posted May 11, 2008 10:35 PM         

I recently broke-up a relationship with a guy – and I am a bit buffled about his reaction now. I made a Synastry between his natal-chart and the break-up-date’s chart – and I would be happy if some of you could help me understand how all this might have felt for him? How did he perceive it?

Did it hurt him instantly? Or was there some element of relief for him? Will he cling to our love thing - or will he get over it soon? (To tell you the truth: I am a bit surprised that he seems to be able to cope with it quite well – and that he might “distract” himself with someone else already ... just two weeks after. Or is he just pretending, playing it cool? It seems much harder for me, although I was the one who made the cut.

Here’s the Synastry between my EX’s natal chart (inner circle) and the break-up-date (outer):

There are some things that struck me right away:
- break-up-Sun is conjunct his Amor
- break-up-Moon is conjunct his Vertex
- break-up-Uranus is conjunct his Chiron and Eros
- break-up Pluto & Juno & Medea (obsessive love) are square his Venus

Looking back, what really shakes my nerves is that the break-up occurred exactly during the general Grand Trine of Venus-Saturn-Pluto two weeks ago.

And another thing: The house-positions and angles of the break-up-date are almost identical to our Composite-houses! The houses are more or less congruent! For example: The ASC of the break-up-moment is in 22 dg Libra – and our Composite’s ASC is in 23 dg Libra, and so on and so forth. What the heck would THAT mean???

What’s your impression? As always, your help would be greatly appreciated.