posted April 29, 2008 09:53 PM         

Me or Him: So what are you doing over the weekend?
Me: Oh I don't know what about you?
Him: Well I'm doing such and such
Me: Cool
Me: (In a halfway kidding mode) I feel neglected you never want to hang out with me
Him: What about me...you never ask if I want to hang out either
Him: Please don't feel neglected
Him: But wait you've never asked me if I want to hang out
Me: That's because you're the guy
Him: And what does that have to do with anything?
Me: Well I'm not caving...if you want to hang out...you'll have to ask first
Him: Ok well I'm not caving either...if you want to hang out you'll ask too

Or in terms of Facebook:
Me: I wrote on your wall...you're a bad non sexual life parter...you didn't even reply (in joking manner)
Him: Life parter?
Me: Ok non sexual interm parter (joking)
Him: I don't like where this relationship is headed
Me: Ok fine I think of you as a little brother (he's 21, and I'm 22)
Him: There is nothing little about me
Him: I'm more like your big brother who is rough with you and smacks you around
Me: Well fine...you can be my big brother then...either way what are you getting me for my birthday (in July)?
Him: Nothing...I don't get little sisters things for their birthday
Me: Well that makes me feel neglected...just like the facebook thing
Him: "Saying my name" my computer is broken, and I did see the wall post but I didn't know what to put up
Me: You were going to put some thought into it? Why you just put something random up there
Him: I'm not going to put up something random, if I don't know what to say then I won't put anything...so I didn't

posted April 30, 2008 03:36 AM         

basically this is how it looks to me - you seem to be trying to examine his actions from all sides and he seems to be trying to say "no its more straightforward than that". sounds like a scorpio thing for sure. although i have a scorpio venus and didnt see anything sexual about the last convo but maybe didnt get it.

posted April 30, 2008 04:16 AM         

You're actually right. I am kinda bored when I talk to him online. I'm the only one who asks questions, I try to get to the heart of the matter and talk about something other than relationships. Well I am a psychology major afterall. I hate to say this but in a way I do view him as being superficial, and boring...we have great synastry contacts but I just don't understand why the communication isn't easier.

For instance we just talked about an hour ago. I was up and couldn't concentrate and im'ed him because he was the only one online. Anyway we talked and I wanted him to seem more lively but he was withdrawn. And he did ask me question, but they just seemed strange. And then we went into this spill about how he gets more A** than a toilet seat. After saying he has too many girls. Honestly I was disgusted. But I LOL'd it off. And of course asked questions about it. And then made a comment about how I knew he got sex over the weekend because he put an aim away message up saying "getting some." Yeah I know real mature. Anyway my scorp/pluto side was disgusted at the mere idea of even sharing that side of yourself randomly with something as superficial as aim. I do like him quite a bit...but I also admit I want him to be deeper than he seems, and I'm not sure if he is.

Here are our placements:
Me:
Born July 3, 1985 at 5:44 AM in Bellflower, CA

Asc Can
Sun Can 1st
Moon Cap 7th
Mer leo 2nd
Ven Tau 11th
Mars Can 1st
Jup Aqu 8th
Sat Sco 5th
Plu Sco 5th
Uran Sag 6th
Nep Cap 6th