posted July 03, 2008 05:48 AM              

the following is the magic recipe for troubles in any relationship, romance including...

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Gold is easily associated with the month of July, especially when you think of the golden fields of grains ready for harvest. As the sun shimmers over the waters of the lake, it casts a golden hue over the land. Even the fireworks of July 4th celebrations are rife with explosions of golden hues.

Gold is the color associated with church altars, jewelry, and all things that elevate you to a higher status. From a spiritual perspective, gold represents the God-Mind within each person, and the independence that you receive when you connect to this Higher Power.
Since July is a month for celebrations of independence, it is a perfect time to free yourself from thought patterns that burden you.

One extremely successful way of freeing yourself from burdensome thought patterns is through the use of this Golden Altar Visualization:

Breathe yourself into your center. Center the consciousness in royal blue and the rest of the body goes into a gold color. Visualize a golden altar in front of you—it can look like anything you need an altar to look like. On the altar you place a person that you need to forgive and release; start with the father figure. From your heart chakra to the heart chakra of that person, you connect with a golden energy line between the two of you. Then say the following:

I forgive you and release you, from all negative experiences between us,
now and in the past, whether real or imagined.
I forgive you and release you.

As you say the last line, visualize the person fading off of the altar in a flash of violet. Then you can put the next person on and repeat the visualization. You might do your mother next. But, no matter how many people you place on the altar, you always put yourself on last, and forgive and release yourself. When you fade yourself off of the altar, put yourself in brown.

You will probably need to do this exercise several times with the same people. One day, weeks or months from now, you will do the exercise, but will not be able to see the person on the altar anymore. They will not materialize. When this happens, you know that you have released the image from the thought pattern. Then, everyone in your life right now who reflects that thought pattern for you will either change the way they deal with you, or they will not be in your life anymore.

Over the weeks and months that you repeat this visualization, you will see certain people leave your life, and others come in. Those who come in will be more unconditionally accepting of you and more permanent. This is like physical exercise, the more you do the better the results. Be consistent and persistent. You are the only one who can control this process.

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remember.....especially with soulmates family or lovers - old patterns of hurt,guilt and sabotage are repeated to balance the karma.

the above method has helped me and a lot others change their relationhips and the posible outcomes.you dont have to hurt or get hurt...u can just release the past thru forgiveness ...by forgiving the other who hurts you and yourself for hurting and getting hurt...thats what Linda taught in Star signs.

also the meditation that i posted in Soulunions is another very powerful tool

hope that helps...

posted July 04, 2008 06:44 PM              

I will try it tonight before l fall asleep.

May i ask what you meant by "ok... i have had it?"

posted July 05, 2008 10:23 AM              

I understand her play on words!

I am not hurt though in a sense as l allowed myself into my situation of free will... l am simply sad. Not THAT sad though cos l know it's not over

posted July 05, 2008 10:28 AM              

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"ok... i have had it?"

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