posted June 19, 2008 09:36 AM         

Could anyone tell me more about this aspect in synastry? I have this with someone - his Saturn and my Sun at 0' deg.

I do feel that it's karmic but also kind of heavy. It's a very strange feeling overall.

On the bright side - if there is a bright side to Saturn.. it's part of a grand trine in fire signs - My Saturn in Sag trine his Jupiter/Sun in Leo, and trine the Saturn/Sun conjunction in Aries.

I was just wondering about other people's personal experiences with Saturn aspects, specially the conjunction!

posted June 19, 2008 12:57 PM         

My (elder) son's Saturn is conjunct my Sun. To be more specific it is sandwiched between my Sun and Ceres. Could there be a clearer message from the universe?

His Saturn is part of an Air Grand Trine with Mercury and Uranus. My Sun/Ceres is part of an Air Grand Trine with Mars and Uranus. So as much as I feel I have a leadership role now, the pupil might become the master.

posted June 20, 2008 10:55 PM         

It leaves you feeling:

**imposed upon?
**karmically fated?
**controlled?
**uncomfortable?
**secure?
**positive?
**negative?
**in awe?

posted June 21, 2008 01:52 AM         

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So as much as I feel I have a leadership role now, the pupil might become the master.

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lol Blue Moon.. Does he ever act bossy?
Maybe on the positive side of things Saturn can be supportive of the Sun.
I've heard it's quite common to find Sun/Saturn connections in familly members, because they signify strong karmic bonds.

Dooza, yeah I think it is a 'hold' in a sense.. I'm not sure whether I can really untangle what it means in this synastry since we have a Sun/Saturn double whammy. Both aspects are at 0' deg.
Except, my Saturn is trine his Sun.. so maybe I'm more accepting of faults in him. With his Saturn conjunct my Sun he seems to want me to be perfect, but it's impossible to never make mistakes.. Everyone does - The Saturn person isn't very understanding though, and they give you the "I'm very disappointed in you, young lady" look

It leaves you feeling:

**imposed upon? somewhat

**karmically fated? I'm not sure, but some things point in this direction.

**controlled? He is incredibly controlling but I think it's also out of fear.

**uncomfortable? hmm not always - occasionally he makes me feel judged.. but most of the time he seems caring/concerned - beneath the whole critical nature.

**secure? the trust is there.

**positive? **negative? bit of both.. it seems deep overall.

**in awe? I do have a lot of respect for him.

posted June 21, 2008 02:07 AM         

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The Saturn person isn't very understanding though, and they give you the "I'm very disappointed in you, young lady" look

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posted June 21, 2008 02:42 AM         

Our conjunction is very close as well - My Sun is at 12' Aries. His Saturn is also at 12' Aries.

I'm sorry to have brought back bad memories with this thread. It sounds like, in your situation - he was being very negatively-saturnian. I can see traits of what you described in Mr Leo. It's probably not as bad yet, but it feels like the relationship might become closer, or too close - maybe suffocating lol I won't let this happen though.

posted June 21, 2008 02:57 AM         

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Actually I wonder whether maybe more ppl haven't replied to this thread because they've had such negative experiences
yikes

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posted June 21, 2008 04:02 AM         

Positive is a good word ~> I've got a reason to get out of bad in the morning no matter how bad things get.

The pupil is likely to surpass the master in talents but that won't be hard.

posted June 21, 2008 09:58 AM         

Anyone?

posted August 07, 2008 07:43 AM         

I'm bumping this because I've had a baaad day today because of this person.

Actually I can't even type about it

posted August 07, 2008 07:50 AM         

It leaves you feeling:

**imposed upon? VERY MUCH SO!!!!!

**karmically fated? I hope not.

**controlled? He is still incredibly controlling, so this hasn't changed.

**uncomfortable? YES! very much so, today.

**secure? NOPE. Just hurt.

**positive? **negative? - negative.

**in awe? The respect is declining.

posted August 07, 2008 08:16 AM         

lol I really shouldn't with the Capricorn in my chart. Saturn might get angry

posted August 07, 2008 08:12 PM         

Here is one interpretation I found, and it's pretty accurate as to how it felt living through it. We never got to the "great beauty" part of it. He was the Saturn.

Sun Trine Saturn

To make a wood flute that produces beautiful notes, the carver has to cut away pieces of the wood. If you think of the wood as being alive, this is a painful process, but the result is great beauty.

In your relationship, the two of you are like the carver and the wood for the flute. You will force each other to see truths about yourselves, some of which you don't want to see, and some of which you would rather not change. But in the relationship, you will both be forcing and encouraging each other to make those necessary changes in your life to be happier and more productive.

posted August 08, 2008 03:23 AM         

I am all Water.. She was earth+water.... all other connections were amazing..

BUT, that Saturn in Virgo and her being Virgo Sun with other planets in Virgo really put the relationship on such a high introvert track, we had to separate. Astrologers say the same bond is strong for long term marriage. However, for me, the FUN and Brightness was missing with Sun conj Saturn.

If you wish to get more success on this aspect, then try to be very organized and methodical on your personality everytime you are with him.. it should help.

posted August 08, 2008 04:00 AM         

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Astrologers say the same bond is strong for long term marriage. However, for me, the FUN and Brightness were missing

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Never been married, have you, mblover?

posted August 08, 2008 04:35 AM         

Honestly, after that, I never saw myself with a Virgo woman.. I am already a 5th house controlling Scorpio and then this Saturnine control, it was even painful for me to become a controlling devil..

and, Virgos love to be controlled.. It took three consecutive days of discussions on every single detail for me to clarify to her why we were not made for each other.