posted June 02, 2008 10:16 AM         

I'm not saying they become most important of all aspects, but we should take extra care in looking at aspects to our ruling planets in synastries. Like, Caps would benefit from strong positive aspects to their natal Saturn placement.

I mean, all placements in our charts are important but synastry aspects to our rulers should be given much importance, probably as much importance as Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars.

Do you guys think its safe to say this?

posted June 02, 2008 12:18 PM         

I do think they are important.

posted June 02, 2008 02:16 PM         

definitely, in most cases sizzling attraction. Just picture a Venus-Mars-opposition.

posted June 02, 2008 02:17 PM         

Where I live is his Venus Descendant line and I'm a Gem riser...

posted June 02, 2008 02:19 PM         

So AC/AC AC/DC and DC/DC aspects are good. Is that correct?

posted June 02, 2008 02:22 PM         

WOW! He seems to be exactly what you need. I bet you couldn`t help but feel attracted, and probably Pluto just intensifies this.

posted June 02, 2008 02:59 PM         

We met in Jan of 2007 and it wasn't an instant attraction for me. He sort of "knew" something from the start. July of last year we started to correspond via email regularly and talk on the phone. He came out to visit my daughter and I a few times. He went away in October and realized that he missed me a lot - then chased after me for almost two months trying to go out with me.

Things didn't happen till after one of his Xmas parties when he invited me out to the town he lives in. Since he lives in staff accom he paid for a room at the hotel and told me not to worry. (It has been very hard for me to even enter into a relationship cause I was so anti-relationship and quite enjoyed being successfully single. I would even brag about it too )

He asked me out the day after the party and that REALLY scared the crap out of me and now I'm very happy and content in my relationship with him.

Go the WOW synastry reading done and it wasn't too great. The name synastry is awesome! - our chemistry together is wonderful and it's like we're 2 peas in a pod.

Over the past 5 months we have both grown - I've seen him bloom alot in one area that has us both blown away......

posted June 02, 2008 03:02 PM         

Like a Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and Saturn, the planets of rebellion, spontineity, and maturity (amongst other things). So Aquas would naturally be drawn to people that are "different." And synastry contacts to their natal Uranus and Saturn should be highlighted.

I guess this only works if your Sun sign ruler is in good aspect with the rest of your chart.

I think this can be further modified with the addition of Moon sign rulers.

Like for example, my moon sign is in Libra, which is ruled by Venus. So now, aspects to my moon from another person's Venus are highlighted, moreso than other contacts to my moon from other planets.

I will say what I'm saying probably isnt definite for everyone, but I know its true for me. Maybe its different for each sun sign?

posted June 02, 2008 03:05 PM         

his DC ruler semi sextile my chart ruler 1'
my DC ruler conjunct his chart ruler EXACT
lol

posted June 03, 2008 02:56 PM         

I can definitely picture a mars-venus opposition, my ex-husband had a stellium in libra, all the planets were opposing my own stellium in aries... um, tht didn't end too well

I'm currently involved in a non-relationship his Uranus, ruler of the Dsc is opposed to my venus, sun and mars ( rulers of the asc, dsc, and 11th) ...magnets

I really hate magnets and rollercoaster rides these days