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Topic: Is He Interested.....(Scorpio male & Cancer female)
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littlemisscrab
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Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 25, 2008 07:02 PM
 
Hello, I am a newbie to this site. I am having a hard time reading this Scorpio in my life. When I first met him it was a weird feeling, not bad, just weird.When he shook my hand it was as if he was just holding my hand. I was trying to give him a firm handshake, but he was not looking for that. As we were "shaking" hands he stared into my eyes, it seemed like forever. There was a certain glitter in his eye as he looked at me. I have no problem with him staring into my eyes, I find it very romantic actually. However, I saw him again at school and he was walking behind me and I turned around and it seemed like he tensed up. He is usually very open and gregarious around people, but when I am alone with him he seems to get all shy. It does not make sense for a Scorpio. Also he looks at me when he thinks I am not looking. I have also noticed that if he is in my line of view he will move so I have to turn my head to look at him. When I look he turns his head. I do not understand. Since I am a Cancerean I am reluctant to make a move, because he is giving me mixed signals. Usually I can read what he is feeling and I want to understand why I make him feel uneasy.I guess I should also mention before he used to stare me down. I mean he would be standing across the room and two other people are talking to him and he would be starring directly at me ignoring them. Ughgh I hate mixed signals Can you all offer some insight. Thank you IP: Logged |
enchantress299
Knowflake Posts: 235
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Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 25, 2008 07:10 PM
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It does not make sense for a Scorpio.
It makes perfect sense for a Scorpio.  Now, while there are some genuinely shy Scorpios out there, this one sounds like he's trying to make you interested in him, ESPECIALLY because he's throwing you mixed signals and because he used to stare you down. He realized the staring you down isn't working (or it's scaring you, which a lot of Scorpios accidentally do to their love interests), so he's going for something more subtle. Personally, I would say he really likes you. Really really... That's what Scorpios do when they like someone. They're direct at first and then they almost take on a guerrilla style love tactic and then pretend not to notice you or they try to be subtle. And again, he could be genuinely shy, but still very interested in you. Good luck. ------------------
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littlemisscrab
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posted April 25, 2008 07:46 PM
Wow.... I thought he may have lost interest. However, it did not make sense that he would still watch me when he thought I did not see him (if he was no longer interested). Or maybe (since Scorpios are so intuitive)he knew that I could tell he was looking at me. It is still very irritating that he is doing this. Also he may not want to be too obvious around the people we go to school with since he is very secretive about his personal life. Thank you for your insight. IP: Logged |
astroscorp
Knowflake Posts: 42
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Registered: Mar 2008
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posted April 26, 2008 03:25 AM
I would say that he is definitely interested in you. I get all tensed up when I am near my love interest and be all shy. I would only stare if I am interested in you else you'll be out of my radar. Its like "Hey I am here, hello?"I guess he is just trying to suss you out and see if you're interested in him too. Give him some positive signals to make the first move eh.. Unless u're dealing with a leo rising/ mars then prob he'll make the first move - just like I did although I got rejected by the cancerian lady. Anyway all the best with you and your scorpio!  IP: Logged |
littlemisscrab
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posted April 26, 2008 01:59 PM
Thank you so much for your insight. It is really helpful. I was a little worried because I felt such an intense connection with him, but now I do not feel it. It was as if he was using a magnet to pull me in. I miss that intensity  --------------------------------------------
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PLF
Knowflake Posts: 92
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Registered: Feb 2008
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posted April 26, 2008 04:08 PM
I agree with others.I'd say, he's really into you. Don't dwell on the mixed signals. Just give him some positive signs that you also may be interested whenever you see him looking at you (for example with a smile or whatever) and he'll work up the courage to come and talk to you and take things further. IP: Logged |
littlemisscrab
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Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 26, 2008 11:21 PM
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Quote: Just give him some positive signs that you also may be interested
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I will definitely work on that. Thank you all so much for your insight and advice. It is truly appreciated. ------------------------------------------
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