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Topic: why don't people feel like they know me?
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kaira
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Registered: Sep 2006
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posted May 13, 2008 03:04 PM
 
or try to get to know me? and mostly just ignore me? this isn't a recent thing, i've been feeling this way for practically my whole life. i feel like no one has ever connected with me the same way i've connected with them, and most people don't seem to try, as though i'm not there or i'm not worth it.
i don't feel involved in groups or at work or at college, and you don't realise how many tears i've cried at night 'cause i feel so so alone in life. i'm basically a loner and i hate it, because i love having close companions and people who i can be myself with. but i always feel they don't feel the same way about me, which is so disheartening. i don't know what to do, i'm thinking of talking to a counsellor, but i don't want to be treated as if i'm socially inept. my sun is in frickin' Libra! IP: Logged |
mblover
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Registered: Nov 2007
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posted May 13, 2008 03:06 PM
Could you put your chart? We will help.IP: Logged |
kaira
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Registered: Sep 2006
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posted May 13, 2008 03:07 PM
oh, and here's my chart info:28th september 1989
7:12pm
blackburn, uk if anyone cares for its use.. IP: Logged |
kaira
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Registered: Sep 2006
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posted May 13, 2008 03:08 PM
ah, someone does  thank youIP: Logged |
blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted May 13, 2008 04:34 PM
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blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted May 13, 2008 04:53 PM
i'm thinking of talking to a counsellor, but i don't want to be treated as if i'm socially inept------------- A counsellor is there to listen to you, not to judge. This chart is dated April for transits as it was saved on my P.C from last time I uploaded it, btw. This might be off the mark, but I wonder if you give off the wrong impression of yourself ~ you have Aries rising, and Sun Conjunct Mars, which is quite aggressive as a combination. But your Sun, like you said, is in Libra. Right now Mercury is progressed to conjoin Mars. Maybe you have a habit of saying the wrong thing, quite unintentionally. That Sun/Mars combo is at the apex of a t-square with Uranus/Saturn at one end and Jupiter at the other. So you have an aggressive conjunction heading into conflict with a generational opposition. You're 18, so for the last few years you have spent enforced time with people of your generation ~ with whom you share a tricky oppositional configuration which you bring into conflict with your Sun/Mars. When you move through life you will meet a wider range of people. There won't be the same conflict with everyone. For example your Sun/Mars conjunct makes a trine/sextile with the generational opposition I am inflicted with. Hey, one of my best friends has a son older than me. It can work, don't pass up the chance of an age-gap friendship if it heads your way. Just a thought! IP: Logged |
comica23
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted May 13, 2008 04:53 PM
hmm I still don't have much experience at interpreting charts, but just a fast look, I guess that having Scorpio Venus, you desire deep bonds and understanding, and having Leo Moon, you are somehow warm-hearted, likes socializing and also want to be appreciated by others. Having Libra DC would also make you more interested in other people I guess.But well, having so much hard aspects with the outer planets might make it hard for relating with others of the same age as yours, since people around our age has almost the same outer planet placements, so that those hard aspects of your natal chart might appear in the synastry with those people around your age as well. Do you feel that people around your age doesn't understand you well? IP: Logged |
margola3
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From: Trumansburg, NY, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted May 13, 2008 07:56 PM
Hey Bluemoon, I just noticed the information that you entered to get Kaira's chart, and didn't she say that her birthday was the 28th? The chart you came up with said it was for the 26th of September..... Forgive me if I'm wrong, I don't mean to be nit-picky. Kaira I'm not real experienced with astrology at all, but your little story was interesting to me and touching because I have always felt very similarly all my life. I am very sincere with people, and I really try to make people feel comfortable around me, comfortable enough to open up to me more. I have a yearning to connect with people more than I've managed to, but people seem scared off by this I guess. Or perhaps they think I'm fake. Then they never seem to want to get to know me in return. It's a lonely feeling, and of course being a virgo I'm always wondering what the heck it is I'm doing wrong, or what it is about me that turns people off. Anyhoo, just wanted to let you know that you're certainly not alone, although this is a pretty specific concern you have. I hope somehow things get better for you, I'm sure you're a really super caring and interesting person. IP: Logged |
triplecancer
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted May 13, 2008 10:14 PM
Hi Kaira,
I used to have the same problem. You are still very young and probably haven't found the right group of people. It took me a long time and finally I have found a group where I feel considered and loved by my friends. Sometimes one expects too much from others. At least that's what happens to me. I have neptune in 5th (house of love) opposite venus in 11th (house of friends) so sometimes my expectations are way too high (though for me they seem normal) and people just cannot reach them. So I get desillusioned. Sometimes what one consideres to be consideration is different for others, and this doesn't mean they don`t care about you.
I hope you can find a group soon, eventually you will.
Astrologically I can't help you, I know some astrology but not that much. Maybe someone else can analyse? IP: Logged | |
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