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winky_winky
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posted May 15, 2008 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message

this is not quite like the other thread because i would like to get input on this very aspect only:

i have this with someone and i also see it in a lot of rships that figure obstacles but are ultimately overcome and unite...

any experiences?

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amowls
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posted May 15, 2008 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
I have this aspect with a guy whom I've liked for a long time (since I was 16, he moved away but came back last year) but right now we're sort of in a love pentagon or something. Our relationship is kind of a secret (we're in non official relationships with the other two people we're seeing). You could definitely call that an obstacle. Plus I live a hundred miles away.

It was weird though, the from the first time we saw each other again after he came back after 4 years we immediately started joking around and teasing being like "Oh I could see myself marrying you" etc.

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Diandra23
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posted May 15, 2008 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
dont know about obstacles...but i know it has to do with one ´s growing through the relationship with the other one.

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Lara
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posted May 15, 2008 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
I have sun and moon trine my b/f's NN

we seem to be on the same path

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plutoprincess
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posted May 15, 2008 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
I have this aspect with a guy who is really important to me, and I can't forget him.
He is now a few hundred km away from me, but it makes no difference to my feelings and I can't imagine my life without him. This "thing" I experience, has definitely helped me rediscover myself and the way I face relationships.It's really weird. Do such aspects affect both the sun and the node person? I'm the sun in this case..

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winky_winky
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posted May 16, 2008 04:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message

i believe they impact the nnode person more strongly

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wild sheep
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posted May 16, 2008 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wild sheep     Edit/Delete Message
An ex-boyfriend and an ex-friend of mine both had natal Sun conjunct my NN in Virgo. Those relationships could not be made to work to save our lives. This might have been more about the Virgo factor than anything else, but I noticed the Sun-NN connection a while ago and wondered if that might be related.

So, I'd say, yeah, potential obstacles there. A suggestion that the relationship in question might be more about soul evolution/growth than staying together and being happy.

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jane
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posted May 16, 2008 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message
I had this with an ex (we're now friends). His Sun on my NN. (Also, my Moon on his NN & his Moon on my SN.)

We were together about 2 years and I think we may have lasted longer if I got more personal growth out of the relationship. I wanted to change in ways he wasn't able to accommodate. And once I realized that, the sexual attraction faded quickly for me.

So I guess, like wild sheep said, the relationship was about soul evolution/growth because as soon as I felt we went as far as we could in that area, the relationship felt over to me. Well, not over, just more like a happily complacent friendship.

His Moon on my SN best captured that frustration, while his Sun on my NN triggered my focus on growth.

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jaymac18
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posted May 16, 2008 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jaymac18     Edit/Delete Message
My ex and I had this aspect his sun conjunct my north node. We were together for 10 years. I think this is a significant aspect and indicates soul mate connection. The conjunction is the most powerful, but I think any personal planet conjunct the north node suggests a relationship that could be important. The karmic astrologers suggest that north node connections are highly karmic in nature and suggest possible soul mate connections, although other aspects such as venus-pluto and venus -neptune aspects are included, especially when double whammies.

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Hey
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posted May 16, 2008 02:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I have this with a lot of people. No wonder they love me.

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jaymac18
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posted May 18, 2008 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jaymac18     Edit/Delete Message
I seem to be surronded by virgos too, and its interesting that my north node is in virgo. I have 3 close family members whose sun conjuncts my node, as well as my ex. So perhaps its the sun conjunct node that is an attractive force. I wonder if others have noticed this, that they seem to have people around them whose sun is conjunct their node??

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winky_winky
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posted May 18, 2008 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message
well i never noticed this aspect until it showed up in a synastry with a guy i fancy so dunno really..........

supposedly is meaningful?

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Diandra23
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posted May 18, 2008 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
Cafe AStrology:

"When your Sun is conjunct your partner's North Node, one of the major themes of your relationship is developing each other's talents and strengths. This contact is a powerful one. Instant friendship is probable, but if there is any hesitance, it is likely on the part of the North Node person. The Sun person expresses many of the qualities that the North Node person is intuitively drawn to expressing, and any reluctance on the Node person's part really represents a fear of progress. More probably, this relationship is attractive and carries with it some unspoken promise of growth. There is a feeling of "going somewhere" through this relationship. You are likely to be quite active together, spurring each other on frequently."

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