians is their devotion to their friends. If an Aquarian considers someone "good enough" to be a friend, that is one stellar individual in the Aquarian's eyes. If you insult the Aquarian's friend, you're insulting the Aquarian. Not acceptable. You will be ditched, but quick. I once had an Aquarian boyfriend who put up with just about everything from me, including clingy weirdness, possessiveness, obsessive compulsion, sexual issues and other extremes of emotion and behavior. The break-up didn't come until I did something not-so-great in front of one of his friends, which included being kind of rude to her...didn't take him long to cut ties after that. And when asked, he listed that as the reason he wanted to leave, not any of the other stuff. I have a lot of other similar stories...including one Aquarian boss who tolerated every kind of professional screw-up from me and other employees...except criticism of other managers/executives. (He even refused to fire one employee who was basically caught lying about his hours; the people who actually got fired were folks who complained about the people-in-change whom the Aquarian president had hired.) Many Aquarians consider themselves the rough equivalent to King Arthur at the head of the Round Table that is their social circle. Don't you dare be insulting any of their loyal knights! They don't like that. I know the idea of insulting someone's friend is really not nice...but trust me, you won't have to poke all that hard to get him to leave you be. IP: Logged
MainLine ModelD unregistered	posted April 13, 2008 10:48 PM Honestly, I think they are one of the few signs that can handle the truth. They are logical not emotional, just tell him, "I'm not feeling you in that way, but I'd like to be friends." They just accept it, they will sulk, but they do that anyway. I'm seeing an aqua now, he's drama. You can't be subtle with them, they are oblivious to emotions and feelings or any hints. I am very clear with him when he's getting on my nerves, I tell him to leave me the f alone. I think he kind of likes it...(they are sick lol) IP: Logged
heart cakes unregistered	posted April 13, 2008 11:10 PM oh this is funny stuff. what is his moon sign? i dunno if it'd make a HUGE difference, but i agree with the last poster. i'm an aquarius and i think we really do value the truth, awareness, above all. however, if he's really got his heart set on you and maybe thinks he can see something between the two of you that you can't, you could be in for a little more attention. the more frank you are, the better. don't be rude, though. we aquarians are kooky and rebellious and if you make up a reason he might try harder. just be straight, i say. above all we want rapport with someone, connection (but freedom within that dynamic, essentially), so if you make it clear that it does not exist on that level, he will leave it alone sooner than if there is the mystery of not knowing, or a question in the air between you. what i mean is, aquarius will persue whatever makes them curious, to get to that rapport. so, if he's set on you, he probably won't give up unless you're quite clear that you DON'T feel that way. and if you're friendly and honest, he will probably want to stay friends with you. IP: Logged
praecipua unregistered	posted April 14, 2008 06:05 AM to sum up in order of efficiency: -be honest and tell him straight, leaving no doubt about your feelings. but be kind please. -be rude to his friends (or humanity in general) -be clingy and emotionally demanding, and over demonstrative. IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 14, 2008 07:02 AM MainLine ~> hilarious and so true. IP: Logged
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Feb 2010	posted April 14, 2008 09:46 AM "You can't be subtle with them, they are oblivious to emotions and feelings or any hints. I am very clear with him when he's getting on my nerves, I tell him to leave me the f alone" "if he's set on you, he probably won't give up unless you're quite clear that you DON'T feel that way. and if you're friendly and honest, he will probably want to stay friends with you" SO TRUE ALL OF THIS!!!! IP: Logged
mblover Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 14, 2008 10:34 AM wild sheep, Amazing info. I have seen this in several Aquarius women, where group of friends are more important than a Boy Friend... IP: Logged
MainLine ModelD unregistered	posted April 14, 2008 12:08 PM Heart Cakes, I didn't really pay attention to his moon, but since you asked I looked...Go figure, his moon is in Aquarius too...double weirdo! (lol). His....Merucy and Venus are in Capricorn Any interpretations of this? I gave up on looking into his chart,decided to roll with the punches...keeps it fresh lol. Sun-Tarus Rising-Pisces Moon- Capricorn IP: Logged

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