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posted May 12, 2008 07:13 AM         

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what placements etc in an individuals chart would indicate they are due for a happy marriage?

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posted May 12, 2008 09:36 AM         

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Some Saturn contacts for durability, stability and effort would be helpful.

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posted May 12, 2008 10:02 AM         

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Yes, in synastry, Saturn is essential for a meaningful connection, durability of the relationship, etc. But I thought the OP meant what placements in a person's natal chart indicate a good marriage? I've known Venus in the 7th to indicate a very happy marriage. And I personally think it helps if one has good planets in Libra or at least if he or she has no malefic planets in Libra (natural ruler of the 7th).

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posted May 12, 2008 12:15 PM         

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i have libra in sun, venus, mercury and moon- you think this would help?/ i also have saturn connections but theyre mostly squares

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posted May 12, 2008 12:18 PM         

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i would say, in a woman, venus well aspected and water signs in the 4th,5th and 8th and 7th houses

not too sure about a men though

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posted May 12, 2008 02:10 PM         

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Hello,

A man, I have a lovely Venus Descendant trine and Sun=Mars/Venus. Those three planets form a harmonious 9th harmonic triangle.
For stability, I have a Saturn Venus contra-parallel.
Also, my 7th house Neptune is trine Chiron.

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posted May 12, 2008 02:12 PM         

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i would say, in a woman, venus well aspected and water signs in the 4th,5th and 8th and 7th houses

He Winky, that would be one hell of a chart if one had 4th, 5th, 7th and 8th house water signs!!

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posted May 13, 2008 02:10 PM         

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Maybe I got the wrong end of the stick there, but logically synastry is going to help you most. It takes two to make a marriage happy.

I've got Venus in the 7th, btw.

Am I happily married? He works away a lot. Send him off to an oil-rig, we'll be the happiest couple in town.

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posted May 13, 2008 11:55 PM         

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Something like Jupiter conjunct Venus in the 7th house.

I think Saturn brings longevity, not necessarily happiness.

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posted May 14, 2008 01:06 AM         

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With regard to synastry it helps if someone has a planet that stabilizes a difficult natal aspect:

person a - has venus 10 libra square saturn 10 cancer
person b - has saturn 10 gemini that trines person a's venus

The basic interplay of venus saturn is still apparent however the effects in the relationship are such that the natal aspect is smoothed, making its effects more "positive" by association, and then there is free will to take that learned association into the self to move forward in life.

One of my definitions of happiness.

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posted May 14, 2008 02:01 AM         

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He Winky, that would be one hell of a chart if one had 4th, 5th, 7th and 8th house water signs!!

I have 4th and 5th in Cancer and 8th in Scorpio. My seventh house doesn't fall in a water house, but it's in Libra. Been happily married since 1994.

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posted May 16, 2008 01:20 PM         

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I would say good synastry with as many planets/signs as possible, but especially with the Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and the Moon.

I'd also say that it depends on what kind of dynamic you want in the relationship. Trines are good for harmony, but oppositions might be good if you want to complement each other or even argue a bit. Squares, though difficult, could help you grow as people. Conjunctions might be good if you want someone who is like-minded.

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posted May 16, 2008 03:07 PM         

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well i can quote the Magi Astrology that deffends that being born with Cinderella Transits increases the chances of a happy marriage:

kiron trine/conj/kikunks Venus/Nep/Uranus/Pluto in orb of 3º degrees
http://www.loveoracle.com/celebritylovers/robertsjulia2.htm

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posted May 16, 2008 03:28 PM         

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teresa u see? fruitful signs like water signs in significant houses point to marriage and children do u have any?

also, i would say well aspected triad (sun,moon and asc) is good for same "language" speaking

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posted May 16, 2008 03:34 PM         

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Hey Diandra,

I agree about the cinderella natal aspects. I have

chiron parallel venus in geo
chiron contra parallel venus in helio
venus quincunx neptune
chiron quincunx AC - not sure what that means!

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posted May 16, 2008 06:40 PM         

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I don't really understand the cinderella aspects. From what I have seen Chiron moves really slowly, like an outer planet. So basically one generation will have it in the same sign. Example, I was born in 1979 and everyone in that year has Chiron in Taurus between aprox. 5 and 13 degrees. So anyone with venus in Taurus will have a Cinderella aspect with every person born that year. That doesn't make much sense to me. Am I understanding this incorrectly?

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