posted June 20, 2008 03:40 AM            

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coral!! where've you been all these months? nice to see you again! yeah my parents are cancer and cap moon, and they're like night and day.. haha.

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awww you noticed nice to see u as well!

I've just been very busy. I have popped in rarely but didn't post. This year has been the busiest yr I've had for a looooooong while lol

posted June 20, 2008 04:34 AM              

that makes total sense, of course. this whole thing is so interesting cuz it's got me pondering at a very deep level why people fall in love, or get into relationships. it's interesting since we haven't really spent a lot of time together in person, but i remember his vibe and though i didn't used to be attracted to him at all, i am now. and it must be the conjunctions (everything in our charts is conjunct except our moons), but we just FLOW so well and i feel like we really understand one another. though, i know more about him since a lot of his work and writings are published on the internet.. so in that sense, i do know him better (and therefor have a clearer sense of how i feel about him than he probably can about me). but when we talk, which is frequently enough, there's just such an easy back and forth and i just feel like i completely get him and admire him so much!

posted June 20, 2008 08:31 AM            

You really do sound so excited about this, heart cakes!!

posted June 20, 2008 04:05 PM            

(when I was single) If I was talking to somebody and they were like "oh, I don't know, I may jet out to Cali for like, a year..." I'm so not into that at this point in my life. I've been there and done that. Now, the bf and I will be driving to a store, or the beach, and he will say things like "what do you think of that house? Wouldn't you love a porch like that? OH, and the yard is perfect for a dog." THAT is so much more my speed... LOL

I guess I look at relationships almost like partnerships in business. Working together to attain mutual goals in life. I mean, what's the point of struggling against each other's purposes? Been there and done that, too...

I have a good mixed bag in my chart aside from all my Aqua energy, so I'd say that I balance out pretty well. So does he, so it's nice...

posted June 21, 2008 12:51 PM              

apparently, it looks as though capricorn venus men pretty much NEVER reveal their feelings unless they're 100% sure, and know you're 100% committed to them! so i guess that means i'll probably never know how he feels, even if his feelings are leaning toward me, while we're still getting to know one another. but my taurus moon compliments both his venus and his moon nicely. i feel i have the patience to wait, as long as it takes. and i don't think my feelings for him will go away, but obviously my patience has to contain an element of detachment or i'll drive myself bonkers in the meantime!

posted June 21, 2008 08:53 PM              

ive been seening a cancer asc moon placed there for several years.

just wanted to share some experiances with yous..
The closer he gets to me the more he runs, from his own feelings as im quite relaxed and not needy, but he knows how i feel about him and the duration of our relationship should show him my commitment i would think...

im aquarian sun and venus
he is aries sun aqu venus

so we are both detached and independant people, who talk to each other like buddies lol
never do we use each other in the convasations it allways,, generalized... took me a while he was just like me in that.. doh (slaps head) aqu is so vaige at times.

first time ever we had a convo about where we were headed... dam all i said was i loved him and i got the big speach and further follow up convos with it to.

all i said was 3 little words to this cancer moon man and hes thinking i want to marry him.. since reading this thread i see it now as thats what love means to him.

He put up his shell and said he wasnt wanting things to change and if i did he would have to think about ending it as he doesnt want to lead me on anymore than he has.. der 7 years.. men! grrr

said hes not saying he doesnt want a relationship with me just not yet.. hes
like mid 30,s only just moved out of home..

hes really a change phobe.. doesnt like it, is that the same with all cancer moon asc men i wonder.

once i had said im loveing what we have and dont want to change it either, but i would be wanting more at some stage from him only not sure when myslef.. he dropped the shell and became very loveing and started talking to me in a loveing way to also demistrating it.. venus in 8th house hehe