posted May 26, 2008 12:47 PM         

Can someone tell me why I love this man so much? I barely know him, but I can't get him out of my mind. We are still in touch and see eachother from time to time.
When we are together, I can sense a strong chemistry between us, and he tells me he wants a relationship with me, but then after the date, I don't hear from him for days, sometimes weeks.

He has an AQUA MOON, and I've read from various threads that they tend to "disappear". I always feel like it's 1 step forward, 3 steps back with him. Hot/Cold energy all the time. Because of this, and my pride.....I refuse to call him or contact him, so I end up waiting for him to contact me which is agony.

I can't get him out of my thoughts. It's like I can "feel" him. When I look at him, I just feel like I love him. But I don't know how he feels about me. One minute I think he's into me, the next, I feel like he's forgotten all about me, and that I mean nothing to him. This is the Scorpio man from the previous thread that I posted. I've lost so many nights of sleep over this. I'm not a player, so I can't play these games anymore.

Could someone please take a look at our charts and tell me if there is any real potential here? Could he have genuine feelings for me, or am I just wasting my time waiting for someone who can never love me back?

My chart:
http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/Gem%20natal%20chart/Gem_Gem_Gem-natalchart.gif

His chart:
I don't knowhis birthtime, so I just did noon.
http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/K%20chart/Kchart.gif

Here is the composite:
http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/composite/composite.gif

Sorry, for the links. I have tried to post real images, but it never seems to work.
Any input would be so greatly appreciated.

posted May 26, 2008 07:46 PM         

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posted May 26, 2008 09:34 PM         

So since Neptune is so close to our composite venus, that rules illusions right? Which basically means my feelings of being on cloud 9 and in love with him may just be illusions, not founded on anything solid or real? I guess that could be the case, since I barely know him. I could be projecting my dream of who I hope he is onto him, and have fallen in love with the idea and not so much the man. That is definitely something to think about. Thank you Belgz.

I would like to get to know him better, to see if who I think he is, is truly who is he is, but it's difficult when he is so hot and cold, and elusive.

ErickaF, so you've had experiences with an Aqua moon? Do they not call because they are just not into the person, or some other wierd reason? The thing is he'll call, but sometimes it'll be a week later, sometimes a few weeks. He won't ask me out EVER. But if I text him, and ask if he wants to meet, he texts back in a matter of seconds and jumps on the chance, even if it's last minute! So unpredictable...are they just like this with everyone?

posted May 27, 2008 07:10 AM         

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ASC: Virgo

posted May 27, 2008 07:21 AM         

i have aqua moon and the truth is that if i'm not interested i don't respond - even in friendships. my husband has aqua moon too and he's the same with people.

posted May 27, 2008 08:29 AM         

As you may be aware that I am in the exact position as you except that our roles are swapped. a gem lady is giving me confusing signs and i dunno what to do.

Anyway.. i don't know much about aspects interpretation so i would just describe how i would react in this situation. i'm a scorp sun/ leo moon / libra venus.

if i am interested in a person, i would go all out and make my presence felt. i would take the initiative to ask the person out instead of the other way round. no head games for me. could be due to my venus in libra.

if i am not interested in the person or if i am still keeping my options open i would take my time and suss the person out or simply at the same time sussing other potentials out there. i would ask the person out only when there're no other "better options". simply put - going out as platonic friends only.

posted May 27, 2008 10:24 AM         

I guess it was wishful thinking to hope that this guy was really into me, but just being elusive. haha. Maybe it's neptune putting the veil over my judgement, causing me to hide away in my own little fantasy world. Or maybe it's just me not wanting to accept the truth. "He's just not that into me!" haha.

Astroscorp, good luck with your Gemini lady! Sorry for all the confusing, mixed signals she may be giving you. Me being a triple Gemini, I know that is a signature trait, which can be frustrating! With me, I can like a guy a lot, and still give him mixed signals just for the hell of it, cause sometimes it's more fun to keep people guessing. One example of a game I love to play is I will tell a guy I want to be "just friends", even if inside I want more, to see if he'll try to win me over.
This is what I did with Mr. Scorpio and it backfired, so I think I'll be more cautious with that one.

If you ask her out, and she is giving you the run around, she is not interested. But if she is still agreeing to go out with you from time to time, she likes you, because we Gems will not waste even one minute of our day with someone just to fill time. We've got things to do and other people to see. haha.

posted May 27, 2008 11:11 AM         

Thanks for the heads up in dealing with gem ladies again. I seriously need some pointers cuz i am the verge of giving up.. lol! Could I ask for your opinion? - if she gave me the reasons (i did not ask for it) on why she was busy to meet up with me over the wkend - does that mean she is not interested? Shld i even try to ask her out again?

You said "

With me, I can like a guy a lot, and still give him mixed signals just for the hell of it, cause sometimes it's more fun to keep people guessing. One example of a game I love to play is I will tell a guy I want to be "just friends", even if inside I want more, to see if he'll try to win me over.

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Sorry if I may offend you here but I do hate it if the person i'm interested in is playing head games with me cuz I find it a total waste of time. I find it mentally tiring to constantly "challenge" myself in trying to "achieve" the impossible since the other party just wanna be friends. I would just walk away. Unless its really worth the effort than I might just take up the challenge. But thats just me.

Do all gems love to be chased this way?

posted May 27, 2008 12:14 PM         

Regarding your Gemini, if she volunteered a valid reason why she could not go out with you over the weekend, she probably was making a point to tell you that she is not turning you down because she doesn't want to go out with you, but because she really had made previous plans. If I don't like a guy and he asks me out, I just tell him I'm busy. I would not bother giving him an explanation.

Since she gave you an explanation, I think you should ask her out again. (but give it a little time before calling her again. Don't seem too eager.) Next time, have a place or activity in mind when you ask her, so you can be specific. Pick someplace fun and social. On the date, just be light and cool, even a little detached. I would stay away from any intensity or seriousness until you get to know eachother better. It may scare her away. Play cool!

Thanks for your advice with my Scorpio. On our first date, he told me he liked me and wanted to have "more" with me. He even asked me not to date anyone else, but I liked him so much I freaked out and told him I just wanted to be friends and said we weren't right for eachother. Yes, I am stupid and all backwards in my thought process.

Geminis should come with a warning sign. "Confusion ahead!"

posted May 27, 2008 12:37 PM         

For me - I will respect the decision and I will just walk away.

posted May 28, 2008 09:15 AM         

I think it's just time to move on. There are just some things I wish I could've said and done differently to show him that I actually care, even though it may not have affected the outcome.

We Gemini's may seem all detached and shallow on the outside, but when we really care about someone, we feel very deeply!
I hope you get to feel that depth from your Gemini girl!