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Topic: Pluto in Synastry
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winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 17, 2008 12:07 PM
 
Have u had any troubling experiences including this aspect? Just saying because they say the person with the most aspected pluto has the last word, the upper hand...IP: Logged |
lovegoblin
Knowflake Posts: 608
From: norfolk, virginia USA
Registered: May 2006
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posted April 17, 2008 12:27 PM
I think it depends upon how pluto is in your own natal chart and which aspects you are referring to in synastry. I have lots of pluto synastry w/so-I am the one who mostly has my pluto aspected-but i aspect their pluto as well. its hard to say who really has upper hand. Pluto would rather die than loose control, that is for sure.
That doesn't mean pluto doesn't obsess about the situation, you would just never know it.IP: Logged |
Xodian
Moderator Posts: 2171
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted April 17, 2008 12:45 PM
Having Pluto aspects doesn't necessarily means that Pluto has the upper hand but rather the attraction the Systanty generates might be more in favour of Pluto. Offcourse, I talk of this IF we just consider the Pluto aspect as an isolated aspect.I personally cherish my Pluto sysnasty aspects. What some might say possesive and challenging, I personally love since it gives that necessary "umph!" in a relationship. IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 17, 2008 01:29 PM
well snowflakes my pluto is nearly unaspected and retrograde in 10th in virgo, so i dont think i have anything to do in regard to a person that has a whammy like mars-pluto-uranus conjunct in virgo also and in 11th...U reckon u should cherish these pluto synastries? maybe i am a simple taurus but the power struggles tire me... surely the sexual chemistry is amazing, but believe me these plutonian powers are cunning... I am mostly talking about someone whose pluto squares almost ALL my personal planets, whereas there is my poor retro pluto just happily trining his jupiter... So reckon dont stand a chance... When u say they rather die than loose control that makes me LAUGH, it so much describes this person. Surely cutting off all contact would make him reconsider? Must muse a bit more will let u know... IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 17, 2008 01:32 PM
what angers me the most is how this plutonian energies are always so well disguised, u know.... as if they were having the time of their life when an occasional comment shows how much they care... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... am going berserk....... like they always want to be the controllers and yes, they do have the upper hand...IP: Logged |
lovegoblin
Knowflake Posts: 608
From: norfolk, virginia USA
Registered: May 2006
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posted April 17, 2008 03:40 PM
winky-
don't threaten to cut ties, unless you really mean it. They will walk away like nothing ever happened. Its not to say they won't obsess about it, but YOU might never know that they are obsessing. Better to stay and play and see where it will take you. Don't try to control, you will loose. Remember, pluto rules the underworld.
Try to go deep with them. That is the way to win them over. They have to trust you. IP: Logged |
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