posted May 31, 2008 10:43 AM         

after reading that quote of IQ in the other thread, how you will have exact aspects with your true soulmate, I thought it could be interesting to have a look at some synastries for exact (0°00 - 1°00) conjunctions and oppositions in tropical and Draco synastry.

I`ll make a start with that strangely intense synastry with Jude Law:

His Sun conjunct my Isis
His Sun conjunct my Osiris
his Venus opposite my Kaali
his Jupiter opposite my Saturn
his Saturn conjunct my Karma
his Neptune ocnjunct my Mars
his Neptune conjunct my ASC
his Pluto conjunct my MC
his SN conjunct my Saturn
his ASC conjunct my Neptune
his ASC conjunct my NN
his MC conjunct my Pluto
his VAlentine opposite my Venus
his Juno conjunct my Amor
his Kaali conjunct my Isis
his Amor conjunct my Psyche (1°06)

his Sun opposite my dr Juno
his Moon opposite my dr Isis
his Moon oposite my dr Osiris
his dr Jupiter conjunct my dr Neptune
his dr Uranus conjunct my Venus
his dr Uranus opposite my dr Juno
his Neptune opposite my dr Moon
his Vertex conjunct my dr IC
his dr Chiron opposite my Sun
his dr Chiron opposite my Mercury
his VAlentine conjunct my dr Juno
his dr Isis opposite my dr Venus (0.00 )
his dr Osiris opopsite my Juno
his dr Osiris opposite my dr Valentine
his dr Kaali conjunct my dr Amor
his Siva opposite my dr Chiron
his dr Eros opposite my Amor
his Psyche conjunct my dr Vertex
his Psyche conjunct my dr Eros (0°01 )
his dr Psyche conjunct my dr MC
his dr Amor opposite my dr Saturn

(this synastric interplay never ceases to surprise me; no wonder I take his behaviour so personal. LOL)

The exact synastric conjunctions and oppositions with the singer I met last week:

his Sun conjunct my Sun
his Mercury conjunct my NEptune
his Mercury conjunct my NN
his Mars opposite my Jupiter
his Jupiter opposite my Jupiter
his Isis opposite my Neptune
his Isis conjunct my SN
his Osiris conjunct my IC
his Kaali conjunct my ASC
his Psyche conjunct my Psyche

his dr Sun conjunct my dr IC
his dr Mercury opposite my Isis
his dr Mercury opposite my Osiris
his Venus conjunct my dr MC
his dr Venus opposite my Psyche
his dr Mars opposite my Pluto
his dr Jupiter opposite my Pluto
his Saturn opposite my dr Mars
his Saturn conjunct my dr DC
his dr Saturn conjunct my dr Venus
his Vertex conjunct my dr DC
his dr Vertex conjunct my dr Venus
his dr Chiron conjunct my ASC (1°12)
his Karma conjunct my dr Kaali
his dr Karma opposite my Uranus
his dr Isis conjunct my Isis
his dr Isis conjunct my Osiris
his Osiris opposite my dr Karma
his Kaali opposite my dr Moon
his dr Kaali opopsite my Venus
his Siva conjunct my dr Pluto
his dr Eros conjunct my dr Karma

I`m curious to know what exact aspects do you have and do they give an accurate picture of your relationships or feelings?

posted May 31, 2008 01:37 PM         

When l have finished, hopefully by tonight l will list them!

You have some GREAT aspects

Kaali conjunct AC - WOW
Kaali opposing venus

posted May 31, 2008 02:36 PM         

that is really a funny coincidence that both of us were thinking about the same thread.

And jip, it seems this Kaali-Venus aspects appears often in my synastries.
In the one I mentioned first there is actually a Double whammy of Kaali - Venus (conjunction and opposition) in the tropical zodiac; however since his Kaali is conjunct my Venus with 2° orb, I didn`t include it into the list. But it surely is interesting, since it connects to the exact Kaali-Isis-double whammy.

In the second case the draconic aspects seem to be stronger than the tropical ones (even though a 2,5° Moon-Sun-conjunction in tropical isn`t a reason for contempt, is it? ).

posted May 31, 2008 04:10 PM         

his Sun conjunct her Siva
his Sun opposite her dr Uranus
His Moon opposite her dr Saturn
his Mars conjunct her Saturn
his Mars conjunct her dr Venus
his Saturn conjunct her Venus
his dr Saturn conjunct her SN
his SN conjunct her dr Venus
his ASC conjunct her Venus
his dr DSC conjunct her NN
his IC conjunct her Juno
his Antivertex conjunct her Psyche
his dr Valentine opposite her Uranus
his Juno opposite her Eros
his Juno conjunct her dr Mars
his Juno opposit eher dr Kaali
his dr Juno opposite her dr Psyche
his dr Isis conjunct her Uranus
his Osiris oppsoite her Isis
his Osiris opposite her Karma
his Kaali conjunct her Isis
his dr Siva conjunct her Karma
(his Eros opposite her Psyche)
his dr Eros opposite her mars
his Psyche conjunct her NN
his dr Psyche conjunct her Amor

They do have some strong aspects, me Mum and Dad, don`t they?

posted May 31, 2008 04:10 PM         

NATAL-NATAL

My Part of marriage Conjunct his vertex
His part of marriage Conjunct my cupido

My karma conjunct his Aphrodite
His karma conjunct my Aphrodite

My karma opposing my sun
His karma opposing his natal moon
His mars conjunct my P of F
His Saturn conjunct my mars
His Pluto conjunct my Uranus
His ceres conjunct my sun
His ceres oppose my juno
His valentine conjunct my Uranus
His armor opposes my cupido
His armor conjunct my juno
His venus conjunct my eros ****
His Aphrodite conjunct my juno
His armor conjunct my Aphrodite
his AC opposes my Lilith
his isis opposes my NN ****

his ceres opposes my karma
his karma opposes my ceres

OTHER RELEVANT ASPECTS
My utopia conjunct his karma (2)
His utopia conjunct my karma (3)

His sun trine my MC (0)
My sun square his MC (0)

His mars conjunct my Saturn (0)
My mars trine his Saturn (1)

His AC square my Neptune (1)
My AC conjunct his Neptune (1)

His karma conjunct my Aphrodite (1) ****
My karma conjunct his aphrodite (1) ****
His valentine trine my AC (2) ****
My valentine trine his AC (1) ****
his cupido opposes my eros (1)
his eros square my Chiron (0)
his Neptune conjunct my Neptune (1)
his karma square my pluto (0)
his vesta square my valentine (0)
his Pluto square my karma (0)
his isis opposes my NN (1) ****
His Karma square my Pluto (1)
My karma trine his vertex (1)
my part of marriage Trine his Aphrodite (2) ****
My Aphrodite opposing his moon (1)
His Aphrodite opposing his sun (1)
His sun trine my NN (0)
His moon trine my NN (0)
His Saturn trine my sun (1)
His Saturn trine my moon (1)
His moon quincunx my AC (0)
My moon quincunx his MC (0)
His eros trine my psyche (1.5) ****

DRACO-DRACO SYNASTRY
my venus conjunct his IC (0')

his venus conjunct my IC (1')

my valentine square his IC exact

his valentine square his IC 3deg

my mars opposes his venus (0) ****
my isis opposes his venus (0) ****
my MC opposes his venus (0)
my Chiron opposes his mars (0)
my mars opposes his Uranus (0)
my Saturn conjunct his NN (0)
my NN conjunct his NN (0)
my Neptune opposes his Chiron (0)
my moon conjunct his pallas (0)
my venus opposes his MC (0)
my AC opposes his armor (0)
my Aphrodite opposes his Aphrodite (0) ****
my mars conjunct his cupido (0)
my P of F opposes his eros (0)
my valentine conjunct his psyche (0) ****

OTHER INTERESTING ASPECTS-
my sun square his moon (1)
my juno square his moon (0)
His Osiris square my Neptune (0)
my sun square his karma (0)
my karma square his karma (0) ****
my moon opposes his MC (1)
my valentine square his MC (0)
my psyche square his eros (1) ****
my venus square his psyche (0) ****

DRACO-NATAL
My Dr moon conjunct his N cupido (0)
My dr ceres conjunct his N Chiron (0)
My Dr moon opposes his N venus (0)
My Dr moon opposes his N Uranus (0)
My Dr mars opposes his N Osiris (0)
My Dr Neptune conjunct his N Aphrodite (0) ****
My Dr lillith opposes his N Aphrodite (0)
My Dr ceres opposes his N Chiron (0)
My Dr isis opposes his N Osiris (0) ****
My Dr osiris opposes his N pluto (0)
My Dr psyche conjunct his N Jupiter (0)
My Dr eros conjunct his N mercury (0)
Mr Dr Uranus conjunct his N MC (0)

His Dr mercury opposes my N Osiris (0)
His Dr Jupiter conjunct my N Neptune (0)
His Dr Saturn conjunct my N Aphrodite (0)
His Dr Pluto opposes my N venus (0)
His Dr NN conjunct my N chiron (0)
His Dr Chiron conjunct my N sun (0)
His Dr Chiron opposes my N karma (0)
His Dr part of fortune conjunct my N venus (0)
His Dr isis conjunct my N psyche (0)
His Dr kaali opposes my N siva (0) ****
His Dr valentine opposes my N valentine (0) ****
His Dr isis conjunct my N psyche (0)
His Dr MC conjunct my N eros (0)

I didn't bother looking at any other draco.natal aspects as ran out of steam LOL!!!!
Makes me dizzy to look at these charts cos sometimes l can't believe my eyes, literally

I think the greatest of them all is the
composite valentine is conjunct composite AC (1) but l haven't done the composite here hehe

What do you think, DD? Would it impress even IQHUNK? lol

posted May 31, 2008 04:41 PM         

oK,i´ve contemplated the following asteroids:

Valentine
Amor
Karma
Eros
Psyche
Osiris
Eros
Destinn
Union

OPOSITIONS AND CONJUNCTIONS(WHEN more than 1ºorn it´s indicated the degrees)

NATAL TO NATAL

hIS SUN conj my AC EXACT -loveee this one!
His MOON conj my LILITH
His MARS sextile my AC EXACT
His MARS kikunks my MC
His NN conj my EROS 2º...
hIS lilith EXACT opose my EROS
His JUNO exact opose my ISIS
His DESTINN conj my VX - 2º...
His ISIS conj my IC exact
His OSIRIS conj my IC 1º
His KARMA CONJ my JUNO/OSIRIS 3º...love this too even if it´s 3ºdegree
His PSYCHE conj my AntiVERTEX 3º...
His AMOR opose my AMOR exact
His AC conj my UNION/dESTINN EXACT

There are however these sextiles i adore:

His Valentine exact sextile my VX/KARMA!wE HAVE A dw ON karma/valentine...

DRACO TO DRACO

His DR SUN opose my D Amor 3º...
His DR MOON opose my D Destinn 2º...
His DR VENUS conj my DR SUN 2º..
HIS DR MARS conj my DR PSYCHE 1º
HIS DR SATURN conj my DR ASC EXACT
HIS DR SATURN conj my DR JONNHY 2º..didnt resisted on this one...
HIS DR kiron conj my DR OSIRIS 1º
HIS DR destinn opose my DR MERC
HIS DR AMOR conj my DR VENUS 1º

DRACO TO NATAL

His DR SUN conj my ISIS 2º..
His DR SUN opose my NEPTUNE exact
His DR MARS conj mY VENUS 1º
His DR VALENTINE opose my SUN 1º - MY DR SUN CONJ HIS VALENTINE - DW!!
His DR SATURN conj my EROS 2º...
His DR KIRON exact conj my LILITH..
His DR VX conj my SUN 1º6´
His DR DESTINN conj my MC - MY DESTINN conj his AC axix 0º-DW?
His DR AMOR conj my NEPTUNE exact

MY DR SUN conj his VALENTINE 1º
my DR sun OPOSE his VX 2º
my DR MERC conj his NN 0º
my DR VENUS opose his MARS 1º - DW!!
my DR. NEPTUNE conj his SUN 0º
my DR. DESTINN conh his KARMA 1º
my DR UNION conj his KARMA 0º - EXACT
My DR ISIS opose his SUN 2º...
MY DR OSIRIS conj his MOON 2º...
My DR EROS conj his SATURN 2º
MY DR AMOR conj his neptune EXACT - DW

MY DRACO IC conj his IC in 1ºorb!!

i liked most the DW of

VALENTINE-SUN
VENUS-MARS
DESTINY - AxisIC/MD or AC/DC
ISIS-SUN (here we have his isis/osiris trine exact my sun also)

posted May 31, 2008 04:55 PM         

Those aspects of your list were the ones that stood out to me.

My karma conjunct his Aphrodite
His karma conjunct my Aphrodite
- a dw on Karma - Aphrodite? You must suffer from seriously weak knees and heartflutter.

His armor conjunct my juno
I know this one.

His venus conjunct my eros
Delicious.

His armor conjunct my Aphrodite
Definitely a nice one.

his isis opposes my NN
Interestingly I share this with the singer, too. His Isis exactly conjunct my SN. MMh, I don`t really dare to interprete it in my case.
But in your case maybe it means that you have been his most beloved wife in a previous life?

his ceres opposes my karma
his karma opposes my ceres
- another DW with Karma. Phew. Not only you have the attraction but also the caring.

His sun trine my MC (0)
My sun square his MC (0)
- I definitely think MC_aspects are important, since it is also a fast moving angle.

His mars conjunct my Saturn (0)
My mars trine his Saturn (1)
- a stabilizing double whammy

His AC square my Neptune (1)
My AC conjunct his Neptune (1)
Oho, I know this one from my own synastry with Jude Law. So, I don`t REALLY know this one. lol

s valentine trine my AC (2) ****
My valentine trine his AC (1) ****
You know how much I love this one. True love for eacch other.

his karma square my pluto (0)
his Pluto square my karma (0)
That looks intense. SEeing that it is a square-aspect. Maybe you experienced some real hardships in a previous life. Not just by being separated, but maybe by being suppressed and forced to live apart, maybe even participating in a war or something like that. At least violence, manipulation and oppressive power that is beyond your control is always an option in challenging Pluto-aspects methinks.

His eros trine my psyche (1.5) ****
Me likey.

posted May 31, 2008 04:56 PM         

my mars opposes his venus (0) ****
Strong sexual chemistry.

my isis opposes his venus (0) ****
I know this one, too (again from my synastry with Jude Law).

my Saturn conjunct his NN (0)
my NN conjunct his NN (0)
Works like glue? Sharing the same path?

my valentine conjunct his psyche (0) ****
soulfelt love

my moon opposes his MC (1)
Means your moon conjuncts his IC. More deeply felt intimacy.

My Dr moon opposes his N venus (0)
Always feels good and soft and tender (and another aspect I know from my own synastry with you know who, as his n moon opposes my dr Venus *sighs*)

My Dr isis opposes his N Osiris (0) ****
Isis and Osiris - true soulmates. no more words needed I guess.

My Dr osiris opposes his N pluto (0)
OH and add some more intensity to it.

His Dr Pluto opposes my N venus (0)
Another Twin-soul aspect. Passion and desire. But never without pain. At least that is my interpretation. Venus-pluto or even more so VAlentine-Pluto hits you so deep inside, that the sheer intensity of the emotional impact borders to being painful, and sometimes crosses this border.

His Dr Chiron conjunct my N sun (0)
His Dr Chiron opposes my N karma (0)
There will be wounds and healing at the same time.

His Dr kaali opposes my N siva (0) ****
Ever tried Tantra? Why don`t you talk to Venus de India about this?

His Dr valentine opposes my N valentine (0)
There is a vibration of true love I guess.

His Dr MC conjunct my N eros (0)
I hope you don`t work with each other, or otherwise you could distract him quite much from his work and lead his thoughts into a strictly non-professional direction.

posted May 31, 2008 05:48 PM         

My karma conjunct his Aphrodite
His karma conjunct my Aphrodite
- a dw on Karma - Aphrodite? You must suffer from seriously weak knees and heartflutter.

YUP. HERE IS OUR SYNASTRY CHART SO YOU CAN SEE FOR YOURSELF

his isis opposes my NN
Interestingly I share this with the singer, too. His Isis exactly conjunct my SN. MMh, I don`t really dare to interprete it in my case.
But in your case maybe it means that you have been his most beloved wife in a previous life?

IQHUNK SAYS THIS ABOUT IT - "For a bright future together, there has to be at least one NNode aspect to Isis, Osiris, Valentine or Karma. Double whammies are guaranteed happiness"

his ceres opposes my karma
his karma opposes my ceres
- another DW with Karma. Phew. Not only you have the attraction but also the caring.

YOU ARE RIGHT! THERE IS A LOT OF CARING IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. IT'S VERY REFRESHING.

posted May 31, 2008 05:51 PM         

His mars conjunct my Saturn (0)
My mars trine his Saturn (1)
- a stabilizing double whammy

His AC square my Neptune (1)
My AC conjunct his Neptune (1)
Oho, I know this one from my own synastry with Jude Law. So, I don`t REALLY know this one. lol

LOL!!!!! NEPTUNE PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN OUR SYNASTRY - AS YOU POINTED OUT BEFORE TO ME.

s valentine trine my AC (2) ****
My valentine trine his AC (1) ****
You know how much I love this one. True love for eacch other.

THIS IS THE ONE THAT IQ WOULD LOVE... I REMEMBERED
AMAZING TO HAVE IT AS A DW

his karma square my pluto (0)
his Pluto square my karma (0)
That looks intense. SEeing that it is a square-aspect. Maybe you experienced some real hardships in a previous life. Not just by being separated, but maybe by being suppressed and forced to live apart, maybe even participating in a war or something like that. At least violence, manipulation and oppressive power that is beyond your control is always an option in challenging Pluto-aspects methinks.

GOSH, HOW INTERESTING, CONSIDERING WE ARE FORCED TO LIVE APART RIGHT NOW!

His eros trine my psyche (1.5) ****
Me likey.

YES, THIS ONE IS DELICIOUS TOO, ESPECIALLY AS MY EROS CONJUNCTS HIS VENUS EXACT TOO

posted May 31, 2008 05:52 PM         

I WONDER IF THIS MEANS LOVE IN THE HOME TOO? I NEED SOME OF THAT LOL

my mars opposes his venus (0) ****
Strong sexual chemistry.

PHORRR. IT IS STRONG BUT THANK GOODNESS NOT OBSESSIVE LIKE VENUS/PLUTO

my isis opposes his venus (0) ****
I know this one, too (again from my synastry with Jude Law).

my Saturn conjunct his NN (0)
my NN conjunct his NN (0)
Works like glue? Sharing the same path?

YES, POSSIBLY. INTERESTINGLY, WE HAVE SIMILAR CAREERS TOO.

my valentine conjunct his psyche (0) ****
soulfelt love

YUMMY.

my moon opposes his MC (1)
Means your moon conjuncts his IC. More deeply felt intimacy.

TO GO WITH THE VENUS ON IC DW'S... I THINK ONCE L LIVE CLOSE TO HIM THE INTIMACY OF THESE ASPECTS WILL BEGIN TO SHOW MORE, AS IT WILL BE SAFER.

My Dr moon opposes his N venus (0)
Always feels good and soft and tender (and another aspect I know from my own synastry with you know who, as his n moon opposes my dr Venus *sighs*)

*SIGH FOR YOU*

My Dr isis opposes his N Osiris (0) ****
Isis and Osiris - true soulmates. no more words needed I guess.

WOW - REALLY? I NEVER REALISED THAT!

My Dr osiris opposes his N pluto (0)
OH and add some more intensity to it.

His Dr Pluto opposes my N venus (0)
Another Twin-soul aspect. Passion and desire. But never without pain. At least that is my interpretation. Venus-pluto or even more so VAlentine-Pluto hits you so deep inside, that the sheer intensity of the emotional impact borders to being painful, and sometimes crosses this border.

YES, IT IS PAINFUL SOMETIMES. ITS A GIVING LOVE WITH A LOT OF FORGIVENESS AND KNOWING BUT SOMETIMES THERE IS PAIN. MOSTLY THE PAIN OF NOT BEING ABLE TO BE TOGETHER YET PAINFUL TO PULL APART/AWAY.

EVERY TIME I LEAVE HIM FROM VISITING IT IS PAINFUL AT A DEEP LEVEL.

His Dr Chiron conjunct my N sun (0)
His Dr Chiron opposes my N karma (0)
There will be wounds and healing at the same time.

His Dr kaali opposes my N siva (0) ****
Ever tried Tantra? Why don`t you talk to Venus de India about this?

NO, WHAT IS TANTRA? LIKE TANTRIC SEX? LOL

His Dr valentine opposes my N valentine (0)
There is a vibration of true love I guess.

YES. VALENTINE/VALENTINE AND VALENTINE/AC IN DW AND THEN VALENTINE CONJUNCT AC IN COMPOSITE.
LOTS OF VALENTINE LOL

His Dr MC conjunct my N eros (0)
I hope you don`t work with each other, or otherwise you could distract him quite much from his work and lead his thoughts into a strictly non-professional direction.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA ACTUALLY IT IS TRUE... I EASILY DISTRACT HIM LOL

X

posted June 01, 2008 05:49 AM         

hmm, I didn`t look at Destinn and Union yet, did I?

With that singer:

his Union conjunct my Union (0°22)
his Union opposite my dr Isis
his dr Union opposite my Valentine

his Destinn conjunct my MC
his Destinn conjunct my dr Karma
my Destinn opposite his Venus (2,5 - couldn`t resist this one )
my Destinn conjunct his dr Sun (2,5 - couldn`t resist this one either)

Nice.

To make the list complete I`ve also looked at union and Destinn in the first mentioned synastry:

his dr Union opposes my Valentine
my Union conjunct his Moon (but with almost 2°)
my dr Union conjunct his dr Neptune

his Destinn opposes my Saturn
his dr Destinn conjunct my dr Neptune
(as if I needed some more Neptune *Sigh*)
my Destinn conjunct his Vertex
my Destinn opposes his dr Psyche

posted June 01, 2008 07:02 AM         

his destinn square my moon (1)
his destin square my venus (1)

his union sextile my AC (0)
my union conjunct his saturn (0)

His Dr destinn trine my Dr mercury (0)

My Dr destinn conjunct his Dr neptune (0)
Mr Dr union opposes his Dr uranus (0)

my Dr destinn conjunct his N valentine (0)
My Dr union conjunct his N osiris (0)
my Dr union opposes his N valentine (1)

posted June 01, 2008 11:15 AM         

yUP I THOUGHT THAT THOSE 2 ASTEROIDS were important to look at cause

Destinn - obviously implicates some sort of Fate,karma,sth which is destined

Union - this one has to do with marriage business also

So,as it figures quite strongly in me and my bf´s sinastry,i posted it also.

posted June 01, 2008 11:39 AM         

We have MISSED you
Congratulations on your new job that l know you were excited to get! I wish you ALL the VERY best with it.

"wow lara, u really do have a soiulmate
i pray it goes well, when do u'll plan to live together ?"

This is an interesting question. It depends on me renting/selling my home in UK and moving! Then it depends on whether my Uranus in 1st and 7th H ruler combined with his venus/uranus conjunct can handle living together

He has never lived with a woman before... he has had long relationships but he always went between his and his g/f apt's. I, on the otherhand have always lived with my ex's.

It's hard to tell what will happen - only thing l know is, it's going to happen!!! It's too powerful and wonderful not to, you know?

The valentine/AC DW's and the karma/aphrodite DW's will hold us as one l guess.

posted June 07, 2008 03:01 AM         

The criteria:
1). only 0º opp's and conj's
2). natal-natal, draconic-draconic, & draconic-natal charts
3). for asteroids, I included Chiron, Juno, Karma, Valentine, Amor, Eros & Psyche, Kaali & Siva, Isis & Osiris

Our most frequently aspected planet is Jupiter, closely followed by Juno.

Jupiter makes sense, both in the sense that it inspires expansion and optimism (describes our approach to the relationship), and also in the sense that our relationship has an adoring, accepting, and fun-loving tone to it (describes our approach to each other). I think we're pretty damn lucky to have the Greater Benefic as a major influence. Lord knows we need all the help we can get.

I had already realized Juno plays a big role in our synastry. This also describes us well. Very well. In fact, for a while now I've suspected that we have past life karma together dealing with Juno issues.

Besides a 6 month separation a few years ago, we've been exclusive for over 6 years, so I'm pretty sure Magi's view of Juno being about casual sex is way off. Or maybe he has a secret life I know nothing about. In which case I'd be very hurt that he has never invited me to watch. I think Juno is about (among other things) trust/betrayal issues, equal partnership, and commitment. Those issues are dominant in our relationship. Juno has a Taurus/Scorpio feel to me, and we have those signs and corresponding houses strong in our natals and composite. We also both have relatively significant Juno's natally, and have it significantly placed in our composite.

Juno is passionate and intense emotionally, so I'm glad we also have Jupiter to lighten things up.

Our next most frequently aspected is Kaali.

(Edit: Apparently I don't know how to count. I rechecked & I see that I accidently counted a set of Jupiter aspects twice. So Jupiter actually has the 3rd most aspects, following Juno in 1st and Kaali in 2nd.)

Some specific conj's/opp's I found especially fitting are:

Venus - Chiron
Venus - IC
Valentine - Sun
Eros - AC
Eros - SN
Eros - Karma
Karma - Karma
Juno - Jupiter
Juno - Mars

I was interested to see if the volume and type of aspects would differ depending on the type of relationship. So I also looked at the synastry between me and my sister.

My SO and I have almost twice as many aspects as my sister and I have.

Karma and Amor are what's most aspected between me and my sister. I think this makes sense for a family relationship since neither of those are specific to a romantic relationship. I've seen Amor described as being about unconditional love. More agape than erotic. It's a very different energy from Juno and Kaali. So the contrast between our synastries reinforced my belief in astrology since the aspected planets do reflect the type of relationship.