posted June 04, 2008 05:41 PM         

Would they be an odd lover or something out of the ordinary?

posted June 05, 2008 05:05 PM         

I have Venus/Uranus conj in Virgo.

As a lover, I am not odd. However, I can say when I was young and 'active', I was hot, responsive, enduring, could read my partner very well.....

oh big sigh..... I know it's still there somewhere

posted June 05, 2008 05:13 PM         

I just posted a piece of this in another thread but here is more info:

... Venus conjunct Uranus. This is an aspect of great beauty...When Uranus aspects the Asc. It gives a great personality, magnetic, it draws people to you.

Venus conjunct Uranus

(Betty Lundsted)

When these two planets are conjunct, it indicates some kind of tie between the psychological effect of the mother and the behavior pattern that she manifests during the individual's formative years. It is indicative of some kind of eccentric or erratic behavior on her part. She may have been tremendously creative or self-willed. The Uranus-Venus conjunction indicates that the mother presents herself to the native in some sudden and erratic manner which the native cannot relate to; even so, the native forms a similar behavior pattern because of the mother's behavior. This behavior pattern affects the part of life that has to do with the intellectual concept of love, how one is able to appreciate love, to receive love or to communicate it to others. This tie can bring out unusual talents as well as unusual perceptions of what love is, so it can manifest either in creative energy or in an abrupt attitude regarding affairs of the heart. This individual may make impetuous decisions and cause unnecessary pain to those around him. He will have to learn how to 'play fair' since his early childhood experienve taught that decisions are made before talking things over with the partner.

The aspect indicates that this individual may fall in love impetuously and fall out of love the same way. The concept of love will be unusual, unorthodox, and the lover may seem to be a very different type from the norm. Because the image of woman in the psyche is an unusual one, the loved one may be an unusual Uranian type who may not seem suited to this individual's outer personality. This conjunction may signify a lack of communiction, for all decisions regarding love may be made in an abrupt manner and without consulting anyone else. When a relationship problem needs to be solved, a person with this aspect thinks it through, majes a decision, and when any discussion of the problem takes place it is merely a social courtesy, for as far as he is concerned the decision is done. Relationships are ended with no warning, and the partner may be left in a state of shock.

posted June 07, 2008 04:22 PM         

I'm not that attractive.

posted June 07, 2008 07:37 PM         

There may be an element of truth with this Uranus conjunt Venus...

I do have unusual memories tied up with the decisions my mother made when I was young - Hmmm, and I don't have any children (Pluto in 5th house influence, as well). My relationships fit into 10% of what society is involved in (Mars in Libra, Venus in Virgo influence, as well).

Overall, Venus conjunt Uranus may have caused some very interesting learning situations, but with time and maturity the effect, I believe for me, has been harnessed as a source of strength in connecting me to the lessons learned in youth, and still feeling the exhiliration of emotion that keeps one feeling alive!

It's all good

posted June 07, 2008 07:56 PM         

I've heard some wild relationship stories after the divorce and he had a few more lovers after that then finally settling down again and getting married later on in life. He seemed to be happy in the last marriage he was in and became more of a home body.

He also had Venus Trine saturn but I think the Venus conj Uranus was much more stronger than that trine. My grandma has the Venus Trine Saturn and I found her to be steadfast in her marriage to my stepgrandpa - cause they have been married since 1963.