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Topic: What's so good about cancers?
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Snookie
Knowflake Posts: 66
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Registered: May 2008
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posted June 13, 2008 02:44 PM
 
Well , I've been looking at the soul union forums and whatnot ... and it seems quite a few people are interested in cancers.
Me, having mars+moon in cancer myself ... is wondering whats so great? All I seem to understand is "nurturing / protective" just seems kinda boring to me.So enlighten me, what do you see in cancers? IP: Logged |
Unmoved
Knowflake Posts: 2160
From: Born in S.Africa
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted June 13, 2008 03:35 PM
Cancers make excellent leaders. This is because their leadership style is attained from their ability to intuit their "subject's" feelings, anticipating people's needs on an emotional level. This doesn't have to be "nurturing" per se, but this could equate a boss who is sensitive to people's feelings and thoughts thus making his/her employees more confident, more loyal and much happier in general.Also a Cancer leader is not afraid to fight for his own. Nelson Madela is a Cancer. He was a rebel against the ruling power of South Africa. He was a bad ass, fought wars and probably killed a few people - but he did it for a cause; and like Moses he unleashed havoc in order to free his people. So, don't think that Cancers are soft people who just want to hug everyone. Hee. They can kick ass when need be - and not for any reason other than to protect those he/she loves. So I suppose, those who like Cancers are probably most atracted to the Cancer Prince Charming thing of having the potential of saving damsels in distress - or Amazonian kick ass ladies who can make babies, fight a war and make dinner. IP: Logged |
Lana29865
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Registered: Mar 2007
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posted June 14, 2008 03:40 AM
My dad is Cancer. He is the only man that I know who always remembers birthdays and always brings flowers. He keeps bringing flowers to my mother whenever there is even a small occasion for it (and even when there is not), and sends flowers on birthdays/holidays to me and my sister too. He is a gentleman. IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted June 14, 2008 04:31 AM
A leader born under the sign of Cancer  IP: Logged |
heart cakes
Knowflake Posts: 1561
From: canada
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 14, 2008 06:06 PM
one of the guys i have a crush on (there are two) is cancer rising and moon. lately in the past few years i've liked guys with venus in cancer or sun (falls in my 7th). there is just something so.. sweet about them. i prefer the quiet, kind of shy ones over the clingy and very moody ones though. anyway, they really care and pay attention to detail, sense the mood. great leadership ability too, as unmoved mentioned! they remind me of bears somehow; cuddly, but tough in a way.. also tend to be very hairy for some reason (anyone else notice this??!)IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 1301
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted June 14, 2008 06:49 PM
There is nothing great about Cancers. they are little insecure immature evil cry babies.IP: Logged |
heart cakes
Knowflake Posts: 1561
From: canada
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 14, 2008 06:54 PM
yeah but the flip side of insecurity is vulnerability, which (i believe) is necessary in love. the ones who manage their feelings well are sexy as heck! the ones who brood and tantrum are eyerollworthy though. which kind are YOU mr. seeing stars?IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4700
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted June 14, 2008 09:27 PM
I think Seeing Stars was being facetious when he said that.
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Natural111
Knowflake Posts: 387
From: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted June 15, 2008 01:08 AM
They can get you hooked and make you love them--you think--and then bam--you're even more confused. And when you asked them to go away, and leave you alone years ago, they don't, and each time you have an encounter with them, you like them more and more becuase he's becoming more and more human. And you forget that he has a glass of wine like you have a glass of water. And he smokes 4 cigarettes in one hour, every hour you're with him. Because he's so, in tune with his emotions and himself, becoming an evolved adult and...okay, I think I need to post in Soul Unions forum...but this is why there are so many posts about Cancer Men there...IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted June 15, 2008 02:20 AM
Well im a cancerian girl and i think im very moody.
Not all cancerians are protective some are too shy and can be scared of getting their claws dirty but i would say im very fiery for a cancerian and i would only kill or budge if someone touched my cat otherwise the rest of the world doesnt phase me. I only worry about my own responsitbilities which is like i said my cat. My grandad whos cancerian is an excellent husband but the worst dad hes very unforgiving and my mum and uncle dont like him because hes not as giving as my taurus grandmother. My mum says im selfish which i belive im not i just say im logical. lol But otherwise im a very good cook i can be a very romantic partner as well. Though im a girl i love to do little cute things and pick a flower for my boyfriend and smile hehheeh. Every star sign has good and bad maybe people feel secure with cancer because theyre more attached than most signs and people tend to like the intensity and security a cancerian provides whethere thy are female of male
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ASC: Virgo Sun: Cancer
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Cancer
Mercury: Cancer
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Unmoved
Knowflake Posts: 2160
From: Born in S.Africa
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted June 15, 2008 02:25 AM
Well, in my life my cousin who is also my best friend is Cancer and she kicks ass, literally and figuratively. And my other friend, a Cancer also, is a little clingy and possessive but I love her. They are very fearful people though, but I think with wisdom they learn to let go of the fear.Evil? No. Never! Crybabies... sometimes.  All I know that in my life right now, a Cancer has my back 24/7. She was born on the 18th of July, just like Nelson Mandela.  This Cancer, my girl, is a fighter! She won't take cr@p from people. Oh, and our fights are so ridiculous. We go all out in claws and end up hugging each other, telling each other how much we love each other. Ha. So, yeah, maybe we are crybabies. I am Cancer Moon. I am moodier than her and she is the Cancer Sun, while I am the Cancer moon. She can pretend to smile, I can't. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 1301
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted June 15, 2008 02:33 AM
heart cakes.. your not likely to see a vulnerable side to an insecure Cancer it will manifest as not appearing vulnerable at all because of the fear. The ones that manage their emotions well are sexy? which ones are those.. cause as far as Im concerned all the well known cancers dont hold their emotions well at all
maybe I was being facetious.. but then again maybe not .
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted June 15, 2008 02:52 AM
Tell you what I like about Cancers, they are able to tell you how they feel. That might not sound like a big deal, but I live in England  If Stars is right and what the Cancer in question feels is comparable to a whiney 2 year-old, at least it is out there and you know and can deal with it if you have to. But I have to say I know plenty of Cancerians and I can't think of one I would describe as cry-baby whiner. But then I do say sensitive things like, "don't go crying on me", so that maybe be why, lol, just kidding, I did say this to a Cancer but it was just to make her laugh. She's going to cry mid-sentence all the time that's just the way she is, as long as it isn't a manipulation trick because I will get annoyed then. IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted June 16, 2008 01:37 AM
i use to be a cancer sign fan, but im probably gonna be a "hater" for a awhile. i guess what i saw in him was that he was forgiving of my human flaws, i could be myself with him. i could be emotional, without it scaring him...it seemed to bring him closer actually.
i also liked our conversations, he use to make me laugh like a kid. his thoughts always fascinated me. i think what i liked the most is the moments he let me into his head or life...i know he rarely lets people see who he really is, and i guess it always took my breathe away when i was inside.IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
Knowflake Posts: 1301
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted June 16, 2008 02:12 AM
writesomething. did you let him know these things.. this kind of stuff would send me over the edge. in love that is.. a girl who digged and understood me and most of all .. let me know. my ex had venus retro so I wasnt given much credit for the things I did.IP: Logged |
cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2819
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted June 16, 2008 09:31 AM
so writsomething , what actually happened ?
how this transition from lover to hater ?
your story seems interesting . IP: Logged |
ghanima81
Moderator Posts: 1785
From: MAINE! :)
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted June 16, 2008 01:03 PM
writesomething,I know what you mean completely... I never would have thought that a Cancer man would be the one to show me how to love... Everything I have ever said I wanted in a mate.... COMMUNICATION being #1 to me, he gives me... and I know it takes a lot for him to share. It took 8 mos. for him to have real trust in me. It's always like that for me (triple Aqua, I suck at emoting), but this is an amazing experience, and I feel so lucky when he shares things with me... Like I'm being given a very special gift. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. All the interps of our synastry say that we will not work out... and that I am due the dissapointment of really having my heart broken... I know it could happen... but I do not regret a thing, and will always be glad I have had this with him. CANCERS ROCK!  Ghani IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted June 16, 2008 07:55 PM
Cancers are nutty in a nice way. Not dizzy, but just nutty.IP: Logged |
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