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heart cakes
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posted May 26, 2008 12:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
tell me about them! i just read that they are VERY interested in commitment and forever-romance but are afraid of rejection and so sometimes push away the one they want. are they really that romantically inclined?

also, what is the secret to seducing and keeping a venus in scorpio man? i want one very much but he seems quite shy.. i need some ideas!!

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posted May 26, 2008 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Scorpio and Pluto in Libra - mutual reception. That is true for me except for pushing away. I have strong fear of rejection,and so I am very shy. When I love,I love with everything that I have...with all my heart,soul,body,and might. I am very intense,passionate. It's like a get very deeply attached as well as obsessed. It sucks if the woman is not as intense nor deep as I am. I prefer a woman that is deep and intense like me.


I have Sun and Mercury in Scorpio too. My Moon is in Pisces.........so I am highly ultrasensitive,emotional....for me.......being in love leads me to be highly vulnerable and can lead me to be hurt very badly if I end up with the wrong woman or if there are misunderstandings.

That's why I prefer spiritually oriented women who are empathic,sensitive,understanding with good values.


As for seducing, I don't really want anybody to seduce me. To me, it would seem like manipulation. I am not into seducing myself. When I am interested in a woman, I tell her how I feel. I show her how I feel. If she's interested in me,I would prefer that she tell me and show me. Then I would feel safe and secure to take chance with her. Trust is a big issue with me.

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posted May 26, 2008 12:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well my ex has venusin scorpio and hes sexy alright but hes not as attached with libra sun and virgo moon. Hes more into sleeping with everyone and a sex freak rather than someone who obsesses over ppl and falls madly in love.

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Moon: Gemini
Mars: Cancer
Mercury: Cancer
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posted May 26, 2008 12:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks glacus! gotcha on the seducing thing. i was kind of using it playfully (silly sag ascendant!). that is very good; so then, you would prefer a straightforward approach from a woman? i'm sag asc, aquarius sun, taurus moon, venus sag, mars aqua, pisces SN, so i'm generally pretty straighforward but can be a bit shy myself. no games for me and i'm big on commitment and honesty. he's libra rising, sag sun, cap moon, venus scorp, mars capricorn, so he seems that he'd be a bit shy in love and i don't want to scare him off but i also want him to know how i feel.. should i just let it happen naturally, then, or would it be advisable to make the first move?

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posted May 26, 2008 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I definitely prefer the straightforward approach.

I think that it's good to let things happen naturally but definitely let him know that you're interested in him.

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posted May 26, 2008 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
omg - these men are intense. this is my fave venus placement. they love completely with their entire being. they want to merge with you fully.

my experience is that they can be possessive but i don't mind that - as long as it's not restrictive - it makes me feel secure.

if i could construct the perfect man astrologically - i would definitely have venus in scorp.

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posted May 26, 2008 01:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of the great loves of my life had his Venus in Scorpio (His Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Libra, Mars in Aquarius) - I really appreciated his kind of love!

I guess Venus in Scorpio is very serious about love, allergic against "game playing", he seeks commitment - or, say: he appreciates commtiment when offered to him. No superficiality, intense emotions, sticks to what has been promised and expects the same from you.

AND: Erotic interests come to the fore. The BF with Venus in Scorpio liked to look at and think about or even: talk about women who dealt with their sexuality in a frank/forthrigth way. He was kinda obsessed with sexual techniques and really talked about these a lot. All kindsa "kinkyness" made his head reeling. He also gave some "sexily" dressed women the eye, from time to time - but deep down in his heart he rejected a too outgoing, too sexy style with women. Too little "class" in his opinion. He was fascinated by "cheap looks", but more in a mental way - actually, he was repelled by them and preferred the type of women who are like "still waters who run deep": With a magnetic aura and some sort of "(in-)tensity" that only the true conaisseur can spot. ;-) Too much flesh, obviously presented with too short skirts - this was not at all his taste.

For all his life he was into DARKHAIRED girls, by the way. AND he had a taste for lingerie and playing around with it.

I never met a man before or after, who obviously has had such "fun" (mentally and physically) in "making love" an entertaining and versatile "play" for himselsf and the woman he loves. And I guess, he always was true - and is so, in fact, with his current girlfriend (and they've been together for about 11 years now!)

YEAH - I'd love to meet a guy with Venus in Scorpio again! (Especially since my ASC is in Scorpio, haha.)

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posted May 26, 2008 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
belgz, i had a libra sun, virgo moon, and venus in scorpio, identical description, but a libra sun will drive a woman to the insane asylum, right! we did have great synastry,( my virgo rising and venus in pisces ) we even thought the same things at the same times, and he admired me alot, we have known eachother about 20 years. so wishy washy AGGHH

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posted May 27, 2008 03:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Belgz...weird. I realize I'm not a man, but I have the same placements as your ex (Libra Sun, Virgo Moon, Venus Scorpio). I am SOOO not promiscuous. I fall in love with everything I have - to the point of vulnerability. I often get hurt - even if I'm the one doing the breaking up

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Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
Pluto in Libra

Stellium in the 10th
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I feel so naked ;)

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posted May 27, 2008 05:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that sounds quite like me alvarella!

The love of Lingerie, Dark-hair and kinkiness especially made me think for a second, if I know you as if you were describing me! Lol

I don't have moon in Libra or Mars in Aqua though. But do have Sun Cap Venus Scorpio.

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posted May 27, 2008 05:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have scorpio ASC and that is very much like me as well, esp. the still waters run deep and only a connoisseur can spot bit.
I think Scorpio's do hate game playing but ironically can be masters of it,i think it stems from having such deep emotions that games only get confusing to an already deep feeling individual.

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posted May 30, 2008 01:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW! this is fascinating!! so my thoughts are.. this is all about INTIMACY.. and whether that manifests as a tendency to total union and commitment and love or sex addiction is up to the individual then! this is pretty exciting to me as pluto is pretty much exactly conjuncting my venus right now and has been for over a year. i think i can understand it. the power in love and sex: what intimacy is all about, and HOW DEEP can it go.. right? that is really attractive to me! okay, now for a checklist. dark hair? yep. lingerie? nope. not yet but i did buy a nice bra recently. kinky? not telling. entrhalled by what scorpio venus seems to be about: RESOUNDING YES!

any others with venus scorpio (or know of one) want to weigh in?

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posted May 30, 2008 05:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uh-Haaa! Is this a good place to ask about Venus in Scorpio Composite???

I'm dying to know what anyone thinks about this energy!!!

I'm getting great ideas off this thread for an individual.... but would love to know how it spills over into the interaction of 2 people in the form of a composite...

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posted May 30, 2008 12:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My current on again/off again Sag Sun so is Venus in Scorpio. He was doing the typical Sag thing, hating to be boxed in thing, so I told him we could be friends, thinking I'd let him cool off then we'd be on again. Boy was I wrong with that. He got really hurt and angry, which has totally bewhildered me. Now I don't know if I'm coming or going but I want to have what we did. I just don't know what to do. Anyways, he loves dark hair and is amazing in bed. He's just very sensitive where I wouldn't expect it.

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heart cakes
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posted May 30, 2008 01:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah the composite stuff is still a bit blurry to me. i guess you would bring out those feelings in one another? the guy i have a crush on and i also have scorpio rising, composite.

victoria's girl, it sounds like his venus in scorpio came out when he felt he would lose you. interesting! i guess that is part of their reticence to show their deepest feelings.. the guy i like is a sag sun as well. what is your guy's moon sign?

oh and i was wondering if anyone has any thoughts on his venus in scorpio being exactly conjunct my uranus and exactly opposite my moon? i've heard venus conjunct uranus is very exciting but often short lived, and was wondering if the opposition to my moon could stablize this? our moons are also exactly trined.

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posted May 30, 2008 02:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there.. if it's any help at all, since I am not a man.. I am a sun libra, aquarius asc, moon aries, mars cap, venus scorpio... if anything, I have been called quite severe.. I am not really! There's just a few things I can't take.. 1) People who are not straight forward (even though I am still working on my complete and utter forthrightness, I expect that from others, otherwise I am gone) 2) People who are not SERIOUS (in life, in relationships... but should be able to act the fool with me when necessary which is most of the time) 3) People who are PASSIONLESS annnnd... Interestingly enough, I am not that into sex... Although I am quite sexual in nature. This has been a problem, no doubt. Not for me, though. I have had great, great intellectual/emotional relationships with a cap man with venus in scorp and also a taurus wth a pisces moon and venus in scorp... But these men were great for telling secrets and mental stimulation... I definitely couldn't deal with their issues in a day-to-day relationship (aw hell no!). Now married to a gemini/cancer cusp with a libra rising, scorp moon, mars in gemini, venus in leo... Couldn't ask for a better (or prettier) man... Although sometimes I wish he were bigger and scarier (ha ha) but I do seem to stick to men who really have it together. Nice upstanding citizens. They just need a slight evil streak, I guess.

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posted May 30, 2008 02:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also worth noting:

For me, it has only been disaster with venus in gemini. CANNOT take those foolz. Ha ha.

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posted May 30, 2008 03:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*drools over men with Venus in Scorpio*

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posted May 30, 2008 05:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Heartcakes & whalepiscean, his moon's in Cancer, making him extremely secretive and reluctant to share his innermost feelings. (I understand being a Cancer Sun). I just give him his space (I'm Aries rising so I get the space thing). He's Pisces ascendant so needless to say he has ALOT of water in his chart, to some degree moreso than I do (I have alot of fire) so it makes things interesting. But rollercoaster ride? Absolutely! (Guess that's part of the thrill). He's also extremely masculine being a Saggie, but emotionally he's really soft and sensitive and Scorp Moon makes him sexy as hell.

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posted May 31, 2008 04:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks victoria's girl! the guy i like has moon in capricorn.. so very different from cancer moon, but in some ways similar (like, he probably doesn't like to talk about feelings much). so how do you think his scorpio venus manifests (besides being sexy)? is he really revealing about his feelings one moment and secretive the next kinda thing? oh i also wanted to ask you.. it's just a vibe.. but was he really shy at first, but then once you were in bed, quite demonstrative (like, that's where he can open up)?

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posted June 02, 2008 03:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny you should mention it, but come to think about it, he was shy at first then really did open up in bed. It is where he's the most demonstrative. Unfortunately, though, he's stopped being affectionate for other reasons-in another thread. I feel like he's my soulmate but he's 9 years younger than me. Now I guess I just have to give him time to make up his mind. He just doesn't talk about his feelings, it's more of an intuitive vibe between us or it was, til he cut me off. He also vacillates or he used to. Anyways, I'm giving him time, what more can I do?

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posted June 03, 2008 06:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dont ever I mean ever double cross a manw ith scorpio in venus he is likely to feel betrayed easily walk on egg shells with this one he has intense love emotions..

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heart cakes
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posted June 04, 2008 02:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks tifavirgo and victoriasgirl! these guys sound INTENSE. kinda like brooding types, like from some old movie. but outwardly quiet. kind of exciting really. he's a libra rising and sag sun, so that should lighten things up, and cap moon, so that adds some stability.

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posted June 04, 2008 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just be careful about some of these venus in Scorpio types. I've dated five guys (not simultaneously!) with this placement and their loyalty was very fleeting. But then again, these guys were Sag and Libra suns, so maybe that had something to do with it...

Remember, Scorpio is the sign of extremes, so I'm sure you'll find some scorp venuses out there who are fiercely loyal, devoted, passionate, loving, etc. However, they can fall at the other extreme-- lie, cheat, and seek revenge if you try to break up with them or won't let them sleep with every woman with a pulse. Scorp venuses can be the highest or the lowest.


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