posted June 06, 2008 01:00 AM         

I`d appreciate it a lot if someone could tell me tha I am wrong here.

posted June 06, 2008 09:04 AM         

it`s not about size, but I do think the distance plays a role, because more distant planets are more slowly, and therefore generational.

Since Cupido and Hades are TRANS Neptunians I think we should at least use very close orbs here, too. Of course we always use tight orbs

posted June 06, 2008 09:57 AM         

Well these ones must be generacional :P

Hades conj each ohter
- My Cupid conj his JUNO
- his CUPID conk my SATURN/PLUTO
- his HADES conj my kiron and trine AC

doenst seem to have a lot goin on here...

My D.Hades trine his D MOON
my D HADES trine his D CUPID 3º
MY D HADES trine his Jup and his NN

my D CUPID conj his Sun
my D CUPID TRINE His D Penelope
My D CUPID trine his D AMOR

HIS D HADES conj my D OSIRIS
HIS D HADES trine my NN - dw on this

posted June 06, 2008 03:17 PM         

No seriously, I always had that feeling there was a twin out there.

posted June 06, 2008 08:43 PM         

my chiron is in 8th. I have that monstrous stellium in 8th lol

Check out Regulus on my AC :O

posted June 06, 2008 08:48 PM         

interestingly, my venus/mars midpoint is exact my natal sun and relationships are my number one lesson in life.

posted June 07, 2008 07:48 AM         

Also, dont worry about my chiron on your planets. It seems that I NEED people who remind me of my wound (Chiron) *Sighs*. P has his Sun also conjunct this Chiron.

posted June 07, 2008 07:53 AM         

I have to find a way to be with my man... l think this is the most important relationship of my life.

I wonder if those hades/cupid parallels make up for lack of venus/pluto DW?

posted June 07, 2008 10:19 AM         

His Draco Pluto opposes my natal Venus (1)
his natal Pluto quincunx my natal Venus (4)
OR
his dr Pluto opposes my natal Venus (1)
my Draco Pluto sextile his Draco Venus (0)

posted June 07, 2008 10:24 AM         

quote:

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Sri Aurobindo and the Mother

From time to time, God sends humanity advanced souls who not only teach a better way, but live it as well. So it was with two extraordinary, twin soul avatars, Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, both of whom where in body during the 1900s. From a heavenly realm, they descended into our midst and took on male and female forms to help us in our hour of need.

Sri Aurobindo often said that he and the Mother, who could communicate telepathically with one another, were one soul in two bodies. They came to spread the male (Shiva) and female (Shakti) energy on our planet and serve as an example of service for all future twin souls.

Here are some excerpts from a book titled, Twelve Years with Sri Aurobindo, that will shed some light on this remarkable twin union.

"To both of them, the other's word was law. One of us observed that only two persons have realized and put into practice Sri Aurobindo's Yoga of surrender: the Mother surrendering to surrendering to Sri Aurobindo and Sri Aurobindo to the Mother."

"The two who are one are the secret of all power, the two who are one are the might and right in things."

The Mother has said, "Without him, I exist not; without me he is unmanifest."

"And we were given the unique opportunity of witnessing the dual personality of the One enacting on our earth-plane an immortal drama, rare in the spiritual history of man."

"The two consciousnesses were one so that when Sri Aurobindo met with the accident, the Mother felt at once the vibration in her sleep."

"He followed closely all her outer activities and enveloped her with an aura of protection against the dark forces."

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DD, can u do a check on them...

Mira RICHARD,
born February 21, 1878 at 10:15 AM in Paris (France)
Sun in 2°41 Pisces, AS in 2°45 Gemini,
Moon in 27°52 Libra, MC in 2°44 Aquarius
Numerology: Birthpath 11

Sri AUROBINDO,
born August 15, 1872 at 5:00 AM in Calcutta (Inde)
Sun in 22°23 Leo, AS in 13°30 Leo,
Moon in 27°35 Sagitarius, MC in 11°13 Taurus
Numerology: Birthpath 5

posted June 07, 2008 10:28 AM         

quote:

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The moment your soul was created it possessed male-female, ying-yang polarity and energy. God's love for you made sure that these two complimentary forms of consciousness, the masculine and feminine, would be bound together throughout eternity.

The two halves of one soul have been called twin souls, twin vibrations, twin rays or twin flames. Said another way, you only have one twin aspect of your soul in the entire universe who vibrates at the same frequency of light that you do. This is quite an awesome thought. However, the story is a bit more involved than this simple explanation.

Soon after our souls were created we left the joy and bliss of the Absolute to enter and experience the physical universe, in which we currently find ourselves. Originally we were ONE complete soul, one family, one Being. There was no separation, just complete joy and unspeakable bliss. However, when we left the Absolute to enter our universe of duality and opposites, all of that changed.

The ONE Soul, which was originally whole, began to separate and divide itself into smaller and smaller fragments of Itself over the ages. This occurred so that we could eventually relate to one another as races, nations, and families or as individuals while in the physical universe of opposites.

As the splitting of the ONE occurred, relationships were born. And it is through relationships that we create opportunities to know ourselves, to remember our divine origin, to seek reunion and oneness with one another and eventually return to our Source. The twin relationship plays a very important role in all of this, as part of the divine, cosmic plan.

At the end of the cycle of division, our individual souls made one final and very painful decision. We separated from our twin, the other half of our soul-self, when we lost our way on planet Earth and became physical man and physical woman.

We did this for a reason. As part of the divine plan, separation had to be experienced at all soul levels. This included twins within the same soul, so that we could initially experience and feel what separation was like. Then, when the time was right, we would reverse the entire process and experience the ecstatic joy of reunion.

Over the ages, and throughout our many lifetimes, the experiences and feelings of separation constantly reminded us of our yearning and craving for completion with our Source and with our twin. That inner hunger for wholeness is why we search for romance and relationship. That is why we have families. That also is why we seek God. We are trying to re-create the same oneness we felt in the beginning.

At some magical moment in cosmic time, each of us will reach a point during our personal growth and evolution where separation is no longer the path of choice for us. The signal that would ignite the experience of soul reunion would be our spiritual awakening. In the process, we would also remember and realize that we are divine Beings of Light.

Awakening to our true spiritual nature takes us on a inner journey that leads to the opposite of separation, which is reunion. As you can well imagine, reunion brings with it feelings of love, joy, bliss and ecstasy. At that moment, the soul begins to crave oneness with its Source. Part of this hunger will be satisfied by reunion with our twin. From what I read, this is when the journey home to our Source begins in earnest.

Our spiritual awakening will eventually inspire us to question, and then cause us to discard, the false beliefs we have about traditional relationships, which are primarily ego driven and fear based. We will discover that, in order to have a lasting, fulfilling and meaningful partnership, the positive energy of unconditional love will have to replace the negative influence of the ego.

Once twins begin to think and feel this way they are setting the stage for reunion. And once reunited, the twins will still have to work at their relationship to make it a lasting and rewarding one. Twin reunion by itself does not guarantee happiness. It simply sets the stage for it. Bringing a powerful spiritual awareness and a strong sense of Self into a newfound twin reunion will provide the sustenance and glue for its balance and longevity.

Another very important step prior to reunion is the need for balancing the masculine and feminine energies within each of us. The masculine half has always retained some of the original feminine energy that the soul possesses, while the feminine half still holds onto a part of the masculine essence it once was united with.

Since that time, we have roamed around in this incomplete, unbalanced state of being looking for soul completion. We'll continue to experience life after life and relationship after relationship until we decide we've had enough separation from our other half and want something more fulfilling.

One of the most important things to keep in mind is that it is very easy to fall in love with the "picture" of the twin soul concept and be blinded by all that it promises. That has to be brought into proper focus and balance. Another danger is over-idealizing and hyper-romanticizing your partner and your relationship to the point where you believe you will live happily ever after regardless of what the future brings. That is not true. Depending upon one's level of spiritual development, twin souls can have varying degrees of ego issues just as other partners do.

Over many lifetimes soul mate relationships prepare us for lasting twin reunion. They are a very important part of the process and should be blessed as such. Most often, soul mate unions will last longer and be more rewarding than the electrifying, but often stormy, twin pairings. Twin soulship is a very highly charged partnership and the two must be spiritually ready for it to last. When they are, their union will transcend all others.

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Plato

The twin-soul concept is not new. Plato described it 2,500 years ago. Here is an excerpt...

"and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a moment...

If Hephaestus, son of Zeus, were to ask the pair; 'do you desire to be wholly one, always day and night to be in one another's company? For if this is what you desire, I am ready to melt you into one and let you grow together, so that being two you shall become one, and after your death in the world beyond you will still be one departed soul instead of two - I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire?' - and there is not a man or woman of them who, when they heard the proposal, would not acknowledge that this melting into one another, this becoming one instead of two, was the very expression of their ancient need. And the reason is that human nature was originally one and we were a whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called love."

It seems that when each of us separated into our male and female halves long ago, the soul knew, and still knows, that the rejoining of its incomplete self would inevitably take place. It was part of the divine plan. After that agonizing and painful division occurred, a deep-seated yearning for oneness began to linger within each of us and the desire for reunion and completeness has endured over the ages. Only one other in the entire universe can satisfy it. As a result, we are constantly searching for our twin.

But the desire for completion doesn't stop there. And the soul also realizes this. What the soul really wants is not only reunion with itself through twin half union, but the original feeling of ONEness it had with God at the very beginning of creation. This craving for the original intimacy will not stop until it is fully satisfied. We have as long as we want to make it happen. But it will happen.

It would seem that this desire for oneness must be the foundation upon which all relationships are built. Male-female unions have come into being and have fallen apart for thousands of years. However, if a deep, spiritual union with our Source can be established and maintained, the chances for lasting joy and fulfillment between loving partners becomes more and more of a possibility.

It also makes more sense that our relationships should be based upon spiritual principles rather than man made religious dogmas, which can bring so much fear and guilt into people's lives. In my opinion, it is this lack of spiritual sacredness and blessed oneness that is missing in many of today's relationships, be they marriage or otherwise.

The Sufis

Plato is not the only individual who has given us insights into twin soul relationships. Spiritual writings from the Sufis 800 years ago say that...

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posted June 07, 2008 11:32 AM         

On 1st glance, there are:
no venus/pluto close aspects LOL!!!
no venus/mars aspects
nice sun opposing NN (0)
mars conjunct MC (2)
valentine opposes AC (3) wooohooo hehe!
valentine quincunx AC (1)
DW on valentine like l have! *sigh*
saturn conjunct karma (2)
saturn opposing karma (3)
isis conjunct venus (2)
venus conjunct uranus (2) HA!
mars trine saturn (2)
mercury square MC (1)

interesting... l look forward to hearing DD's take on it to see where the twin soul aspects are

DRACO

venus conjunct mars (0) yummy
sun opposing moon DW but out of orb
NN conjunct NN (0)
valentine trine mars (0)
karma conjunct AC (2)
pluto conjunct MC (0)
pluto trine MC (0) DW ****
pluto trine AC (0)
neptune conjunct sun (0)

posted June 07, 2008 03:01 PM         

his Sun conjunct her SN (orb: 0.00)

his Venus opposes her Sun/Venus-conjunction
his Venus trine her Chiron exactly
his Venus conjunct her Isis

his Saturn conjunct her Karma

his Neptune conjunct her dr Saturn

his Pluto trine her Karma

his NN conjunt her dr Neptune, dr Chiron and dr Amor

his Karma opposes her Saturn and trines her Karma

his Valentine sextiles her Sun and Venus
his Valentine trine her Chiron and Isis
his Valentine opposes her Osiris and dr Pluto

his Amor opposes her dr Moon
his Amor conjunct her dr Chiron, dr Vertex

his Juno opposes her Chiron
his Juno trine her Osiris

his Eros trine her Valentine

his Isis conjunct her Pluto and trine her Karma

his Osiris trine her Pluto

his dr Sun conjunct her dr Neptune and dr Amor exactly

his dr Moon oposes her Kaali

his dr Venus exactly conjuncts her dr Mars and dr Eros! - maybe this one is not sign of twinsouls or soulmates, but it sure promises some hot passion between two persons

his dr Saturn opposes her Neptune and Amor

his dr Neptune conjunct her Valentine

his dr Pluto conjunct her dr Juno and dr Mc

his dr Chiron conjunct her Juno and MC

his dr Karma conjunct her dr AC
his dr Valentien opposite her Kaali

his dr Amor conjunct her dr Valentine

his dr Juno conjunct her SN

his dr Psyche conjunct her dr ASC

his dr Isis conjunct her dr Juno and dr MC

his dr Siva opposes her Sun and Venus

his dr Kaali conjunct her dr IC and opposes her dr Juno

his Vertex conjunct her DC
his dr DC conjunct her dr Vertex

his dr AC conjunct her AC exactly

his dr MC conjunct her Sun and Venus
his dr IC ocnjunct her Isis

his dr Antivertex conjunct her dr Valentine

posted June 07, 2008 03:15 PM         

his dr ASC conjunct her ASC
his dr DC conjunct her dr Moon
his dr DC conjunct hr dr Vertex

her DC conjunct his Vertex
her dr AC conjunct his dr Karma

They don`t have double whammies to the ASC in tropical alone (IQ said that Twinsouls always have dw´s within 2° with the ASC), but if we use draco, too, they have a DW on ASC-Vertex.

I then checked to see if there are aspects between the angles and ruler of the angles, which is a pet theory of mine.

HIs DC ruler conjuncts her IC exactly (like in ALL other cases of assumed celebrity-twinsouls I have analysed!)
his IC ruler opposes her DC-ruler

his ICtuler trines her MC-ruler exactly
his MC ruler opposes her IC-ruler

posted June 07, 2008 04:05 PM         

what impression do you get of this synastry here? (only the most important connections):

- his Sun exactly sextile her Moon, exactly square her Saturn, exactly sextile her Karma and exactly conjunct her dr Sun
- his dr Sun conjuncts her Amor and Valentine

-his dr Moon conjuncts her Venus (and opposes her dr Jupiter and dr Juno)

-his Venus trine her Venus and opposes her dr Saturn
-his dr Venus opposes her Karma and conjuncts her dr Parvati

-his Mars trine her Eros and Vertex exactly and conjuncts her dr Amor
-his dr Mars conjuncts her dr Saturn
his dr saturn opposes her dr Mars

-his Saturn sextile her Neptune and NN exactly and also exactly trines her Pluto
it also trines her DC
his Saturn opposes her dr Chiron
-his dr Saturn opposes her dr Amor
his dr Saturn conjuncts her dr DC

-his Pluto trine her Venus, Isis (exact) and Osiris (exact)
his Pluto squares her NN, Mars and ASC (exact).
- his dr Pluto conjuncts her Chiron
(his dr Pluto conjuncts her dr Venus widely, 4°)

-His Chiron (opposes his own Pluto) squares her NN, Mars and ASC, too, and of course sextiles her Venus, Isis and Osiris
- his dr Chiron opposes her Chiron
his dr Chiron opposes her dr Venus

- his SN conjuncts her Moon

- his Valentine opposes her Valentine
- his dr Valentine conjuncts her Venus, Isis (exact) and Osiris (exact)

- his dr Juno conjuncts her Venus (exact), Isis and Osiris
his dr Juno opposes her dr Juno

-his Amor trines her Saturn (exact) and conjuncts her Juno (exact) and dr Valentine (exact)
-his dr Amor opposes her dr Isis and dr Osiris (exact)

-his Karma trines her Venus, Isis (exact) and Osiris (exact)
His Karma alos opposes her dr Saturn and dr Eros

- his dr Isis conjuncts her dr Sun (exact)

-his Osiris trines her Sun
-his dr Osiris opposes her Pluto

-his Siva conjuncts her dr Siva
-his dr Siva conjuncts her dr Sun (exact)

-his Kaali opposes her Parvati
- his dr Kaali conjuncts her Pluto (exact)

-his Parvati conjuncts her Saturn and Vertex
his Parvati trines her Juno
- his dr Parvati conjuncts her dr Siva

- his Eros conjuncts her IC and trines her Mars, NN and ASC (exact)
his eros opposes her Pluto and dr Karma

-his dr Psyche conjuncts her dr Sun (exact)

Aspects of angles and rulers: (the exact degree of his asc is not known, but the asc-sign is certain):

his ASC-ruler trine her ASC-ruler
his DC ruler exactly trines her ASC
his DC ruler conjuncts her IC
his DC ruler trines her IC-ruler

his IC-ruler trines her ASC exactly
his IC-ruler conjuncts her IC
his ICruler trines her IC-ruler

EDIT:

his Ceres conjunct her DSC
his Vesta conjuncts her DC
his Nada exactly conjunct her ASC
his Angel exactly conjuncts her dr DC
his Lilith conjuncts her dr DC
his Cupido conjuncts her dr DC

his dr Saturn conjuncts her dr DC
his dr Atlantis exactly conjuncts her ASC
his dr Hera conjuncts her ASC
his dr DNA conjuncts her dr ASC
his dr Liebe conjuncts her dr DC

posted June 07, 2008 06:45 PM         

my NN trine his sun exact
my NN trine his moon exact
my pluto square his karma exact
my sun square his mars exact
my mars conjunct his saturn exact
MY VALENTINE TRINE HIS AC 1deg

Then we look up the major asteroids.

((Your Eros/Cupido conj/sextile/trine 
his Psyche/Aphrodite/Juno))

MY EROS TRINE HIS PSYCHE 2deg

MY CUPIDO SEXTILE HIS JUNO 2deg

((Your Valentine conj/sextile/trine
his Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon))

MY VALENTINE TRINE HIS AC 1deg

((His Valentine conj/sextile/trine
your Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon))

HIS VALENTINE TRINE MY ASCENDANT 2.5deg

HIS VALENTINE TRNE MY MOON 2deg

eros trine AC
eros conjunct venus
NN sextile karma
vertex trine pluto
vertex trine karma
AC trine/trine mercury DW
neptune square/conjunct AC DW
valentine sextile saturn
karma sextile NN
karma sextile MC
osiris trine mars
osiris conjunct karma
osiris conjunct juno
My karma conjunct his Aphrodite
His karma conjunct my Aphrodite exact DW
My Aphrodite opposing his moon
His Aphrodite opposing his sun

iQ said that whenever isis/osiris makes tight aspects between and to sun/moon/karma/asc - then it could be soulmate material.

my dr isis opposes his n osiris
my isis contra parallel his osiris
my isis square his sun (1)
my isis conjunct his DC (2)
His Osiris Opposes my sun (2)
his osiris Conjunct karma (2)
his osiris Conjunct my juno (1)

Angle aspects:
his DC trine my vertex
his MC trine my sun
his AC conjunct my Neptune (2)
my AC square his Neptune (1)
her DC ruler trines his DC (1)
my DC ruler conjunct exact his AC ruler
his DC ruler quincunx my AC ruler (1)
my IC ruler conjunct his MC ruler (2)
his IC trine my juno
his dr venus conjunct my IC
my dr venus conjunct his IC
my Aphrodite conjunct his DC
his aphrodite conjunct my IC

DRACO
my venus conjunct his IC (0')

his venus conjunct my IC (1')

my valentine square his IC exact

his valentine square his IC 3deg
my mars opposes his venus (0)
His Draco Pluto opposes my natal Venus (1)
my Draco Pluto sextile his Draco Venus (0)

posted June 07, 2008 11:30 PM         

I left a message for you in the Private Readings forum about your Mom. Please read it if you're still interested.

posted June 08, 2008 02:24 AM         

BTW...
i just saw, my twin has his Siva conjunct my Parvati conjunct his DC...

posted June 08, 2008 05:52 AM         

It's not possible to get this book in UK so l will have to buy it when next in USA - thank you.

OK... so last night l went back through most of IQ's posts.
I will now list what he says shows to be TWINSOUL aspects, using his words and then copying my synastry below.

Firstly, he says the venus/pluto can be ANY aspect.
I found:
MY VENUS TRISEPTILE HIS PLUTO EXACT
HIS PLUTO QUINDECILE HIS VENUS (1)

IQ usually says that first we must look at sun/moon/venus/pluto/saturn/asc tight aspects between them, giving the conjunct/opposites/squares/trines a higher relevance than minor aspects
(quicunk/semisextile/sesquiquadrate/semiquadrate..etc)

If there are 3 or less planets of those aspecting each other -than it´s consider a week synastry,but if there are 5 or more ,then we are up to go to the asteroids.

IQ also says is very good if :
" double whammy aspects or linked aspects of:
Mars, Venus, Pluto, Karma, Valentine, Amor, Isis, Osiris, Cupid, Psyche, Eros and Juno."
(l am going to add AC to this)

My VENUS opposes his ISIS
My MARS trines his PLUTO
My PLUTO squares his KARMA
My Osiris trine his mars
My eros conjunct his venus
My psyche square his mars
My VALENTINE trine his AC
his VALENTINE trine my AC
his PLUTO sextile my AC
his ISIS opposes my AC
his amor quincunx my AC
my EROS trine his PSYCHE
my EROS trine his AC
his KARMA conjunct my APHRODITE
my KARMA conjunct his APHRODITE

Linked aspects:
1. his mars square my psyche and trine my Osiris
2. his AC trine my VALENTINE and EROS, sextile my PLUTO , opposes my ISIS and quincunx my AMOR.
3. KARMA square my PLUTO and APHRODITE.

DRACO:
My dr ISIS opposes his dr VENUS (0)
My dr eros conjunct his dr mars (1)
My dr psyche conjunct his dr venus (2)
My dr VALENTINE trine his dr VENUS (1)
My dr KARMA square his dr MOON (1)
My dr venus quincunx his dr venus (1)
My dr VENUS trine his dr OSIRIS (2)
My dr venus trine his dr Aphrodite (0)
My dr venus square his dr psyche (0)
My dr MARS opposes his dr VENUS (0)
My dr mars sextile his dr psyche (0)
My dr mars conjunct his dr cupid (0)
My dr PLUTO sextile his dr VENUS (0)
My dr PLUTO square his dr OSIRIS (1)
My dr PLUTO square his dr Aphrodite (0)
My dr PLUTO sextile his dr psyche (1)
My dr PLUTO trine his dr cupid (1)
My dr VALENTINE trine his dr VENUS (1)

Linked aspects
1. His dr VENUS quincunx my VENUS, opposes my MARS, sextiles my PLUTO, trines my valentine, opposes my ISIS, quincunxs my aphrodite, and conjuncts my psyche.
2. my dr PLUTO sextiles his VENUS and psyche, squares his OSIRIS and Aphrodite, and trines his cupid.
3. his dr psyche squares my dr VENUS, sextiles my dr mars and PLUTO
4. his dr Aphrodite trines my dr VENUS and squares my PLUTO
5. his dr cupid conjuncts my dr MARS, opposes my dr PLUTO
6. his dr OSIRIS trines my dr VENUS and square my dr PLUTO

links of/between: 1) Valentine
2) Isis and Osiris 
3) Eros and Psyche
4) Karma
5) Juno
6) Amor

my eros trine his psyche
his valentine trine my amor
his osiris conjunct my karma ********
his orisis conjunct my juno
his isis trine my Aphrodite
his Aphrodite conjunct my karma
his Aphrodite conjunct my juno
his psyche quincunx my karma
his amor sextile my Aphrodite
his karma conjunct my Aphrodite
his karma quincunx my psyche

I also want you to check for EROS and AMOR as well. Do they aspect each other or Sun/Moon/ASC/NN/Karma/Valentine ? These can further strengthen the relationship. You can check Draconic Eros and Draconic Amor too.

His KARMA sextile my NN (0)
my KARMA trine his IC (0)
my KARMA trine his NN (4)
His amor conjunct my venus
his amor conjunct my NN
His amor square my valentine
My amor quincunx his AC
My amor trines his valentine
My eros quincunx his NN

DRACO:
his KARMA square my SUN (0)
his KARMA square my KARMA (1)
my KARMA square his MOON (1)

My dr eros conjunct his dr sun (1)
My dr eros trine his dr moon (1)
Hi dr amor square my dr AC (4)

IQHUNK: Asteroid Valentine making a double whammy to Venus, Mars, Pluto, Neptune or True Node
I am adding AC here too. I'm sure IQ would agree that being a fast moving aspect it makes sense. He adds the AC everywhere else for this reason!

his VALENTINE trine my AC (2)
my VALENTINE trine his AC (1)
His Valentine trine my venus (5)
His Valentine semisextile my neptune (1)
My valentine sextile his Pluto (3)

DRACO:
My valentine trine his venus (1)
My valentine square his NN (3)

DRACO-NATAL:
His dr valentine square my N venus (2)
His dr valentine trine my N mars (2)
His dr valentine sextile my N Neptune (1)
His dr valentine trine my N Pluto (3)
My dr valentine square his N venus (1)
My dr valentine trine his N NN (0)

pls check out Asteroid Karma (3811) in your charts and see if it makes an exact aspect to either Ascendant or True Node or Osiris (1923) apart from the other asteroids. My spider sense tells me you two could be kindred spirits.

My karma trine his NN (2)
My karma trine his osiris (3)
His karma sextile my NN (1)
My dr KARMA sextile his dr AC (3)

any of these possibilities in a double whammy. His to yours and yours to his.
There are atleast 3 PRECISE DOUBLE WHAMMIES IN A TWIN SOUL RELATIONSHIP and in addition ONE PRECISE ASC to lovey dovey asteroid or personal planet aspect.

Valentine/AC trine/trine DW
Sun/venus trine/quincunx DW
Sun/mars square/square DW
Sun/mc trine/square DW
Jupiter/AC sextile/square DW
Neptune/AC square/sextile DW
Saturn/mars conjunct/trine DW
Pluto/moon quincunx/square DW
my AC sextile his UNION (0)
my AC trine his EROS (1)
his AC opposes my UNION (1)

DRACO:
his venus conjunct my IC (0)
my venus conjunct his IC (1)
my aphrodite trine his venus (0)
his aphrodite quincunx my venus (0)
my valentine sextile his MC (0)
his valentine square my MC (0)

In the love department, I value 
double whammy aspects or linked aspects of:
Mars, Venus, Pluto, Karma, Valentine, Amor, Isis, Osiris, Cupid, Psyche, Eros and Juno. Again l add AC.

My VALENTINE trine his AC
His VALENTINE trine my AC

DRACO
my venus conjunct his IC (0)
his venus conjunct my IC (1)
my valentine sextile his MC (0)
his valentine square my MC (0)
etc etc (see above)

When Ascendant, 5th Cusp or Moon makes exact aspects to the above, we can find couples with plenty of spice and yet happy in a long term relationship.

His AC opposes my mars
His Mars trine my venus

My 5th cusp is JUPITER
My Jupiter semi sextile his Pluto (0)
My Jupiter trine his valentine (0)
My Jupiter trine his eros (4)

His 5th cusp is MARS
His mars trine my Osiris (1)
His mars square my psyche (1)
My AC trine his valentine (2)
My AC trine his eros (1)
His AC opposes my mars (2)
His AC sextile my Pluto (3)
His AC trine my valentine (1)
His AC opposes my isis (2)
His AC quincunx my amor (1)