posted April 26, 2008 06:44 PM         

I have this placement with a boy I am CRAZY about and to be honest it's a very nice placement, I'm the venus, and I've never really been the venus before. Usually when I have this placement with someone I'm the moon, and as the moon I'm way more attached and emotional about the person. But he dosen't seem it at all, however our placment (which is at my 27.00 deg venus, and his 26.54 deg moon) is in taurus afterall.

posted April 26, 2008 08:20 PM         

It's strange that everyone thinks he's annoying and unattractive...but I happen to think he is just pretty great lol...anyway here are our placements.

Me:
Born July 3, 1985 at 5:44 AM in Bellflower, CA

Asc Can
Sun Can 1st
Moon Cap 7th
Mer leo 2nd
Ven Tau 11th
Mars Can 1st
Jup Aqu 8th
Sat Sco 5th
Plu Sco 5th
Uran Sag 6th
Nep Cap 6th

posted April 27, 2008 12:07 PM         

Especially 2 guys I dated, they had Libra moons and I could literally do anything for them if they asked me to, which never ever happened with anyone else so far

posted April 27, 2008 07:45 PM         

If I were single and she worked her issues out, I'd give it another chance.

posted April 28, 2008 10:07 PM         

Natally I have the conjunction and I've actually experienced both another's Venus hitting this pt as well as another's Moon. Very strange the way it plays out for me because even though I have the conjunction the responses [more or less] are true to form to what you would "expect" with this aspect, meaning that I take on different roles in dramatic turns. I've found that the sign it occurs in is -crucial- in finding out how this would play out. Now keep in mind my conjunction [2 deg] natally makes a strong square to pluto [moon venus mp conj pluto within minutes] and loose squares to mars and saturn:

When I'm Venus - There is a profound urge to want to nurture and comfort any "negative" emotion emanating from the moon person, not to mention the fact that I find them insanely sexy and attractive [the smaller the orb the more prevalent the nurture and care is that i feel]. There's like i said a definite sexual component but it's borne out of "let me take care of you, let me know where you want to be touched, etc." not a crude sexuality at all, there's a strong element of care [keep in mind that we'd have moons conjunct as well so that could add to it]. my conj is in capricorn and this sign as the moon can have big problems in letting their guard down - so I've noticed very strongly that these men would show their vulnerable sides to me in very endearing ways [ something that the avg cap moon man is not comfortable with by nature - speaking from my experience]. Most of them expressed an urge to want us to move in together and in many instances they would display "needy" behavior [ok keep in mind my moon is in cap so this is where i'm coming from and also working on...]. For example one man would claim [and i believed him] that the only way he could feel improved about a situation/problem that had presented itself was by talking to me [so to me this seemed needy and semi-claustrophobic - you can tell i have a fear of intimacy ]. If anyone wants more examples feel free.

Being the Moon person - ok Moon in cap is IMO insanely riled up when things are not going accdg to plan, when others are not pulling their weight, and as a rule feel much more comfortable expressing "negative" [ie bitchy] emotions than something more vulnerable [disagreements welcome but this is my very varied experience]. I can not emphasize enough how every shred of insecurity and negativity seemed all of a sudden like a distant memory when I was around those who had venus in cap conj my moon. It was as if, finally someone gets it, someone understands how serious i am about these things and they don't berate me for it. It was almost addicting. And like you can guess I hated to admit it but I became needy of that comfort that I sensed from being around them. I was also physically attracted to them but it wasn't as engrossing as in the previous situation. Around them I felt as if I could finally breathe and that it was OK to have the worries and concerns that I had but they are not the end of the world, it's nothing to get so insanely caught up with.

It's strange going from one of these roles to the other because I become the nurturer / "seducer" in one and then the emotional basketcase in need of understanding in the other. You can pretty much tell from this that I prefer being the Venus person - much more in control