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Red Rose
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From: Bronx, NY 10466
Registered: Jun 2008

posted June 25, 2008 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
I tried not to call but, i was checking if he would answer and he did, si i said to him, "why dont you ignore the call or text?" he said the ringing is annoying, if the phone cuts off he calls back until i answer to tell me to stop calling him, I want a Cancer man born bet june 22-july 21 to answer me on this, honestly and what they would do

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amowls
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From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007

posted June 25, 2008 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
You should probably go back and edit this for clarity, I'm having a really hard time trying to understand what you're trying to ask.

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Red Rose
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posted June 25, 2008 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
I am asking do u guys think he is playing a game, I deliberately call or text to see if he answers,cause if you say to someone do not call and if they call or text you, shouldnt you ignore them? He answers the call to say "dont call me".

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GemGemGem
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posted June 25, 2008 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
I honestly believe that if a person says, "Don't call me anymore." then you should respect their wishes.

If he's playing games, then he's not worth playing with.
If he's serious, then he doesn't want you to call, so don't.

He's not worth it, just let him be.

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amowls
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From: Richmond, VA USA
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posted June 25, 2008 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
I'd leave him alone for a while. Wait for him to contact you.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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From: New York
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posted June 25, 2008 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message
its all in the tone of his voice.. the way he articulates the words. thats where you find your answer.


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Red Rose
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From: Bronx, NY 10466
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posted June 26, 2008 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
I response to seeing stars 7.2 comment, he will say "am i speaking spanish or english, dont you understand" But if i call he still answers.....Well the last time I contact him was the day after the argument, I havent since, I found i am pregnant today and im afraid to contact him, so i told his brother.....................Yeah what a predicament!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well if he comes around i will be here, if he dosent then part of life, LOL

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stillatlarge
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From: TX. USA
Registered: Apr 2007

posted June 26, 2008 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message
He definitely wants her to call. Why wouldn't he just block her number if he really didn't want to hear from her and why would he answer? Guys play games like that worse than girls.

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Red Rose
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From: Bronx, NY 10466
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posted June 26, 2008 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
He full of **** then, i said to him ignore the call or text, he said the phone is ringing, for example he recently went into a mood swing and I didnt hear from him for like 2 days and i left a msg to say i have something important to ask him, within 2 mins he called back, and i asked whats wrong, he said he has money issues, he dosent want to talk. but he really wasnt answering the phone for that 2 days.

He dosent know that i am deliberately texting and calling just to see if he is gonna answer, and he does answer, even if it is to say "stop calling"

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stillatlarge
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posted June 26, 2008 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message
Yep, I know guys like that.

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writesomething
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From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006

posted June 26, 2008 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
he sounds annoying...if i was feeling really immature and childish, i would call him, but have one of my guy friends in the background say my name and tell me to get off the phone just to be a b1tch....but youre pregnant...so maybe thats not a good idea...are you sure youre pregnant? man thats gonna be drama if thats the case...especially with a cancer...

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Red Rose
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From: Bronx, NY 10466
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posted June 27, 2008 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
Well I have tought a lot about everything, and now he is having his brother call me, I told hime its done and im not keeping the child and I am done!!!!!

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stillatlarge
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posted June 27, 2008 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message
This is disgusting. Seriously, when it took that turn I was shocked. Now I don't know if this is even a real situation. You are a piece of work. Maybe the child, if there is a child, is better off up for adoption.

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writesomething
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posted June 27, 2008 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
I hope you guys are able to have a REAL discussion before you decide anything final.

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Red Rose
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From: Bronx, NY 10466
Registered: Jun 2008

posted June 27, 2008 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Red Rose     Edit/Delete Message
This is actually a real situation and baby I am living it, but it is part of life, I have gone through worse than this and I survived.

Still at large, are you a male or female?

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